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1curiouscat

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About 1curiouscat

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  • Birthday 08/26/1984

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    M.female
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    VA
  • Swinging Experience
    Brand new

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    Lookingfora3rd757

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  1. We have talked extensively about it, and Mr Cat said the reason he watched for so long before he joined in was to see how he really felt about seeing me with another guy. He said there was no jealousy just a "Wow that is HOT" lol. We were both a little nervous that jealousy would kick in, but I think because it was us both playing together, and the guy wasn't anyone either of us knew (no emotional connection whatsoever) it was just FUN. He said he really liked seeing me enjoy myself with another guy, and of course is enjoying the side effects of me not being able to keep my hands (and other body parts to myself:lol:
  2. Thank you for the words of warning, and rest assured we aren't rushing into anything. Life circumstances dictate our play dates have to be few and far between anyways. We have talked extensively about it, and we want our next encounter to either be a fmf or a couple. We want to sample the buffet before we go back for seconds on anything As far as whether or not we will play with our third again...its undecided at this point. We both liked him, he was very nice and respectful so its not out of the question.
  3. Well I joined this site about two years ago looking for info and how to go about getting into all this fun. I am happy to report after two years and a few bumps in the road we took the plunge last thursday night. We had two guys that we had been in contact with through text and e-mail and had gotten comfy with, so those two were our first choice but neither was free So we decided to place an ad on Craigslist and see what happened. It was all my doing, he let me lead completely. So I put the ad up, described us, who we were and what we wanted, then waded through the responses until I found a guy I liked the look of and seemed like a good fit based on e-mail response and texting. So I told Mr Cat, and he agreed with my choice. We decided to set the scenario up that I would shower and get all "girly" before our third J arrived, and we would both greet him and if all were comfy Mr Cat would head upstairs to take a shower while J and I went to the living room. Mr Cat wanted to walk downstairs and find me and J involved in each other, his fantasy was "catching" me with another guy. J liked the idea, so we went with it. J got our address and said he would be here in about 30-45 mins. I got into the shower and dressed in a cute lingerie set with a easy access dress over top. Mr Cat actually joined me and we had a little "pregame" warm up we were so hot about the idea of this fantasy becoming real at last. Then J got here and we both greeted him, I nodded to Mr Cat so he went upstairs. I got a beer and offered J one and we went into the living room and sat on the sofa. I was soooo nervous and unsure of what to do at first. Luckily J had experience so we talked for a few mins, then he said if we were going to be busy enough for Mr Cat to catch us we needed to sit a little closer So I giggled and scooted over towards him, he took my beer and put it down and wrapped an arm around my shoulder and kissed me. We kissed for a few mins, then he pulled me into his lap, and at that point something just "clicked" for me, and I got really into it. We made out some more, then I took his shirt off, and he pulled my dress off (Unbeknownst to me at the time Mr Cat had already come downstairs right as my clothes were coming off and was watching) and unhooked my bra and started sucking on my nipples. I enjoyed the attention for a bit, then kissed my way down J's chest to his waist band, unbuckled and removed his pants and put a condom on to start doing oral. So I am on my knees in front of J sucking on him, and then my husband comes up behind me, removes my panties and started fucking me from behind...needless to say from there things got hot and heavy taking turns fucking me and being sucked off. The only downside was Mr Cat had requested they both cum on my breasts, and while Mr Cat did, J was feeling too much pressure and was unable to cum We just laughed and joked about it, saying next time we will get the porn style end we were aiming for. So it started out mainly being to fufill Mr Cat's (and mine, but mainly his) fantasy, and turned into us both having a really great time with a nice respectful new friend. I don't think we could have asked for a better first time. I felt so incredibly sexy and attractive and powerful having two men to please and be pleased by...it was truly amazing and I can't wait to experience even more lifestyle fun.
  4. Well....I'm no longer just a curiouscat It took a couple years and a lot of bumps in the road, but Mr Cat and I had our first MFM last thursday night. I'll post more about in in first time experiences, but lets just say I had a lot of fun and I am very eager to see what else we can experience together
  5. I have learned to never take anything about my relationship with my husband for granted, as I made that mistake before by thinking we were on the same page, and it turned out we weren't even in the same book. So now I make sure we talk everything major out to the fullest. When talking to him about why he put the breaks on our date, it turns out that he just wasn't quite ready to take what sounded like fun in fantasy into a reality. We have been talking about it some more, and decided that if possible we want to play on webcam with another couple, to get used to the idea of having sex around other people. Then maybe try an on premise club if we can find one in our area. So we have a game plan, now we just need to put it into action. It may be awhile before we even get the chance to play again as we both work odd hours and have two little ones at home, but I will update as we make progress (or not)
  6. it will almost always be me Mrs. Cat posting as Mr. Cat says he would rather be "doing it then reading about it":rolleyes: He doesn't understand my obsession with online forums (I have a board for every topic in my life or interests...from swinging to parenting to belly dance) I do show him what I post though, and he will read over my shoulder if the topic interests him. Sometimes he teases me while I am trying to read....don't get much reading done on those occasions lol:facelick:
  7. Fuse, Thank you for validating my feelings and making me feel welcome. And yes I completely agree that it is better for me to feel a little disappointed then for something to happen that could strain or ruin my relationship with my husband. As we have said while talking about it, swinging is about adding, not subtracting. About the suggestion about going to a vanilla bar and pointing out people we like and talking about it, we do this on an almost daily basis lol. Not so much going to a bar, but if we are watching tv, or out and about we will comment on this person or that one. We even have a little inside joke called the PMS scale. When discussing females we see that we find attractive, we rate them either a P (for Panting), an M(for Moaning) or S (Screamer) for how noisy we think they would be in bed. Its quite amusing and entertaining. Maybe one day we can actually test our theory on someone Oh and I plan to hang around the boards, you all seem like a fun group of people to get to know, and a great learning resource.
  8. Well we ended up not going through with it, as my husband texted me at work and said he had a bad feeling and just couldn't go through with it. So obviously we are not ready to take that plunge. I have to admit I am a little disappointed and kinda surprised, as Mr Cat was the one that brought me out of my sexual shell so to speak, he had always been the more adventurous of our duo, so for him to put on the brakes was kinda surprising. But as he and I discussed, we both have to be into it for it to happen, and that's not where things are right now, so its on hold. To answer the questions, yes we chatted with our third on the phone, and we were going to meet for dinner tonight (sunday) and then bring him back to our place if we all clicked. He stated in his reply that he has been with couples before, and he seemed genuine. He was very understanding when we backed out, and told us to keep his contact info and to contact him if/when we feel ready. So....yeah. Kind of let down, but kind of relieved as I was nervous about taking this step, but figured it was just nerves. Maybe we need to start out slower? Mr. Cat said he wanted to "take things a lot slower" but was unable to define what that means, so I guess we have some more talking to do.
  9. Mrs. Cat here....Mr Cat and I have been discussing swinging and playing with other people for awhile now, and have decided to take the plunge *eep*. One of my main fantasies has been to be with two guys at once, and ultimately try a DP. We posted an ad on craigslist last night, and got a TON of responses. We picked a guy and made plans to meet up tomorrow night. He is a single male, obviously. We have set ground rules and made plans, and are going to see how things go. My question is how common is it to start with a MFM threesome? Anyone else get their feet wet this way? What should I look out for? I've got nervous excited butterflies dancing in my belly....
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