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Elena last won the day on October 4 2009

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  • Birthday 07/25/1970

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    Couple
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    Texas
  • Occupation
    OTR Team Drivers
  • Swinging Experience
    5 years

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    Elena15

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  1. I don't know exactly how you would describe me. LOL I have found that I am definitely bi. That being said, I will ALWAYS choose a man over a woman. I enjoy the feel of a woman. I enjoy going down on a woman and enjoy her reciprocating. Women are very sensual creatures and I enjoy that aspect. But when looking at someone's profile, for me, I can say the woman is totally hot, but if the husband doesn't do anything for me, then we pass. In the end, I want a man. If a profile says VERY BI, then that is great, but I have to make sure there is an attraction on my part with the male half of the couple and the same goes with the female half having an equal attraction to Hammerhead. Bi play is great with other women as an appetizer, but what I want at the end is to have great sex with the male half. To me, and to Hammerhead, that is what we are looking for. Complete full swap where we are each equally attracted. Me to the male half and him to the female half.
  2. Hammerhead here, the wife and the male half of a couple we play with used to be co-workers.... we never played together because thats both couples rules, no co-workers! brings too much trouble with it! That being said, we were close friends and have a lot of fun together. Then when they transfered to a city close by, IT WAS ON!!!! No longer co-workers! Been having fun together ever since and boy was it worth the wait!
  3. First cousins, third cousins, cousins by marriage? I don't see any real problem with it as long as you are using protection. As mentioned above, the main concern with issues like this is reproductive abnormalities by having sex with a close relative. As long as you are having fun, and not hurting anyone, then go for it. That makes me think of a cousin of mine. He is a hottie and so is his wife. AND, we are only cousins by marriage, not blood. Hmmm...LOL But they aren't in the lifestyle that I know of...... Oh well.....
  4. You have two couples from this board that are going to this party. Put your sexy clothes on and get out of the house! You dog is NOT a reason to not go. Simple solution. Kennel him/her overnight and then pick him/her up the next morning. Kennel costs are around $20 a night. Well worth the price to give you a night away! And if you don't have a kennel close, you said the club was 1.5 hours away. I know you could find a place enroute to the club. Also, don't let the distance to the club keep you home. Our business has is covering 1200 miles a day. The drive to the club is a piece of cake! There! All problems solved! Go have fun!!
  5. We started with MFM then went to MFMF then ended up with a FMFMF. LOL We like it best, so far, when it is MFMF, two couples.
  6. I heard about that in the news too. That just makes me sick. That judge was competely out of bounds with his reasoning for denying them. Stuff like this just enrages me! Sorry..... Back on topic now.....
  7. We dated in high school back in the 80's. Now we have been married for 12.5 years and together for 14. Been in the lifestyle for about 6-7 years I guess.
  8. Very good point! I hadn't thought of it that way. It would be a way to go and not be under any pressure to play because, well, she can't. Good thinking Fuse!
  9. Extremely interesting. We have always been the kind of couple that wants to be friends with our play partners. I'm not talking best friends that you spend any extra minute with. But the kind of friends that you can BBQ with, go to the bar with, go to the lake with, go to dinner with. Whatever. Then we can have awesome sex when the mood strikes. It doesn't have to be everytime that we get together, but of course the more often the better. LOL I just find that when you are friends, things come more naturally. One couple that we usually play with are the type that we can laugh with while we are having sex. Mainly because there is that comfort level there. I guess I agree with the OP in what we are looking for.
  10. Ahhh. The joys of being a female. Some women, and men, don't care about that. I for one do. LOL So I think you have a solid plan. Here is to hoping it works out that you are able to go!
  11. I am mixed on this. I understand people saying flat out NO, and to find someone else. However, this is someone she has had a sexual relationship with in the past, not an emotional relationship. I can understand her being more comfortable with him. Also, the OP stated that he has met this gentleman and likes him, so that is a plus. They have been married 10 years and are secure in their marriage. I think he needs to really think about what his wife is saying. If she can truly convince him that for this step, this gentleman is the right choice, then he has to believe that she knows what she is talking about. Also, from what I am understanding, it wasn't really the men that were making her feel dirty, but moreso the fact that she was doing it more for her husband than for herself. Now she is wanting to do it for herself and for "fun", not to save this marriage. If the gentleman in particular made her feel "dirty", she would not have mentioned him as a possible candidate. Just my .02 cents!
  12. Elena here. This is why I LOVE this man! Here is an example. I like to be on top. When we are with the couple we usually play with, I usually do this and go to town. But I very rarely do this with Hammer. The reason being is that Hammer is VERY well endowed. It isn't very comfortable for me. The male of the couple we play with is considerably smaller and there is no discomfort. If we switch to missionary I would MUCH rather have Hammer because he litterally fills me up and I love that feeling. With the other guy, in this position, it doesn't do a thing for me, because quite honestly, I don't feel much when he enters me that way. He just isn't very big in the length or width category. We still love playing with them and I'm not going to discount him because of his size. Swinging is about the all around sex, not just one aspect of it. Anyway, this just goes back to communication. It is a MUST have!
  13. Goodness! What a mess! I would have to agree with the others and just gently tell her that regardless of her moral beliefs, that her children are grown and married and only accountable of their actions to themselves. Mom has no control over them at this stage in life. Maybe you can tell her that she could sit down and talk with them and let them know her feelings, if she feels inclined, but that she also has to understand this is their lives, not hers. A mother is supposed to love her children unconditionally. That doesn't mean they always have to agree. I wish I had some better words of wisdom, but that's all I have! Edited to add: Also, if she is religious, just tell her to pray for them, but not to judge. Do not judge lest ye be judged yourself. (That is what HH said to add in.)
  14. Although the situation has not come up for us, we have discussed it. I am still on the fence about it because we have always played together. I am certainly willing, but as we have talked before, I expressed that I wouldn't do it unless I was absolutely sure that he would be fine with it. I know that if he tells me he is, then he is. So maybe in the back of my head it is me wondering if I would be fine with it. I think I probably would, but like I said, the situation has never come up. Of course with either of us, it would have to be someone we are extremely comfortable with. Moreso for me than him. I would want him to completely trust the person I was with, as I would want to trust them also, just in case something were to go wrong. But then I would never put myself in that position because it would be someone we already have a relationship with. Probably in the next year or so, I will be staying home more while he is out on the road. At that point, this situation could take place. We would just have to see what happens then. I do find the situation hot though. And I know we would have simply amazing sex when he got back home! But with him being out on the road, how could I return the favor? The people we know are all local. You never know, we could make some friends within the next year though that would allow me to return the favor and give him some playtime with someone else while he is out on the road. Hmmm We better start meeting people across the US with the intention of me being able to fix him up! LOL
  15. Oh yes. The mid blowing sex afterwards. That is always the best! I don't have much to add since you are already getting great advice from everyone else. You guys are really communicating and by doing so, you have went from "Nope, not again" to "When is the next party?" Great job! Keep on talking!
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