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  1. Well my wife has told me she would still like to try again, but we have to stay within our boundaries. I know she has the fantasy of having an MFM at some point. For me I like the idea as long as I was able to direct the action which is wanted I to do last weekend at the club, but didn't happen that way. As I pointed out already, when first began the idea of this lifestyle I wanted to see her get excited. I think she realized after reading the post in this thread not to let one uncomfortable incident prevent us from having adult fun on occasion. At any rate thanks again for the advice.
  2. DigginIt, actually you hit on everything spot on as too how I was feeling. My wife and I did talk more last night and right now she wants to stop as she feels it's not morally right for us to be engaging in this activity. I know we have talked about moral issues before and we both have had mixed feelings. Maybe that was a sign that we shouldn't be even considering this type of life style. I think this incident really got her thinking of whats right and wrong in her mind. I am not going to push it with her because she has been so understanding and supportive through all of this. If sometime down the road she wants start back up again, then we will talk about moral issues and go from there. The one thing I do not want to happen is my wife and I to get a divorce over this, which isn't even an issue at this point as we both love each other very much. For us we just wanted to give this a try to add some added spice to our already amazing marriage. I think many others wanting to get into the lifestyle can relate to this. With that said it's best we put a stop to it for the time being. Thanks to all for your advice, most appreciated.
  3. Hello to everyone, My wife and I went to a swing club this past weekend for our second time. For the first few hours we had a blast as we danced to the live band that was playing. During that time we talked to a few couples, but none really got our attention. Around midnight, a couple we were both attracted to approach us and started chatting. After about 30 minutes, the wife of the couple asked if we wanted to go up stairs for a full swap. My wife and I talked about having one before, but weren’t ready and decided to stick to soft swap at most before going into the club that night. My wife asked what I thought after the other wife asked us. My first reaction was no, but I was attracted to the other wife and I knew my wife was attracted to the husband. I told the wife, let’s give it a try and if one of us gets uncomfortable, we could stop. Both wives started off kissing each other, but not much else. Then both wives went to the others husband. At this point, I was doing ok and my wife seemed to be enjoying herself. Over the next few minutes a lot of oral was going on. The thing is as much as I found the other wife attractive, I just found myself wanting to be touching my wife with the other husband involved. The reason we got into this in the first place was for me to see my wife enjoy herself. I told the other wife that we needed to stop and I told my wife and other husband to stop, which they both did immediately. We told them we were sorry. They both seemed ok with it, which we appreciated. The reason I told them to stop was because I got this feeling that the other husband only wanted my wife to himself and that’s not what we wanted. My wife told me she actually wanted to play more with the other wife and play more as a group. The first time we went to swing club, that’s what had happen as we all played as a foursome. I guess maybe we should of told them that before going up there. Here is my questions, was I wrong for wanting my wife and the other husband to stop? Should we have stuck to our soft swap boundaries that we set before going in? Should we stop going to swing clubs altogether because of this incident? Any advice we be most appreciated.
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