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savcpl912

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About savcpl912

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  • Birthday 09/11/1961

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    Savannah, GA
  1. Just had to toss a hat in the mix. We don't do singles at all. Mrs Sav can play on her own and so can Mr Sav. But not with singles. They have nothing to lose in it. We do.
  2. Not sure anyone is realy qualified in any situation. But I do notice something in your story that worries me. He say he wants other women but nothing about you and other men. When that chance for you both to experience it he was happy to bail. Not kknowing more it seems he wants to but doesn't want you too. Just a thought.
  3. Hi Rose.. It all sounds so very confusing. the wife and I have been married 23 yrs now and only been in the LS for 2 yrs. We do find it fun and enjoyable. However we talked about it a number of years before we started. My asking of course but never playing the guilt card. That in itself is hard in only a 3 yr relation. I do have to wonder why you tied the Knot if he still wants to play. I do not recommend the he play and you not scene. We tried that and it didn't go to well. Even in a secure relation the 'fair' aspect seems to pop up and goes one sided. Hold your ground and see why he realy wants to play the field.
  4. We were in the same boat. It took us years for wife to start. In the end I let her go on her own a few times with guys and play to get comfortable with that. She also has a very high sex drive and loves to play. Once she played on her own a few we started playing with couples and the mfm. She loves it all now.
  5. I have to chime in here. I have had a similar instance. What it boils down to they wanted my wife n I can surely understand why. But I (the guy) am the average one. Not the bad boy and all just fair looking. But in the party setting the average get left out. My wife n I have talked on this and now at any setting if both of us are not enjoying it then we are done.
  6. The question I am missing here is was she swinging but not allowing you to? If this is the case then the hard feelings will just grow and sooner or later boil over. It will if one side feels the other is unfair in the act.
  7. Rules are rules and no is no.. Everyone has to agree to the rules and if not then all stops. Not sure if I would have stayed in the bathroom or went to the bar till they got out. Hard to judge the dynamics of the situation when you are not in the line of it.
  8. We had a similar situation. We started as a couple and it has turned into a HotWife senario. Not sure how it came to be but it has. She got so caught up with 1 guy that she was writting love letters. It was hard but it had to be talked and limits made. We ended pulling back some and this one is no longer allowed and she either has 0 or more then 2.
  9. We have found that it seems to be more the woman is Bi but wont come out in the profile and say it. And the hubby doesn't want to share either. So many times its lies in the profile.
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