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Spokaneman

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About Spokaneman

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  • Birthday 10/22/1977

Personal Info

  • Relationship Status
    Couple
  • Location
    Spokane Washington
  • Interests
    Computer Games
  • Occupation
    Baker
  • Swinging Experience
    Polygamous couple
  1. while I have never seen my wife with another man YET =) I have been with a girl before that was a swinger. I enjoyed watching her get drilled by the man, its hard to explain why. hearing her moan in pleasure watching her eyes close as she was really getting into it. then seeing her look at me in complete lust whuile she was being serviced =) its a porn staring my wife. I do want to have sex as well, but I know that she is going home with me and I will getting all I can handle then, while thinking back on what happened before =) even if it happens just once, its one thing that you will never forget, I know I havent.
  2. thanks all, I will have my wife read this =) Spokanewomen is loseing weight every day, I on the other hand am still gaining I think. it helps to have a gym at your job lol. anyways... she is doing good and may be ready for the Club this summer =) I may not be lol:rolleyes:
  3. I love a noisy girl =) noise turns me on like mad lol but screaming is uncalled for and just gets me out of the moment. but hearing others get into it and dirty talk each other is all I need to cum lol.
  4. in this I would have to say yes and no,.... Yes : though I don't consider myself bi, in this situation I guess I would not mind contact by other men even if it was on purpose. kinda of an erotic thought =) anyways... not knowing who your touching and who is touching you, that's hot hot hot. No: well on this point its just that if you dont know who is there and trust them, some awful acts could be done in the darkness. for this reason I sugest at least knowing who is gonna be there.
  5. Our most wild just happened this Halloween. We decided that we wanted to go out we don't get to do this often thanks to the kids ) and be adults. We went to the bar and had a few drinks. We like to people watch so we just sat back and watched all the costumes and such. We had cheaper drinks at our hotel room that shared the same parking lot as the bar. We went to the room had a few swigs of Jack ? and then I bent my wife over the window and had anal sex with her facing the bar lol. There were people outside filtering out of the bar and talking by their cars and such. We also had the lights on and she was being kinda loud. but from what I could see, we didn't seem to gather any attention...
  6. I agree here as well. Me and my wife don't like the sensation loss and we don't find them to be worth it overall. There are plenty of better forms of BC that don't take away sensation. As far as STDs, make sure you and the people you plan to swing with have been checked and get checked often, otherwise it is always gonna be a risk... it is sex, it is never safe lol. Want safe sex... do it over the phone lol. One thing that always surprises me is how many people will wear and swear by condoms and then give oral sex!!!! lol /boggle
  7. Wow everything you wrote is exactly why me and my wife have not got involved yet. I am ready, she is very interested... however... she is a bit worried about meeting people for real and them being weird or have bad intentions in mind. she is also worried that because we are a heavy couple... 300 for me and about 235 for her, that we would just be looked at as the fat people who are disgusting and don't belong. we have talked about doing this for a long time now. I brought it up a while back and at first she was thinking I was funny, but as I suggested that I would love to see her getting ummmm a good time from another man or women, she started to get interested. however it has not yet gone past interest for her, and I am not going to push the issue. It may happen in the next year or sooner who knows. then again even if she never goes through with it, at least we know we can talk to each other about anything and we are not jealous at all.
  8. Had to answer never here. we have kids at home and mother in law down stairs lol not a good situation haha
  9. For now we are just hanging back, I (Him) do not care if people dont like how I look. she however is still very worried about such things lol. though she does want to become involved in this life style, she does not want to danger her ob or her family life, so we are being very careful for now =) we are interested in going to a swingers club near here, called The White Rose, but again come the worry of performing and people judgeing the looks. she does not want people snikering in the corners asking why the "FAT CHICK" is here =/ I think she is dam sexy and gets me hot whenever I am near her, but I am Biased =P
  10. me and my wife not only have kids, but have family living with us, so our house is never an option to host. we have also not got invovled swinging yet cause of this obstical. by no means though would we give a generic answer like that and jusy leave ya hanging. it is a safe bet they were just scared and getting out of it with thier kids.
  11. lol my wife swallows all the time, I think she only wishes I could cum more so she could have more
  12. Well as the guy, I kinda like my woman with a little meat on her ? I love my wife, and I find myself attracted to short stout women for some reason lol. I am not nearly as concerned about looks as most guys are. I like the average woman, I think a woman looks best when she first gets up in the morning ? but that's just me. my wife however has much more strict standards that needs be met. all in all I am ready to go and have a drink at a swingers club and maybe meet real swinger couples, its just getting my wife to not think she would be the ugly betty at the club lol. I think she looks great, but then she doesn't trust that, cause I am biased =P
  13. ahh yes, you seem to feel the same way my wife does then =P her size and her being comfortable with it, is what is stopping us right now. she always says that if she was thinner, she would be a raging whore lol dunno if thats true but thats how she feels. I guess I am just trying to get some insight into her feelings and how others view it in the swinger comunity. you guys and gals are all very helpful =) I am gonna get her to read this tonight and see what her reaction is =)
  14. we have thought about that as well. we look at Craigslist everyday lol and wonder if there is a good couple on there or not.
  15. I agree about the advertisements. but when I do a search for people in my area I see people who are pretty fit lol I guess thats just compared to me =P anyways this is more the concern of my wife, as I dont care what anyone thinks of me lol. there are some clubs near here that we could attend, however my wife is not ready for that and the main reason is, she is worried that she will be the only big girl and she does not want to be shuned I guess. so I am just trying to find ammo to use that will show or convince her that she is not that bad and that a club really is an ok place to attend.
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