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ruggedteddybear

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  • Birthday 12/04/1985

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  1. I had photos up, even added a face photo for a while. However after tons of messages from "couples" in which the husband contacted me and the "wife" wasn't feeling good blah blah blah I deleted it. Not saying the site is nothing but fakes but all I ran across is fakes....not looking to hookup with a gay man who lies about his wife and puts pics of her up without her knowing lol. Newpants; yeah there ARE a lot more single women out there than swinger women.... problem is finding one that isn't going to use a guy for money or run around behind his back. Whats the difference between dating a girl who uses you for what she wants and sleeps with other guys....wouldn't a married swingers wife do the same and at least be up front about it with no games.
  2. Thanks for all the suggestions and comments. I added a little more to my profile and also uploaded another photo (standing). Doesn't show up yet, waiting for approval.
  3. Chicup you are right about mainly above average physically looking guys having the better chance. I wouldn't say that I am out of shape but I definetly don't have a six pack either. I am the type who is always out of the house doing something, not a couch potatoe. Plus my occupation is a logger; poor health and out of shape doesn't work too well in that career path... The Fuse I went ahead and set up a page on that site (genuine10 is the name). Picture isn't the best in the world and the profile is pretty blank. Have some things I have to get done today so I pretty much just threw it out there for the opinions and edit later.
  4. I guess for me the main reason I am looking to get into swinging is for two reasons. 1) I've always been a long term relationship kind of guy but so many people have their priorities out of whack this days it's hard to find a down to earth mature girl. I have just decided to take a break from trying; leave the drama alone for a while. 2) We are all human and have needs. As I said I am taking a break from the whole dating scene for a while and not afraid to admit I still need to feel that connection with somebody. I refuse to go after slutty drunken women in bars, or hook up with a STD hostess for one night. The swinger deal would be a way to avoid that mess. A way to still build a relationship (friends wise) with good people and hang out. When and only if both parties feel chemistry then the sexual side of things could come into play. It's kinda hard to describe and don't want to give anybody the wrong idea. Basically its the best of both worlds...Good conversation, good company, new (true) friends, and the sexual aspect of course.
  5. No I don't have a profile on SwingLifeStyle.com :\ sorry. And yes I meant only a face picture and/or G rated body. I would feel more comfortable not sharing on the public forum though. Just a habit I have of not putting my picture "out there" for anybody that may pass by. Not that I don't trust loyal members that come here but rather the occasional idiot that pops in
  6. I am a single male and whenever I try to start a conversation with a couple through a personals ad everything goes well (I would like to think I am a very easy to get along with guy) until we exchange photos. Now in my opinion I am a attractive guy but far from special...just an average every day guy. I was once 300 lbs so throughout my younger years my self-esteem has taking a huge blow. I have lost a good amount of weight but still seems like my appearance is the ending factor in conversations. Is it possible I just run across fakes who are only wanting pictures? If anybody would like to see what I look like I would really appreciate an honest opinion. Only G-rated pics out of respect unless you ask otherwise.
  7. Women lie about weight and guys lie about penis size...just the facts of life. Both seem pointless because you can't cover it up forever unless you never actually intend to meet in the first place. To me its all about personality. Honesty is huge. A larger couple that is straight forward and open/honest that you can be comfortable with and know there are no secrets is much more appealing to me than a ken and barbie with horrible personality traits. As many have stated...if they will lie about one thing they will lie about other stuff to.
  8. I have tried it before to try and get into the swinger lifestyle and found out very quickly its just full of flakes. 99% of the mw4m is just some dude either posting pics of his wife that she doesn't know about or finding pics online and demanding you said pics just so he can collect them and never reply. Anybody who isn't willing to exchange atleast a couple emails or any replies with links or that even seem remotely unreal I never reply to. Needless to say I don't reply to ANY of the responses lol.
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