Va_Newbies

First of all, thank you everyone for your responses. Sorry that I haven't replied to everyone sooner, but it's been a bit busy around here. I have some news to share...WE DID IT! We had our fmf and it was an unbelievable and awesome experience. It happened a lot quicker than what we ever thought it would...we figured we'd be months waiting for the right girl to come along. I had no jealousy, doubts or anything of the sort. We both very much enjoyed ourselves. Mrs. Fuse, no, it's not like that at all. I'm the one who isn't interested in a mfm, but he told me if I ever changed my mind, he'd be equal opportunity. I wanted to experience being with a woman and wanted him to share that with me. It's unbelievable how good I feel about the whole thing because even when she showed up, I was still thinking, "What if..." but when things started happening, I was so turned on and still have not even a hint of regret. Thank you again, everybody...this board has been helpful in so many ways and we enjoy reading the posts regarding everything. I guess you guys could teach us the secret handshake now, huh?

For all of you experience swingers out there, I was wondering if you had any twinges of jealousy your first time out? If so, how did you handle it? As I mentioned before, dh and I are discussing having a fmf and our conversations and my thoughts about it get me very much hot and bothered. However, my only concern is that it may be different in the flesh, so to speak. I really don't think it will be a huge problem, but just in case I do get a little something nagging at me, I would appreciate any suggestions on how to handle this. We've already discussed our code word if things get to be too much, but other than that, I really don't know. It's not like we want to get in the middle of something, one of us get uncomfortable and leave our playmate hanging, ya know? I've never really had a problem with jealousy or anything like that, but I've also never seen my husband having sex with another woman. But, again, the thought of watching him doing to her what he does to me and knowing how it's making her feel absolutely gets me going. We pretty much figure that any feelings that occur the first time will be less and less as we do it...that is, if we both enjoy it the first go 'round! As always, any help and suggestions will be greatly appreciated!