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  1. Swinging will not mess up a good relationship, but it will sure as hell will not save a bad relationship. Jealousy and swinging does not go hand in hand.
  2. OK so I've started this thread and it's been a while... Yes, it happened. After I started this thread, I was contacted by a single gent who knew us from a swingers website. He said he is open for experimentation. So it happened. Yes, I sucked a dick! Not to completion though, but I did suck it. Did it make me feel weird. No. Do I feel like a freak. No. Was it as gross and as difficult as it was maybe perceived to be. No. Was it exciting to feel him and experience his sexual energy. Yes. Did the wife enjoy it. Yes, she also said, it looked and felt so natural that we did it together. Am I now suddenly a bi-sexual man. NO. I so much love the female body and especially boobs and can't describe how horny it makes me. Have to admit, that I secretly undress many women with my eyes, that is how horny they make me. When I look at a man in a normal situation, I don't even look at them in a sexual way and I generally don't find men attractive. Will I do it again. Yes. Maybe not with anybody. But I liked the personality and attitude of this gent and he had the correct personality to go with his rock-hard dick. I don't think I would easily go down on anyone, but in a threesome situation with the wife, with this specific gent...Yes I would do it. I realized that it is all about sexual energy and how we experience it. If we feel comfortable, we would be open to more liberal experiences. I've got to admit to myself that immediately afterwards, I wondered why I thought it would be so hard to do and why I put so much thought into it. It was so easy and natural. Even the wife is so happy for me to broaden my horizons.
  3. I'm as straight as an arrow and never even looked at another man in a sexual way. We play as a couple and have had regular 3somes (mfm) which she thoroughly enjoy. The focus is always on her, giving her pleasure and making sure she is having fun. Recently we were in a 3some with this gent and while we were playing (foreplay) he asked me whether I have ever been touched by or touch another man myself. The answer was no. He then dared me to touch him, which I then proceeded to do. Funny enough, it was not so weird as I thought it would be and although it felt strange, at the same time it felt familiar. I then proceeded to keep his dick in my hand and point it towards her mouth while she was blowing him. He did the same with me while she was blowing me later. Suddenly it was not strange anymore and I even guided his cock into her pussy later on. It all felt so natural in the situation. Fun was had by all 3 of us and it did not gross me out or even the wife. We (me and wife) had a discussion afterwards and she said she found it actually very kinky and she would like to see me in a male-male experience. Ever since it has been playing in my head and I don't know what to think. Touching is one thing, but actually going down on someone is something totally different (or is it not?) Although I still don't look at men in a sexual way, I found myself thinking about this a lot. A part of me says don't do it, you don't find men sexually attractive, but a part of my tell me to not to knock it and try it at least once and then make up my mind. The wife said that she became bisexual by also experimenting and only later become attracted to females as she became accustomed to the situation. Do you think I should proceed and experiment? I don't think I have the guts to take a cock in my mouth and suck it, but a part of me tells me I have the guts and should go ahead. I know it would be big visual turn-on for the wife and I would do anything to turn her on...just not sure about sucking a cock to turn her on. LOL To be honest, I'm very nervous.
  4. The lifestyle will not a save a bad marriage, but it sure as hell won't hurt a good one.
  5. There is an old saying: " Swinging won't fix a bad marriage, but it sure as hell won't hurt a good one"
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