Hubby and I met while I was bartending after separating from my first husband. He came in hungover and asked for a "coke" and watched some nascar race...I kept glancing at him and was introduced to him by the owner of the bar who tried to fix us up but to no avail that night but we did get together and ten years and two kids later i am still serving him his coke....the point is I met him without expecting anything and it has been an interesting journey