PTTimeDC

Rohancid, to tell you the truth, the best way to do this is to establish a relationship with single guys. Find guys that she is comfortable with, that is of utmost importance, and take your time with them. We have found that long term relationships with a few single guys usually results in everyone being comfortable with bareback. I would never, never do this at a club or a house event. there are simply too many people, too much potential for problems, too many dishonest people, for this to be feasible for us. Plus, for something this intimate, it is usually hotter, we have found, to have it done with a familiar guy in the comfort of our home or hotel. Hope this helps.

That is a great one!!! Last May the wife pulled a 5 man train. It was one of the greatest things we had ever then or since.

We had the same fantasy, so we fulfilled it in a slightly different way. The Ms. was hired to be the entertainment at a bachelor party where she stripped, provided lap dances and a special favor for the bachelor that turned into most of his friends joining (2 left because it 'wasn't their thing'). In all 4 of the guys enjoyed her and she enjoyed them. The strip club gangbang still remains one we'd like to do

This has the smell of a bs thread all over it. Just my initial reaction. IF it is legit: 1) that was a fast turn-around from denial === red flag 2) she did it extremely intoxicated === red flag 3) she was in denial until you approached her AGAIN about it in the same day === red flag Verdict: you guys need to lay off the swinging until you do a LOT more talking.

You can find diamonds in the rough on CL; IF you are willing to be bombarded with emails. For example, we like having guys for Ms. PttimeDC, so when we post to CL we get 75-100 emails per day. We always post in the ad a specific subject line; that way we can easily delete any spam we get. I will tell you, we do NOT get any extra spam from CL...not that we don't already get from AFF associates. Over the years we have found some REALLY hot guys for the Ms.

Thank God we don't live near you or we would get our feelings hurt LOL, I think, considering where you're from, that's a legitimate approach. Here in Alabama it's not worth the expense. Too many people are not what we're looking for....Montgomery is the fatest city in the country and Alabama is the fatest state in the country. So, something like your "meet us at the social" line doesn't work because we're not spending $100 for a social full of people we're not attracted to. Now, if we can ever get to the Emerald Coast socials that's another story I just think you have to take it with a grain of salt. There are a lot of good/legit free members & easy ways to weed them out. You have to deal quick and heavy with them (usually in one template email we use) & you, as the free member, have to be willing to risk a little bit of privacy to establish yourself online. We have plenty of certs on SLS so that helps us be perceived as real in that community with guys and most couples, but some couples still aren't sure. Those are the folks you have to take the extra step of allowing them to call, etc. To each his/her own; we would just caution about ignoring free members because they're free. TRUST ME; there are MANY paid members on SLS (especially couples) who are nothing more than the male sneaking a credit card payment past his wife so he can troll the internet for ways to be unfaithful. Payment does not equal 'legitimate'.

Ms. PTTimeDC agrees that the bigger ones are "squishier" than the normal (6") ones. I'm as average as it gets, except for the size of my cumshots, and have no problems with size. I don't care what a guy is packing as long as the Ms is happy with me and what the other guys do to her.

We have been free members on there for years and years and never have had a problem, even though we currently live in a small city. You have to be smart about your public profile and as long as you're perceived as REAL, the experienced swingers won't mind.

There's your answer right there. If you and your wife are happy, and you're not hurting anyone else, then live and enjoy. Congrats on embracing what makes you happy!!

Those issues go deeper than swinging. Swinging should only be for those couples who are completely honest and secure in their relationships, capable of talking about ANYTHING and EVERYTHING together. If you keep anything from your spouse, you need to stay out of this lifestyle. My wife has been with a number of single men, together with me and on her own. It's hot and something that it incredibly fun and invigorating for the two of us.....and that's because we TALK.

Yes, those lying about their relationship status are very easy to pick out, to the point that we don't understand why they just aren't honest about it.

Oleg & Lena, what if the attractive couple hadn't shown and the drunk, nasty couple was your "date"? Would you have at least gotten out of the car and thanked them for showing but that it wasn't going to work?

We know other couples who have met others for a first date and they brought their children along too!!! Uh, utter lack of good judgment there, lol. Why would anyone ever expose their children to complete strangers who may or may not be all that good of people?

What is it with that sort of stuff?! We haven't met someone that hostile towards his wife but we have met a wife who was smoking hot, with a husband who wasn't, who was the driver of all activity and had forced him into the lifestyle. We had a 3 couple party at a social back in our room (beginner's mistake) and it was very awkward when her husband didn't want any part of the other two wives because he wasn't "into" swinging because he was only doing it because his wife had threatened him in the past that if he didn't she would leave him for a younger man.

We all have them so we thought it would be fun to ask fellow swingers for some of their craziest first "meeting" stories. Sure, there are liars out there who show up weighing 50 lbs more than they claim or are 10 years older than what their pictures show. But what other things has everyone experienced that was awkward and uncomfortable at the time, but which you now look back at and laugh about?