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lilitalian last won the day on August 2 2010

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About lilitalian

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    Just Getting Started
  • Birthday 01/20/1969

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    az
  1. I recently joined the site swinglifestyle...trial registration to give it a whirl. Anyway, after putting a profile up I was inundated with mail within the first 2 days from people that didn't even fit our criteria, and my profile didn't even display a picture as of yet (I guess the site takes a day or so to review your pics before displaying them in your profile). Eek, who are these people that are so eager to meet with such minimal information. I begin to wonder what I might be getting myself into. Anyway, I (i.e. my wife and I) are/am genuinely interested in pursuing this lifestyle, yet feeling excited and nervous at the same time. We are newbies and very leery of the lack of authenticity and forthrightness we might further encounter. Our problem might be further complicated by the fact that we are, at least initially, only seeking men (for my wife to enjoy), and, unlike couples, many single men seem to mindlessly crowd about when they hear the word "sex". We are patient and looking for the right type of individuals. Any recommendations from more experienced couples or individuals on what to look for in ads to determine if someone is being genuine and truthful, better sites or places in which to participate, how to best communicate to maintain discretion, and how and where to actually go about meeting in person? Thanks for listening :-)
  2. Great feedback! Thanks very much. One last question...We are visiting Vegas again within the month...in your opinion, is there a particular club that stands above the rest? I have been reading more positive reviews about the Red Rooster but see that it is a bit off the beaten path. Thanks once again :-)
  3. My wife and I are very new to this lifestyle. We have only had one experience... involving my wife giving oral pleasure to another man while I watched. Anyway, I am very hooked on the idea of watching her play some more with other men and she is very open to it as well. We have attended a couple of the swinger clubs in Arizona and Las Vegas but left the clubs very discouraged. These clubs seemed to attract older couples and men, many of which are far from fit. The younger men were all non-english speaking hispanics and tended to stalk (my wife prefers anglos and loves the physique of black men). We are a white couple in our early 40's, physically fit and are seeking like-minded and, somewhat, physically fit couples and men. Are we just looking in the wrong places or are our standards unrealistic?
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