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  1. Yeah, the problem with fucking hubby stupid is that...well, he can't always keep up with my drive. That's one of the reasons swinging works so well for us. And part of the reason we are so eager to get back to it. I guess the real question is, how do we find others who'll swing when we're living in base housing, it's not exactly legal in the military, and the rest of the people around us don't speak our language? o_O The reason they were talking about breast milk is because they (a bunch of my hubby's friends) were talking about me being pregnant, conversation gravitated towards breastfeeding, and another friend told them about a time when he helped out a breastfeeding friend who couldn't get home and forgot her pump, was quite engorged and hurting, and he helped her out by draining her :P (personally, that story turns me on when I hear it) You're right, I definitely wouldn't feel good knowing I'd been "plotted" about, but as I've already decided this probably isn't the best idea (though it's no reason to cancel the BBQ among friends), I'm done trying to figure out reasons to do this. And yeah, who knows where their relationship will go in the future, so we may still get an opportunity with her yet.
  2. Well, to be honest, I'm probably not being fair to the guy. I've never had much of an interest in him, but am putting aside my feelings about him in the hopes to have some fun next weekend. I guess I'm just putting him in the category of guys who should "consider themselves lucky" to get in on some foursome action. I think it's just that I've missed swinging so much, and so has hubby, and I'm so eager to jump in that I'm not really doing the things I normally would. *sigh* Maybe we ought not try to pursue this, and just continue trying to find a couple around here that is definitely into the lifestyle.
  3. I hadn't thought of expressing before hand. That's actually a pretty good idea. And yes, I do agree that honesty is important. I don't intend to lie to him, and with these options I didn't think of, I think I can probably make him feel more comfortable about it anyway. Actually, wearing a bra is a great idea! For some reason, I forgot I could just leave my bra on ^_^; I guess I could just do that, and if breast play becomes an option, no prob. Also, I've been having sex with hubby since 4 weeks without any problems. But by next weekend, I will be 6 weeks, so I feel prepared for a full night of fun and games. Well, the couple in question actually hooked up at a party the guy threw that turned into a "No-pants" party. I don't know all the details, but I do know there was a lot of sex between a lot of single people. So I know they don't have a problem with parties that turn into more. The woman in the couple is already into us, and we've just been looking for a good opportunity to play with her, and while this isn't the ideal (just her), this does work for us. Basically, there are no real expectations of them to do anything with us, just the invitation. So, we're not really looking to convert them, but if all goes well and we all have a good time, why not continue? Thanks for all the advice guys
  4. No, the 5 weeks is not a typo. I have a high libido :P But anyway, even though I'm breastfeeding, I bought a breast pump so that I can have a night out every once in awhile (leaving the baby with a sitter). I'm not self-conscious about my breast milk, but I don't want to ruin a moment by grossing someone else out, y'know? So that's one person that agrees with him about breast milk, and one saying just go with the flow...no pun intended. Anyone else?
  5. My husband and I are looking to finally get back into the "swing" of things, lol. We've been out of the game for a year now and we really miss it. There's a woman that we've both been interested in since she got to this station. She was single for a bit, but now she's dating one of hubby's friends. It doesn't seem like anything too serious though...still the type of relationship that they might do other things. So anyway, we're thinking of inviting them over for BBQ next weekend, having a few drinks and seeing where things go. We're pretty sure the woman is interested in me (she's bisexual) and the guy is, well, your typical guy :P So here's the thing. I just gave birth 5 weeks ago and I'm breastfeeding. Through some random conversation while I was still pregnant, hubby found out that his friend is "freaked out" by breast milk. Kinda weird, in my opinion. Well, the point is, there's really no way to get the woman here without him as her attachment, but we're fine with that. But I'm afraid that he won't be up for things if he realizes I'm full of breast milk. And of course, that would probably ruin chances of doing anything with the woman. So, obviously, I'm not going to mention things, and maybe it'll be fine. But in the event that it does come up... anyone have any suggestions on what I can say or do to keep things going? We REALLY want to have some fun with some other people, and I am looking forward to this coming weekend and some liberation, y'know? So, any and all advice is welcome please!!!
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