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UnicornChasers

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About UnicornChasers

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  • Birthday 10/14/1977

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    Couple
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    Las Vegas

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    UnicornChasers
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    UnicornChaser
  1. I'd just like to point out that if people are using BMI to determine if someone is overweight... just don't... especially for males that do muscle building workouts or physical labor. According to BMI I am smack dab in the middle of overweight, which if you look at my pics, you would know they are wrong. But on topic, we hate all sorts of lying on profiles, it wastes our time. Weight, and more accurately, body composition is very important to us. We are both in shape people, and anything over HWP is just not what we are into. The other thing that annoys me, are profiles that are single females and turn out to be half of a couple. Even if you yourself made the profile, advertise who is going to be involved so you don't show up on my search list. Sorry, brief aside .
  2. I think our status on the poll is pretty well known by now :P.
  3. It was a strip club, I had 2 jack and cokes, we were waiting for 30 minutes before the girl, spent an hour with the girl. In my job it's a very bad thing to have a DUI, so I make sure I have plenty of time to sober up. Probably longer than I actually needed, 2 jack and cokes, over 2 hours, however, I don't take chances with some things. So yeah, we weren't really there to find a playmate, we were there to get lap dances and to have some mommy daddy time (this was really our first date in like 5 years). We were there to have a good time. Now, that's not saying I won't drink with playmates, however, I won't get drunk with playmates. My normal MO is a beer or two, and that's it. Even when just at BBQ's I stop drinking once the food it served.
  4. Him: Libra Her: Scorpio She's the hot head, and I'm the peacemaker.
  5. Meh, that's a bit of a strange situation, as the girl did give us her phone number at the end of our session, which I promptly put in our phone, she wanted to go out for dinner the next night. The thing was either it was a made up number on her part (it only went straight to voicemail) or I, being slightly inebriated, put it in my phone wrong. She did want to go hang out on the strip right after her shift (we were her last for the night) but I needed an hour or two to sober up, which was why the next day was settled on. We'd like to think I put it in my phone wrong, but most likely she was just playing the part, it's just strange to see it happen at the end of the night.
  6. You know to be honest we aren't really sure what we want. I mean we really haven't done this before, so we only have a vague idea of what we'd be interested in. It's like dating for the first time all over again, except with two of us dating a third. Also, she doesn't post because she doesn't feel the need to do so, and I can tell you once the ice is broke, she is very warm and likes to talk, and talk, and talk. Our experience in the club has my mind at ease on any sort of hesitation on her part, because there was none. She's actually a bit annoyed that people are judging her (we are pretty nonjudgmental people) off of her participation on a message board. I think we are still feeling things out. I think we want to feel wanted, and are very willing to return the favor. I think we really need to dump the kids somewhere and get out again like we did before, because not a damn thing will happen if we don't get out of the house again.
  7. So you asked, what do you want, what are we looking for. We have similar but different answers as you will soon see: Her Answer: She's got to be attractive to me, she can't be stuck up either, she wouldn't want to hang out with us anyway if she's a snob. My Answer: Easy going, needs to be her own person, beat of her own drum and that sort of thing. Someone that can be a female friend to my wife, girls nights out and stuff like that, malls, whatever it is adult women do together. Someone that doesn't want to change people and doesn't want to be changed, but wise enough to make adjustments. Someone that we could be friends with even if we don't become playmates. Oh, and yeah, she's got to be attractive . So it seems I have more of a person in mind, but Kit (the name I will use for her here) has more of a body.
  8. This the wife talking now..... Being out in a crowd of strangers is one thing. BUT I am not passive in the bedroom in the slightest! Its the 1st contact that I have problems.. I am not the type "atm" to just walk up to ppl and start a convo. Once that step is out of the way I do come out of my shell.
  9. Thanks for the advice, took out the age stipulation because what you say makes sense. Although something that fun4Ds said in another thread I may change up what we are looking for once the wife (I did it again !!!!) and I sit down and talk about it. So it looks like it's mostly tweaking from here on out... Thanks!
  10. Any and all advice you'd like to impart we would love to read. We know it's attainable, as I said we have "fans" in a few places but not near us. It's just that when I read the term unicorn on some website or another it stuck with me, probably because both my wife and I are into Fantasy. The whole mythical creature aspect plus the idea of a quest to find the mythical creature kinda stuck with me. So UnicornChasers as a handle was born. But please anything you'd like to share we'd like to know. You can either keep it here or bring it to PM's. Thanks again.
  11. Frankly, I hate society, and the rules and norms it imposes on other people. This shouldn't have to be hidden in order to function in day to day lives. But hey, that's not how life works so I guess we just have to deal with it. What can we say, the wife and I defy the laws of tradition on a daily basis, this is just another of those defiances. I've discussed it with my wife. We already joined SZC since it's only 30 bucks right now for a lifetime membership, and since AFF seems to have the largest selection it will probably be worth the 6 bucks a month for the Gold membership. We may also join SLS for a lifetime membership as well, but we've had family visiting us this month so we spent a bit more money than we normally would have, so it will have to fit into next months budget. I agree that you can't make omelets without any breaking eggs, and yes I know I would be spending money on our unicorn, just as if I was trying to court a single female, but in the back of my mind it's really hard to justify spending money in order to have a chance at spending more money to perhaps interest someone in an evening (or more) of coitus. I'm not poor (or cheap) by any means, but part of why we aren't poor is we just don't go spending money. But 4D you are right, if I can justify paying 60 bucks a month for TV (which pretty much only the kids watch on a daily basis) I can justify 6 bucks a month for our entertainment. Anyway the reason why I'm focusing mostly on her approaching, because most advice I've found so far in this realm points that the female as the icebreaker tends to work much better than the man approaching first, the idea is, it seems more like the female's idea (which in this case it was), and it's less of a threatening situation to the other female. You know, the more I read this the more it may be that I'm just over analyzing the whole situation and not just going with the flow (I can go with the flow in the situation, but I'm a very logical based person, so if I have time to think about something, I tend to overthink it). Also, I'd like to take this oppertunity to thank everyone for all the advice, I'm glad we came here, and I'm glad I asked this question.
  12. That's all good advice, and we will have to try some of this. However, after reading it my wife asked. "But how do you do it, how do you just walk up to someone and start talking?" So it's more of a breaking the ice thing for her. Maybe it's fear of rejection, maybe it's just she's not the social butterfly type and doesn't really know how to even start. I think perhaps she just needs to start breaking out of her comfort zone so she gets used to the idea of approaching someone to hook up. I am also thinking that maybe I should take the lead for a bit and show her how to break the ice, how to just walk up to someone you don't know and start talking. I tell her that Hello works wonders, but I'm not sure she believes me. Yeah, here in Vegas there is probably plenty of opportunities in vanilla clubs and the like. As I said above, I think at first I may have to be the icebreaker and start the ball rolling, at least until she gets her confidence levels up to approach people on her own. We are already the freaks in our vanilla circle (as small as it is). We need to get out to the clubs to start that route, and yeah, the stripper route is definitely a path we will explore (and have already). The only no-go in the whole thing was the solo mission, although, she said if she can figure out how to actually approach people, she may go on trolling missions where she brings them back to the house after going out alone.
  13. Well first, we don't really have any real local friends, we've only lived in Vegas 6 months, so the only people we know are my co workers (which I must remain very vanilla in front of). So the majority of our focus is on internet sites. Heck even every one of our profiles state that if there isn't any sexual chemistry, we are always up for expanding our social circle. The unfortunate side effect of internet sites is most cost a small arm and leg to be members of in order to send/receive emails and the like, and I don't want to spend 100 dollars on a site and have no activity from the site. We were thinking of trying the club route, however, that will have to wait until we work out a babysitter. In fact I found this board by looking at another board on a local club website. The funny thing is, we do have four single friends that would love to visit us. They happen to be all across the country though (two of them are 6 hours away from us driving in opposite directions on the same highway). Met them all through an online game that we had no intention of meeting anyone through.
  14. This question is coming from my wife. She was always one of those types that don't really go up to people or "put herself out there". So she was wondering how does one approach an attractive woman to strike up a conversation. It's not like you are just trying to make a friend, you trying to make something much more. She's just looking for advice from other females/couples that have done this, and how you go about doing it.
  15. Well, to be honest the reason we thought it was real was it came out at the end of the session, like in the last 15 minutes of the hour... Also, the number does work as in it does go straight to voicemail, and texts go through as well. Hell, I don't think either of us would mind if she was turning tricks on the side, this girl would be worth every penny. But I see your point. I can take that part out. Now about the third person, that really comes from the fact that as I said in my intro here, I am the faster typer of the two of us, and as she will tell you, I have an easier time coming up with a good way to say something. However we are in this together, and I don't want anyone getting the impression that she doesn't know about what I'm doing, or that I'm some single guy trying to make it sound like I'm married. It's along the same line of thought that when approaching a unicorn in public, it's better for the woman to make the move, because a guy doing it generally comes off as creepy, or like she's just coming along for the ride, when in reality, she's the one in control of the whole situation. So I guess I can go into first person mode the same way I do on these forums. I can just put a disclaimer at the beginning. The wife, yeah, that's just how I talk I guess, maybe replacing all the "the" with my along with the third person changes. I'll also try to cut some stuff out, but I'm a somewhat detail oriented person, and I don't want to false advertise, even if my accident. Either way I changed it up, I took out some superfluous information, but it's still fairly long.
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