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Olivesman

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About Olivesman

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  • Birthday 03/02/1938

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    couple
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    New England

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    Olivesman
  1. Our market is being heavily hit by newspaper and TV advertising for various Sandals resorts throughout the Caribbean. The ads are heavily "party, party" (nudge, nudge). Does anyone have any feedback about the acceptance of the LS at any of their individual resorts? I know the "Beaches" chain is strictly family-oriented. Any info would be appreciated.
  2. In our process of deciding how far to go in the lifestyle, we have gone to a few clubs where we may be accused of being tourists. But we were surprised by the groupies hanging outside an open door. Reminds us of people who show up to stare at fires or bad car accidents. Since our main purpose has been to meet and talk with people to help us make up our minds and maybe play on our own, we will certainly look in at an open door but we certainly wouldn't stand there with our tongues hanging out. Bad manners knows no boundaries!
  3. Read your post and nearly bit through the cigar! I'm taking a wild guess that your earlier experiments in sex toys, S&M, role playing etc. were suggested and pushed by your husband. Now he has a real hair across his __ and he is demanding, regardless what you think! Push or drag your man to this website to help him realize just how far over the edge he is hanging with your relationship. If I sound cranked up about this, it is because years ago, when I was much younger and hopefully a lot dumber than now, I too was obsessed with a wild idea. It turned out to be rude, crude and cost me a fine lady. Olivesman
  4. We are in our low 70's and while we are still new at this, most people have been quite welcoming. Since we like to dance, we have had younger couples telling us how great we look out there. (Maybe they were afraid we would collapse on the dance floor). And in spite of our declining years, we have received offers, if we had wanted to pursue them at the time We have gone to several different clubs and while we have been welcomed at most, there are a couple where the cliques are very apparent. Just like any other social situation. The Olives
  5. We find that since we are older and have white hair (ain't gonna dye it!!), we have people coming up and congratulating us for still breathing after we come off the dance floor. Now we may be newbies but we have enjoyed ourselves at the clubs we have visited- in spite of stares from others. But then we have met some very cordial people. So we go for fun, whether it's between us two alone or with those couples we have had conversations. Maybe we are not ready to fully play, but if and when we do, someone is going to be in for a very pleasant surprise! Age seems to be more of an attitude than chronological.
  6. If she is as new and nervous as you say she is, surprised she didn't go through the roof! The guy should be sat down and verbally horsewhipped- a real dumm stunt. Olivesman
  7. May we make a suggestion? First, like Olivesman, you think too much and are your own worst critic. Why not have a mini-vacation where you leave on a Friday, drive the distance to a club, try Friday evening ( usually a meet & greet), see if you like it, sight-see, loaf, make love and go back to the club on Saturday evening. And come home on Sunday. One, you will get away. Two, you and your bride will stick your toes in the water and three (most important) you two will be able to communicate at a level you didn't think possible, even if all you do is look and listen. If nothing else, you will discover that no one will bite ( unless you ask). The Olives
  8. We are new to the lifestyle with no real experience and are moving slowly. More a case of feeling comfortable enough naked in a crowd, performance fears- usual newbie phobias. Going to clubs works well for us at this point, since we can watch, try new stuff by ourselves, and not put anyone out. Most of SLS contacts have been with people who are expecting more than we want to do at this time. Taking the Board's advice and moving at the speed of the slowest member ( which is sometimes Mr. Olive!!)
  9. As certified - certifiable (choose one) newbies, many thanks and compliments to Newpants and nola40scpl for their attitude and gentle treatment of greenhorn couples. We have been concentrating on the clubs, mainly because we can move at our own speed and do not have to explain why we are not leaping into the pile. We have been contacted by some very nice people on SLS, but even with their good manners, we sense they want to get it on ASAP. Once you are an experienced bike rider, you tend to forget how many falls you took before you got your balance. We still need training wheels a little longer. Olive and I are slowly moving to the jumpoff point. May we meet a couple with your understanding and sensitivity!
  10. This all came up last August and after much research and discussion, went to our first club in October-strictly look and see- and had the marvelous luck of talking to an experienced couple who spent a good part of the evening answering our questions. So while we are still deciding, thanks to that assurance from that couple, we are on roller skates, compared to others.
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