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justinandtricia

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About justinandtricia

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  • Birthday 02/08/1983

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    Indiana

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    justinandtricia
  1. Like I said. prudes. I mean c'mon, this kind of crap can be expected in the only state in the union that you still can't buy alcohol on Sundays. It is just all the old people clinging to beliefs that will soon be forgotten. To be honest, the shit I did in college at parties makes on-premise clubs look like a Disney movie. And the funny thing is that all the crazy stuff that goes on is being done by these narrow-minded old people's grandchildren that they are trying to protect from these kinds of things.
  2. Sexual oppression is invading someones privacy. How else would those not in the lifestyle know what goes on within the lifestyle, they are sitting at the front windows of their condos in their retirement villages with a pair of binoculars spying on us. And they call us perverts.
  3. Eh, personally i dont thing "race" is the appropriate word to describe the variations in the way people from different geographics looks. These variations are merely and adaptation caused by several generations of being centered in a specific environment. For instance, the africans are dark skinned because a large portion of africa is dry, arid desert where the african people are exposed to a harsher dose of sunlight and UV radiation. The darkening of the skin is a result of generations of this exposure and the genetic line adapting to the harshness of the environment. Just as the asian community that either lives on the highly elevated china plateau, or on the islands in the pacific, both environments have a fairly constant high wind that the genetic line for the asian people adapted to by narrowing the opening in the eyes to protect from the elements. And us european descendants who come from a fairly temperate region, not alot of sunlight, quite a bit of cloud cover and rain, therefore never needed the dark skin for protection from the sun, nor the slanting of they eyes to protect from high elevation winds. So the mere thought that these adaptations make one person inferior to someone else is absurd, when it has in fact done just the opposite, these variations have made each individual superior in a certain way to handle one thing that nature has to throw at them. The funny thing is that the early slave traders realized this, saw that the climate of the Southern United States wasnt that different from that of africa, and knew that Africans would be able to handle long periods of work in the climate than any european. So in essence, their decision to bring them to the americas to do their work for them wasnt one of racism, but one of circumstances. They saw a people that were superior in a way that they were not, and capitalized on it. Now forcing people from their homes and taking them half way around the world to work as slaves was still wrong, but the real racists are the ones that came after the war was over and the slaves were free set out and make their own living doing what they could naturally do better than any european man. So the european man retaliated with slander, violence, and well racism.
  4. Isn't that what we are doing by making places like this, that way the kids dont come home early from the movies and find mommy and daddy with another man and woman doing things that the kids shouldn't see?
  5. I guess i just struck a nerve of insecurity in somebody when i answered them that way. I mean seriously though, I spent 6 years in the army, I have several life long friends of hispanic, african, asian origins, friends close enough that we would simply crack racist jokes at eachother just to get a laugh at eachother and held no hostilities to eachother. And from my experiences from the army, black men seemed on average to be better than the rest of us in just about every aspect. They were more physically fit than us, passed their p/t tests in the first week of basic, made the rest of us look like out-of-shape slobs, they had the hottest wives and girlfriends waiting for them back home, and having to share a communal shower with 100 different guys living in a barracks, we couldnt help but notice that they also were very much better endowed than us, and they knew all of these facts. Now my question is why would anyone in that position be at all insecure enough to have to get snippy when they get rejected by one female? Yes we could have worded our reply a bit better, but the bottom line is that I am sure they understood what we meant, and were just trying to reassure them that it wasnt a decision based on malice or prejudice of another race, but a mere sexual preference. I feel that one of the biggest turn-offs in this lifestyle is when people are insecure with themselves.
  6. You might want to get ideas from people that like to attend these clubs, ask them what they like about the ones that they currently go to, and what you think they could add to improve the experience. I think it would be awesome to raise the capital to start a business like that. Maybe find partners(other couples that are financially well off but cant afford to do it alone) and go in to business together. The only major thing you would have to watch out for is trying to profiteer. If swinger parties and clubs is something you enjoy, and thats the reason you would want to open one, the go for it, just make sure you dont get greedy with it, use the member dues to improve on it, keep it looking nice, and adding features that will draw more people. I have seen a few of these clubs that looked nice when they first opened, but the owners were in it solely to make money and could care less about the condition of the club, everything was all dusty, various stains everywhere because they didnt replace furniture, bedding, etc. it was just a nasty hole in the wall. So there you have it, successful running of a place like that would start with: 1. Keep it nonprofit and use all dues and procedes to improve and maintain the club. 2. Location is key, keep it out of city limits so zoning and privacy isnt an issue, but close to a major interstate exit. 3. Ask your members regularly what they think you could do to improve it.
  7. Well, I already decided to just ignore people that dont accept my original generic response to reject people, I was just wondering what everyone elses take on the situation was. I mean I was as honest with them as I could possibly be, which is what they wanted. But i guess Jack Nicholson was right in that movie when he told Tom Cruise "YOU CAN'T HANDLE THE TRUTH!"
  8. I just wonder exactly what kind of zoning that an on-premise club would fall under. Its not bar(even though theres liquor there, its not being sold but brought by individuals so no liquor license is required) Its not a strip club(nobody is getting paid to bare their ass), I mean the only thing they could really zone if for is maybe a dance club, or night club. I guess the U.S. zoning commission needs to go back and think up a new zoning law targeted to on-premise swinger clubs.
  9. lol, i can understand "accidentally" leaving a webcam on, but showing all your friends. that would have been the straw that broke the camels back. I mean at 14 years old I had no desire what-so-ever to catch my parents doing anything. (shudders) So i couldnt imagine what was going thru this kids head when he not only watched it, but showed it to his friends.
  10. I dont know, I mean my first response was that we werent interested for "personal reasons" I know that by just saying "He's Black" would be the worst thing I could have said. But since they persisted to know exactly why(maybe they were new to the whole thing and we made them insecure) i gave them the reason. I just hate the whole subject and that little wild card people like to wave around when they dont get their way. I can guarantee that if a couple was only looking for a black male to play with(which there are plenty of those out there), and all other applicants need not apply, then that black male isnt gonna bitch about them or call them racist because they only like black guys.
  11. Well at this point, I think a piece of wood with elastic properties and his bare ass are in order. Seriously, if my kids did some shit like this, I would beat the holy hell out of them, then send them to therapy. Nosey little shits.
  12. Yea, I can see where that would be embarrassing for Sue, I mean i know my parents were in the lifestyle before they got divorced(for reasons unrelated to swinging). And no matter how accepting we were of eachothers lifestyles, I couldnt imagine actually bumping in to them at a function of that nature. Nobody wants to see their parents naked, let alone having sex with eachother or other people, thats the stuff of nightmares.
  13. I would suspect that they lie, even if the intention is to engage in a meeting. They are banking on the disappointment of you wasting time energy and money on a hotel for a sexual experience being more unbearable than the disappointment of you finding out that they are fatties or ugly or whatever it is they are lying about. Basically they are hoping you will fuck them anyway, even if you arent attracted to them because you have already invested into a sexual encounter. I admit, my weight fluctuates, I'm nearly 6ft tall and run an average weight of about 140 pounds(which is really skinny for a man as tall as I am) but its mainly because of the regiment of prednisone that I am on to control crohns disease(not an std, its a hereditary immune disorder where my immune system attacks the food i eat as it passes through my digestive track) so my weight usually fluctuates between 135 and 160 pounds depending on my dosage of immune suppressant steroid that i take. So it is possible to have dramatic weight fluctuations of 30 to 40 pounds, but very, very rare and unlikely.
  14. Ok, so my wife and I were browsing our emails from SLS and received one from an interracial couple that wanted to arrange a meeting. We politely declined for personal reasons. But did not divulge those reasons. So they repeatedly asked why, and after 3 emails of their probing us for our reasons we finally broke down and gave them the reason for our rejecting them. "Dear , we respectfully decline your request for a meeting based on the fact that one of you is of the African persuasion, please note that this decision has no bearings of racism or bigotry. The Mrs. simply does not like black men or women on a sexual caliber. It is a personal preference like not wanting to have sex with people that are overweight, or not liking to hook up with people that are 20 years older than us. We do realize that in these times, this is a touchy subject in our society, but one person can not help what they are and are not attracted to. Thank you for your interest and good luck in your search. Well needless to say, they decided to pull the racism card on us and make us out to be a couple of ignorant rednecks that hate blacks and are probably KKK members. I mean seriously, what could I have possibly done wrong in my post, or did i do everything right, but this guy was just butthurt that he didnt get a chance to stick his rod in my wifes various holes?
  15. I can agree to with that, with my military experience, I came to realize that every single redundant rule and regulation ever passed that I had to abide by was only passed because some dumbass actually did something to merit its fabrication. For instance, the rule that a soldier can only engage in sexual intercourse in the missionary position is an actual regulation. I researched it and the reason it was passed was because some soldier actually broke his dick while engaging in an unsafe sex position, putting him out of commission for several months. So they passed a regulation that the safest sexual position to prevent injury is the missionary position, and if caught performing the act in any other position besides missionary could be punished with a court marshal.
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