Hubby and I are VERY new to the LS. We're taking a trip to Vegas in a couple of weeks and thought it would be fun to venture out and give it a try. I must say, even the idea of doing it has made our sex life at home heat up quite a bit. And we're looking into local places here too. We want to try it - and have decided at least for now, we're soft swingers. We want our first experience to be awesome and not a waste of time or money. how do we begin?