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NednWendy

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About NednWendy

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    Has Left the Building
  • Birthday 02/01/1973

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    United States
  1. Trust me I will not forget about the aggressive female. Using your own words, not understanding the word no, touching uninvited and trying to force something unwanted is bad behavior regardless of gender.
  2. Well call it poetic justice if you will but we went to the party and I was anything BUT aggressive although I did learn first hand what aggressive really means and learned why it is so feared. I was afraid I would be the one that would overstep some bounds since I don't know all the ins and outs of swinging yet but as it worked out I was pretty much a church mouse and was on the receiving end of what I thought was an inappropriate advance. The real irony is it was an attractive single female that most guys probably would have given their left nut to be with but it was anything but erotic and sexy. So call it fate, call it karma or just call it live and learn but I know now what aggression is firsthand and I am not impressed with it.
  3. We are supposed to attend our first house party this weekend and something has been on my mind and wanted to get some information from those who would know. What exactly is an aggressive male and what is aggression? I have read a lot of different forum posts and people are always afraid of aggressive males and I have read a lot of profiles that say they don't want any aggressive people after them and I am wondering just what exactly aggressive behavior is? Ok so here's my real dilemma, I'm not shy and I am not afraid to say what I like and I am not afraid to approach people say what's on my mind, nor am I afraid to ask them what is on their mind. Am I one of these aggressive men that everyone is so afraid of? I'm willing to take no for an answer and I won't hold any grudges or make any scenes but if there are some attractive ladies at the party this weekend they ARE going to be approached. I am definitely no ladies man and I have been happily married for over ten years and have not been in the dating scene for a long time but I learned in Jr high that the guys that opened their mouths and said what they thought were the ones that got the girls and the ones that stood along the walls were the ones that just watched. Where is the line between being proactive and making things happen vs being aggressive?
  4. I would think going to a party and meeting someone attractive would be a good reason to play.
  5. One last profile question and then I'll stop I promise. We are trying to decide how to list my wife's sexual orientation. Our only options are straight, bisexual and bi-curious. We have had a couple experiences and without any coaxing from the guys she touched, made out and gave and received oral sex to orgasm with a couple different women. She enjoyed it and was attracted to the women and did not have any problems with it the next day. I consider that bisexual since she was attracted to them, did everything spontaneously without prompting, enjoyed the encounters and didn't have any regrets afterwards. I think we should check her as bisexual on our profile. She doesn't think she should be bisexual since she is not out looking for women all the time and is afraid if she is listed as bisexual that women will expect her to have sex with them and she is only interested in being with women that she is attracted to and is comfortable being physical with. She is afraid people will think she is being deceptive in being listed as bi if she won't have sex with them. I say it's no different than being listed as straight and turning down men that she is not attracted to. After all if you aren't attracted to someone of the opposite sex it doesn't mean you aren't heterosexual right? My thoughts are if you have done it, enjoyed it and don't have any regrets over it, it ain't curious any more. Which way should we go?
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