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  1. Husband and I finally made it to a hotel swingers session and I have several questions. The first is why do so many women wear stockings - stay ups or with a garter belt? Is it to look sexy to the men or is it to feel more sexy themselves? And they DO WEAR THEM while having sex.
  2. I thought I should thank you all for your suggestions and let you know how it turned out. We finally went through with it and have been "cuckold" or "hot wife" swingers for more than three years with fantastic success. Husband has enjoyed himself immensely and I have had the most fantastic sex life I could ever have imagined!
  3. The two best things that ever happened for female sexuality were the invention of the HBC Pill and the adoption of Routine Infant Circumcision. A cut penis looks much sexier in my opinion (I find the whole idea of male circ to be very erotic), it works much better and feels much better inside, and it is fun to go down on instead of being an unpleasant demand.
  4. Thanks for your opinion, Jake, but I am afraid you haven't read my posts here. Susan
  5. Thank you all for your concern and helpful responses. DH and I have resolved the issues he was having - he has been concerned that he was pushing me into more than I wanted to do. It was he, not me, who first brought up the swinging idea and I could not understand why he seemed to be backing away from it. We are both now very excited about getting into it, and he is very adamant that he wants his participation to be limited to just watching me and, hopefully, two other men, and wants me to be completely uninhibited with them. I can hardly wait! Thanks again. Susan
  6. :HELP: From all the things I have read about swinging, it seems as though it is always the husband who wants to swing and is trying to persuade his wife to join him. In my case it has turned out just the opposite. As I may have posted before, my DH suffers from complete erectile dysfunction as a result of medical conditions and required medications. For the past few years our sex life has consisted mostly of him performing oral sex on me which is good but not completely satisfying. DH knows I was very promiscuous when I was single, and I suspect that was something he once found very intriguing about me. Around a year ago we were confessing our fantasies and I admitted one of mine was to have vigorous interracial sex with a good-looking, muscled and virile black man like some of the XXX videos I have seen. He said he realized how much I must miss PIV sex and that his pet fantasy was always to watch me having sex with another man, preferably one that did not pose a love-interest threat. Assuming I would not be highly likely to become possessively and romantically attached to an African-American man, especially if I were to experience swinging in an interracial threesome, the idea seemed so exciting and non-threatening he joined a kinky interracial sex group that facilitates, among other things, interracial cuckolding, which is what he seemed to want at the time. As an uninhibited exhibitionist (who often thought I would have made a good porn actress) I became very excited about trying this. We have had some delays in carrying this out because of his medical issues, but it is still something I want very badly to get into and now, without any definite explanation, he seems to be dragging his feet. I would really appreciate any helpful comments or suggestions from anyone about persuading a reluctant husband.
  7. Well, I guess there will be no more replies - but thank you for yours. In my wild single days on the evening of a sex party I always douched and wore a dress or skirt with no panties at all so I knew I would be fresh for oral sex encounters, and I know the guys appreciated it, just as I always appreciated a well-circumcised penis (sorry if I offend anyone by that - it's just my preference). I fully intend to do the same when I get into swinging, even if no one else does that.
  8. I was a very promiscuous single swinger who gave it up 21 years ago for marriage and raising children but am anticipating getting back into swinging with my husband along (probably as a non-participating voyeur because of ED problems). I am trying to find out as much as I can about modern swinging so our experiences will be as enjoyable as possible and would appreciate all the help I can get.. In my college days I became extremely addicted to cunnilingus, and I need at least one orgasm that way before I am ready for PIV sex. In those days douching was very popular - in fact, after I became sexually active at sixteen my mom bought me my first syringe and taught me how to mix medically correct solutions - and I always douched before an evening of casual sex. I know douching, or at least frequent douching, is considered unnecessary and potentially harmful, and since I have seen no mention of it in this forum as a preparation for a swinging evening I assume no one here does it these days. Am I correct or is douching still a nice prep for oral sex, especially with someone new?
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