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lardub last won the day on September 20 2010

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  • Birthday 07/01/1961

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  • Relationship Status
    Couple
  • Location
    waterloo
  • Interests
    Sex group encounters, gangbangs 3sums, 4sums
  • Occupation
    We both work, as slaves to the system
  • Swinging Experience
    8yrs, full swap, orgy, bisexual etc

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    lardub
  • SwingTowns Username
    woolwichcpl
  • SDC Username
    woolwichcpl

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  1. Welcome, there are a number of clubs in the toronto area you can attend and meeting someone you know is always possible in the four years we have been attending M4, ozone, xclub and 2250 we have ran into one person my wife knew from work. It shocked us at first but then they were there for the same reason, well almost they checked it out we stayed and played, although not with them. Every club is different and everyone has a reason to say try this club . take your time and check them all out they all attract a certain flavour of customers, we have been to all of them and ozone, 2250 and M4 more than once, we do enjoy m4 ourselves it just fits us better. Enjoy yourselves and take your time, its a wonderful journey not a race, xxxooo L&S

    You can check out http://www.menageaquatre.com that is the site linked with the M4 club, we are woolwichcpl there and a nakedworld.com

  2. Well Jesus liked threesomes... Matthew 18:20 Jesus says, "For where two or three are gathered together in My name, I am there in the midst of them." Oh and it was Lot's daughters who got him drunk, fucked him and then raised his children.
  3. We have a boytoy who we tend to see on Sunday afternoons after he attends church, we have never judged him for his involvement with his church which he is very involved as he has been busy due to church business. We at onetime were very involved with a church even sat on council for a number of years and a number of other volunteer positions, but the hypocrisy we found was much to difficult to ignore any longer. The constant put downs for people who didn't follow the teachings of the bible and the gossip circle, as well as the persistence to insist that Christianity was the one and only truth, despite the fact that all christian denominations consist of pagan rituals that predate Christ and are simply made up by the roman emperor Constantine and a number of popes and others in order to appease people into following this religion. A bit harsh for me to say but in studying religion most of my life and understanding history and what transpired within the RC church in its early infancy through to modern day it would be rather difficult for me to remain in a church and to continue the hypocrisy. As for your dealing with swinging or threesomes many popes in the early years had wives, engaged in sex with males and females and orgies and are now saints so my guess is yes it is allowed check out this link.. List of sexually active popes - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
  4. Happy Birthday kids

  5. We are both Bi and as stated above finding a single male who is truly bi and doesn't tend to forget that when your together can be difficult. We have had some success finding bi-couples and when all in one bed changing up every few moments it is fantastic.
  6. Constructive advice would be for your husband to end it with the woman and to take your feelings into consideration period. Everyone goes through jealousy at one time and your partner should care enough to understand and do the right thing..
  7. Finding a single guy on any site can leave you banging your head on a concrete wall, dating sites as well as swinger sites have guys that just don't get it, and in our experince are about as single as we are. Some of the emails we get leave us feeling that these guys have never and will never get laid. Your best bet is a club or chatting with couples who have a boytoy and may like to share. At times we find its harder to find a male who can respect us and her, than a couple..
  8. erectile issues can happen for so many reasons and can be a real problem for your ego, Have never had this problem with my wife but at times with other women its happens, sometimes I can nail it down to something obvious, such as she doesn't seem into it, my wife is loud and moves alot, shes into it, and lets you know your doing it right, some just lay there and I start feeling am I doing it wrong for her? Then other times my wife distracts me as I said shes loud and has the tastiest pussy I've ever encountered and that is what I need at that time.
  9. Haven't read anything else here just jumped right to the answer... We both always wear our wedding rings, I never remove mine ever, she does when baking certain yummy things in the kitchen, I once had to remove my ring last year for a surgical procedure and coming home I felt naked in a bad way, and twice when I split it in half while at work and it was being repaired. Our wedding rings are part of us and part of our commitment to each other, that may seem weird but they are a very symbolic part of our love and trust in each other, I guess in someway we use them to show others that our hearts belong to each other but the other bits are up for grabs lol
  10. It all depends on where you are located, swinglifestyle maybe great for Americans but sucks for Canadians. We have a free profile guess we are fakes. We have had the most success on a free site called nakedworld here in southern Ontario, lots of people from our area on the site or within ontario so great for us, sure there are fakes but we are on a paysite that has just as many flakes on it. Most of the paysites we have been on sound really great until you pay then all those people contacting you seem to dry up real fast. We now have just two paysites we go to, cafedesire (Its Local) and SDC which thankfully we got a free membership from a club we attend cause it ain't worth the money..
  11. Swingers like everything is changing the access to the lifestyle is easier and more couples are wetting their feet. With that you also have married men posing as singles and idiots running around the internet wasting time and generally pissing off couples by playing stupid games. Do I sound bitter, I should cause we are just plain sick of the constant emails that lead no where, people who seem intelligent but are totally unable to comprehend the written word. It has gotten to the point where I have decided to stop being Mr nice and just say what it is I'm thinking, will it win me friends , doubt it, but it will get rid of the game players quicker. When we attend a club now we go with no expectations except that we are going home with each other. I believe we have only been to a club once when we didn't have sex and that was due to the fact that single men that night were allowed in and a pack of guys following you masturbating was making the wife very uncomfortable. Perhaps we are very picky but unless we both have an attraction we will just have sex with each other, we are in this to enhance our sex life not to put notches on the bed post. I can honestly say we aren't lookers as we stroll around naked and don't bother with the towels. Our biggest concern is HIV and other STDs as their is a large amount of bi males in our area and constant press releases that STDs are making a large comeback in our area in the male Bi/gay areas. This from a site catering to this demographic, the biggest eye opener is a local swingers club is actively attracting males from this site to attend on their nights when single men are allowed in, even giving a discounted entry fee when they use the name of the site. All this is doing is giving married men who may have been looking for a blowjob from some other guy a venue to chase females, and then the wife will never know. So the next time you see a couple who seem to just be over cautious they may have a valid reason. Until we both agree on a couple and know their habits somewhat we will be rather happy to just sit back and watch for a bit.
  12. The Mrs wants to see it, and I do believe given the right guy and the right time it's going to happen...
  13. Well in my younger days I had the premature problem, and so I would hold off for as long as i could as that was what was expected or so I thought. Now I'm older and I do have orgasms just no ejaculate and I tend to get to that point then it stops I think its a learned process and now its very hard to turn it off. In a club I find I'm just about to cum and I will see something off to the side or some one talking and its gone. Subconsciously i think I'm so used to trying to please that now I do it without thinking and yes it can get frustrating for me as well as my partner. I can honestly say without regret that I can orgasm without cumming, so much like a women who is a squirter not all orgasms end with something to clean up. I really hope I'm able to get my point across here, that a cumshot isn't the only sign of an orgasm in some men or perhaps I'm just strange..
  14. I don't believe it to be racism only preference... I really enjoy and will seek out women who have small breasts, it is what does it for me, nothing against large breasted women, small is what I'm attracted to.. The Mrs will veto a play date over hairy men, because they do nothing for her, she finds it unattractive, she makes me shave lol. She will also not play with a male with a large belly (Beer Belly)... It comes down to what you are attracted to, and nothing is more unattractive than someone playing a race card when that is not the case, we have witnessed it in a club and believe that the reason they were told that play wasn't happening was attitude and the way that person was conducting themselves, nothing more, nothing less, but they decided to make a scene over it...
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