Hello,
My wife and I have been talking pretty actively about a fantasy or two, off and on for a couple years. it's kind of come to a head recently, and we are now very curious about possibly going through with it. See, my wife has only been with me, but I have somewhat of a history. Not alot for my age I think, but she seems to think it was alot. I knew something had been bothering her for quite awhile, and I finally got her to admit she's been wondering what it'd be like if she had played the field a bit. Now, luckily for her, I guess, I'm actually pretty turned on about arranging a mmf threesome, or even just some one on one for her. Even just talking about it leads to a very exhausting night. Great stuff. I'm not a particularly jealous guy as long as my wishes are respected and I know that our loyalties are bound to eachother. However, she does not feel the same way. She's actually jealous of the idea of me even seeing another woman naked, afraid I'd prefer the other woman over her. I assure her that I would never do anything she is uncomfortable with, and I am ok with the idea that she would not want me to engage in activity with another woman. Now, she feels guilty about that, and it makes her not want to fulfill her fantasy because she feels selfish, but can't shake the jealousy. The second problem is I would prefer to meet other couples, for various reasons, such as I like to hangout with other couples on a regular day, and there are the other games that could be played I'm interested in (same room/same couple, strip poker, maybe even watching her in a threesome with the other couple), but I feel that my not being able to attend to the other ladies needs should they arrise is rather rude and unbecoming of host/guest relations. Perhaps I'm just over analyzing it, but could that jealousy ease up after she's maybe had a couple other partners to build up her self image? Alot of her problems are do to her feeling undesirable by other men. Any anecdotes or advice on the matter from any couples who had a similar issue would be much appreciated.