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curioussnk

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About curioussnk

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  • Birthday 11/01/1976

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    Alabama
  1. While summer is my most favorite time of year, so is Fall! And for us it brings on some of the best camping times! LOVE LOVE Fall, but then I love Summer, oh and there is Spring...Dang it..don't make me choose. The only season I do not like is whatever you calle January & February in the south!!!
  2. Ok..how long will I have that song in my head tonight!!!
  3. You just described my exact ultimate fantasy...I can not wait to have 2 men just taking care of every part of my body!! yummmmmmmy
  4. When we decided that we were really going to "do this thing" we bought a box of condoms at Sam's....it is a box of like 40! We have been together for over 10 years so obviously no condoms here in a long time. We both laughed the whole time we were shopping. Our kids were like "what?"
  5. For us it has seemed to make us better ....well, at lots of things. We feel like once a couple has opened up to the level that we have with each other we can talk about anything...not just sex stuff...but it seems like we tell each other even more than before about our day, our work, our feelings. Hard to explain but sometimes I feel like I can tell him how something made me feel even if it was a "stupid" feeling and he seems to listen more. And as far as our one on one sex life...it has always been off the charts and fulfilling ...but when we are alone again after being with another couple it just seems like we are closer somehow...it is not that we "learned" any new sex technique....but we are just better and better.. probably does not make much sense cause it is so hard to verbalize these things sometimes.
  6. We have talked about this..not so much in regards to us or worrying about ..but just one more of the many conversations that come up between us. For us it might be a little easier because we do not play seperate. So neither of us could lean on that excuse. If one of us were "caught" with someone else that would mean the other partner did not know about it..which would mean deception. That equals cheating in our dictionary. I can not say what would happen to our relationship but it would definitely create some problems. I know I will not be able to explain this emotion very well...but since entering the lifestyle and enjoying the openness and honesty..I think I would be even more devastated if this happened now. Make sense? (let me just go ahead and say that NO i do not think vanilla's would be any less hurt by cheating)
  7. My thoughts exactly...hubby and I have talked about how we feel more open now in soooo many other areas..not just the bedroom. I love this post and I am going to show it to him to read when he gets back. Thanks for putting this into words!
  8. This is very well written...I love to read erotic stories but sometimes find it is hard to find them written from a woman's perspective that is not geared soley to FMF..I love this and would Love to read more.
  9. We have not had this experience yet....but I would think maybe the way to start is to first spend some time "away from work" with him. Maybe ask him out for drinks or something first. Establish a friendship of sorts. See how that goes..then maybe ya'll spend more time together in relazed environments. Make sense? I mean I just think approaching anyone in that atmosphere could kind of blindside a person. Seems like there should be more of a personal relationship first.
  10. Hubby and I call ourselves an "open minded couple". We have wondered if we are actually defined as swingers. Having same room sex with another couple and swapping partners is very very hot and fun to us. I think trying to "define" any part of this life choice is useless. We do not even go so far as to call it a lifestyle! I mean we like going to Nascar races and football games and we read a lot of blogs and forums on said subjects but we do not label that aspect of our lives as a "lifestyle" In my personal opinion if you and your partner have sex with "extra" partners while apart from each other that is an "open" relationship. If you and your partners choose to have sex with other people at the same time that is called...what...?? Some say swinging, some say group sex....I mean we could just go on and on all day and night trying to make up a definition that is all encompassing..I say let's just all do what makes us hot, in the way that makes us hot!!!! I am getting hot just thinking about it!!!
  11. We enjoy chatting through Yahoo...We started out not using but it did not take us long to get to the point you are at..thinking that we were missing out on talking with others that could lead to something for us. Also, using a webcam to introduce yourselves a little more "live" is fun! Webcam is not required for us but I like to know I am talking to the woman and the man and we have used the webcam to all 4 wave at each other and just get a better look! I say go for it...try it on yahoo and see what you think..you might be pleasantly surprised where your chatting will take you!
  12. I remember there being a day when i would not say givine a blowjob turned me on. But the longer hubby and i are together the more i enjoy giving him a BJ. I do get very wet and turned on by it. The only way I have had an orgasm while giving head is if I am using a toy or we are doing 69..but man it can be a strong one that way! Since we have started playing with others I have found that I am even more turned on by the idea of giving a blowjob. It is almost like empowering to know that I can do something that just makes the men go ga ga!!!
  13. We still consider ourselves new. Over the past ten years we have had some unexpected experiences..usually after a night of drinking and fun with close friends! At the end of the night it would end up just being the 4 of us and my girlfriend and I would start kissing. This of course was aimed and getting the guys hot..but damn, we enjoyed it too! In the past year hubby and I have really opened up about actually "swinging" and so even though we had some past experiences..I still say we are new!
  14. We bought a board game (i think we found it through links here but not sure if I am supposed to say the name or not). Anyway, we have never had a large house party but we have played it would just one more couple. It was fun to break the ice and everyon kind of got naked at the same rate..so that helped ease some of the tension. I like games...but I agree there has to be a certain amount of sexual attraction for the game to matter.
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