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ArousedInterest

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About ArousedInterest

  • Rank
    Contributor
  • Birthday 05/29/1974

Personal Info

  • Relationship Status
    Couple
  • Location
    Alaska for now
  • Occupation
    Airlines

Swinger Info

  • SLS Name
    ArousedInterest
  1. Just a quick update for now, due to the fact I am exhausted. I may have accidently walked straight into an old friend who is still inerested in me and to top of herself has been in the lifestyle for quit sometime. It's a little early, but it is an almost like a meant to be situation. A 11 year seperaration and we just happen to be reconnected and find out we ate in almost identical situation. As teenagers we where almost inseparable (although we never had sex), but I joined the Army life went on for both us and here we are at 36. I willmupdate soon.
  2. They will all know my new status and it won't change a thing, I guess it just seems to be weird to see myself as the "single" male, now. I am so glad for a the help and advice I get here.
  3. I am usually the master of straight and to the point. Wow I am off cause never thought of doing that way.
  4. It is important to me and I would like a person to fell the same. I have an old friend from HS, who is also single at this point, that swings and we will do some together as a couple after the divorce I am sure. I know us, lol. I think it is just that I am not sure I would know how to bring up the subject with new person. Heck I am just glad me and the ex will be living far apart, cause she has no want to leave the Lifestyle either. That could be weird.
  5. I think that part of the problem is I will still get invites. I just do not know how I should respond and I am also afraid of feeling strange going alone. If that makes sense to everyone. My other concern was hit on right away here. Should I be honest and tell a potential knew "friend" about my lifestyle. There are so many misconceptions to begin with, as we all know. It's so much to think about, plus I do not want swinging to become a crutch for a lost marriage.
  6. I will not go into the whole situation, but me and the misses will soon begetting a divorce after 10 years of marriage. It has nothing to do with swinging, we are both ok with that part of us. I am just unsure on how to continue, let alone trying find someone who sees sex the same way that me and the mrs did. I just don't know how to start all over again, but not leave the lifestyle behind. Anyone been in this spot before?
  7. Well you went looking for her to fail. Guess what the failure fairy came along and granted your wish! I would say you all need to really discuss your rules again and maybe you should inform her of the fine print clauses you have added about restroom breaks. Although I think the staying and fuck'n all night with a lame excuse is bullshit, unless she was testing you, too.
  8. I call that tattooed woman with tits, ass, and breathing my wife.
  9. Mrs.ArousedInterest and is a healthcare professional. I hope she develops this 6th sense soon and makes our swinging safer.
  10. Well speaking from a generation that likes its tattoos and piercings, I am glad to know that makes use undesirables. Sense that shows we disregard our own health, by doing this to our bodies. I know several nurses and doctors with large amounts of tattoos and piercings, does that mean you do not let them work on you? I am not trying to be jerk I am just asking.
  11. We are not sure what we prefer yet. We have had both MFM encounter and FMF encounter, but no couple to couple as of yet. We really like to try a club scene, but living in the bush country of Alaska does limit our options unfortunetely.
  12. Wow, that would be a shock. Seems like it all will be OK, though. We are lucky ours are to young yet, for a situation like that to happen yet.
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