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2LFM

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About 2LFM

  • Rank
    Contributor
  • Birthday 12/29/1984

Personal Info

  • Relationship Status
    couple married
  • Location
    GA
  • Interests
    Matt is a pilot.
  • Occupation
    Matt is in the army
  • Swinging Experience
    newbies

Swinger Info

  • SLS Name
    2LFM
  1. I think that is the best option. I am a firm believer of complete openess in friendships. If your friend is truely worthy of your friendship, she should be able to accept your sexuality and lifestyle. I dont think you need to come onto her, just tell her you are bi, and a swinger, and if she takes that well, then maybe, you tell her you are interested into her. I have admited to several close friends that we were in the lifestyle, 1 of them I admited my attraction to, and one that we admitted we were both attracted to. We made it clear to all of them, that we just wanted to be open with them, be able to talk to them, that even the ones we were interested in, that we were not propositioning them, if maybe oneday something happened, then great, but for now, we just wanted our friends. And wanted to be able to be ourselves with them.
  2. ok at the risk of sounding sexist this is my opinion. 1st the reason men love to see 2 girls together is because psycologically and physiologicly speaking men have a less vivid imagination than women and have less emotional connection to physical pleasure. Men are also more acutley sensitive to external stimulation from visual and auditory cues. Women are less sensitive to visual and auditory cues and more sensitive to touch and smell than men. Also women have a generally much more active imagination which results in much more pleasurable fantasies without real life stimulation. Also as far as why 2 women are more pleasing on the eye than 2 men.... Well again a genticly driven thing. Besides the sociological standards put forth by the vanilla society its what the genders were built for. Men were built to be labor workers. Mens bodies are designed to do work effeciantly. Nothing else. Men were not designed to be gental or soft. Althought many like myself are "fluffy" LOL . The standard male form is tall muscular and hairy. While many women find this attractive it was not meant to be attractive it was meant to be functional. Women were created not as workers. They were created for procreation and partnership. They were basically created to fulfill man. That being said Woman was designed to be attractive, to be sexual beings, to fulfill the desire for human contact, and to carry, birth, and nurture children. So if women were basically designed to please men wouldnt haveing/seeing 2 of them be even better than 1. And because they were designed to be visually pleasing and designed to have a nurturing touch shouldnt other women also find this desirable? All of that being said. I make no generalazations. no 100% of anyone thinks any 1 thing. But these things are commonly accepted scientific theroies that i so happen to belive. I am not saying in any way that women can not be providers and men cant be nurturers or any of that shit.... just what they were originally intended for. That is all. Mr. 2LFM
  3. well we are new to swinging but have had one experiance. Was with by best friend/ex girlfriend. She is a lez and me and the misses took her to a lez club in Atl. We met a girl we knew from high school there. We all went home together. They had sex on the bed next to us. There was some soft swaping short of oral but it was amazing. The misses is very into other girls but it to shy. We have no interest in another guy at this point in time but it's not excluded. I know she does not want intercorse with a m but soft swap might be good. Ne ways. We have talked about it plenty. We really just want to try a fmf or a swap with a lez couple. My best friend woulda been the logical choice but her current relationship could not Handel it. So here we are. We are looking to meet people and get advice. We have thought about going to a club for the lifestyle even if we didn't actively seek out anouther couple. We are both very turned on by voyerism and exibition.
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