cplndixie

I guess I didnt make myself clear. Sorry about the confussion. I simply meant that generally speaking women are gonna talk about thier sex lives or sexual situations etc, not specificly thier swinging lifestyle. no, no... just sexuality in general. Just girl talk. Eventually, that talk about sex or sexuality, is going to get interesting & it is generally discussed more & more as the girls become more comfortable & at ease with each other. (probably) subconciously, they become a little more open. Then eventually, they show up at the swingers parties. No, no, they wont talk out in the open or around people who may find it offencive or inappropriate such as the boss etc. Sorry I didnt make the "general" part a little plainer in the 1st post.

Do I approach women? Yes... depending. For the most part, yes I do. If she or the couple is alone, I will most of the time as a no pressure approach. Hi I am "Mr Dixie" & my wife "Mrs Dixie" is right over there & we are cplndixie. How are you/yall tonight? Having a good time? Where are you/yall from? etc, etc. However, if she or they are in a group of people, I almost never approach her/them. Personally, I am not comfortable going into a group of people talking/visiting. I used to DJ & bounce in a very popular club here & I got used to walking the floor & mingling, so now I dont sit much. I am always moving around & visiting so its easier for me than it maybe for some people.

I think y'all answered my question. Thanks a bunch guys & girls. I was just wondering if I was going to be a disappointment. I just didn't know if I was able to stay up as long as "she" expected me too. My concern was, I am just getting older & I am not a spring chicken anymore & I just wanted to know where I stand. I think I will be alright. Now I won't worry & I think I will be more confident & will be able to perform better. I just didn't want any mental distractions from worry/concern. Thanks again both guys & girls.

We didnt stay on AFF very long. try swinglifestyle.com We like it.. Good luck

I have noticed this trend for several years. I have thought about it & my conclussion is: nurses & teachers are mostly female.... when you put that many women in one building together, what are they going to talk about? Maybe not always but it always comes around to it. The more you do something (talk about something) the more comfortable it becomes to talk about or involve yourself in the subject. Eventually, most everyone in the atmosphere (school/hospital) is involved & participates in the subject. Thus more nurses & teachers are showing up in the lifestyle.

It has been quite sometime since we were single & we haven't been swinging full swap very long. The thing I worry about is not lasting as long as I used to. I am 50 now & I worry about satisfying my swing female partner. I guess I do ok for a middle-aged man but I still worry if I am performing time wise as expected. Ladies, what do you find a normal time frame is for "intercourse" from your male swing partner? Especially those middle-aged partners... 50ish. With or without Viagra, Cialis, etc. Sometimes I use it sometimes I don't. Just intercourse... not foreplay, oral etc. 5 minutes 10 minutes 20 minutes or longer... how long?

We both vote for a bush or lightly trimmed.