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SnBinDFWtx

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About SnBinDFWtx

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    Contributor
  • Birthday 04/28/1967

Personal Info

  • Relationship Status
    Couple
  • Location
    Dallas / Fort Worth Area
  • Occupation
    job seeking & homemaker
  • Swinging Experience
    2 years

Swinger Info

  • Favorite Club(s)
    Jet Set Club
  1. Thank you strathmore for the breakdown. Doesn't help much regarding some of the requests I've seen posted in various places, because none of them indicated what kind of 'bull' they were seeking. I had responded to one or two, with no replies back. So I just shrugged it off. I believe we shall just stick with our friendly fun dating concept, enjoying if more happens. I really don't mind doing things for a woman that she might not consider doing with her hubby, however, I'm not really big on putting someone down. It doesn't get me excited doing such. My intent of the question wasn't to 'highjack' I believe was the word, the thread. I was hoping for a fairly simple, or at least concise, answer.
  2. I have seen this 'BULL' term tossed around in a few places. Is this just a twist to make some of these couples feel more comfortable when dealing with a Dom, with separation from BDSM? I've yet to find someone who knows what the slang means.
  3. Oh no. We did not expect things to be just as they were when we chose to take a break. Please note, I did state that we have been going out regularly to this place for a couple of months now. Since last November. So please don't assume. *wink* What we anticipated, was we'd have to be seen regularly for at least a month. Also, don't think we are expecting the lustful activities immediately either. Especially with on premise places like the Cherry Pit making the local news. What I'm talking about is simply hanging out and enjoying the party. A whole lot is different with the online sites, which I find disappointing. So we pretty much haven't been looking online. Even this forum, I didn't really give it a fair shake till this passed week after doing some serious reading. My wife is the impatient one generally, but this thread wasn't meant to provoke. It was initially my response to the question about men approaching a woman or a couple in a club environment. A friend of ours at this club told us statistically, a couple will only play on average for 5 years. We didn't really want to stop at the time. Now we're back and hoping to find some experiences that are as enjoyable or more so than before.
  4. We mostly go to Jet Set Club on Routh in Dallas. You can google it for web site. Someone mentioned overly picky. I think there is one element. My wife finds me attractive. I've known a few women who agreed. Just seems to me that i'm not getting a far shake so to say. I've read some extremely great books that the covers were a little shabby.
  5. Oh we are going regardless of whether or not we meet someone to have fun there or not. We go out to have fun. If we find some other people we can share that with, all the better. If not, no big deal.
  6. We have discussed 'what if' regarding entering a poly relationship, from both angles. Single man or single woman, even possibly another couple. We really enjoyed partying with the group of people we used to know. Comfortable. We would enjoy experiencing a regular intimate relationship with a woman or couple. S, being straight, doesn't feel threatened if we did have another guy interested. Would be strictly platonic for him. Trouble is finding that single someone who is really open to exploring this kind of relationship. We dont really know a reliable source or forum/website to inquire really. Oh, for those who may also like to know. we're pagan as well.
  7. My wife and I stopped going out after I got her pregnant. 9 years later, we've been going out to the club we enjoyed before. Still a great place, lots of fun. Before we used to go out with a group of couples, almost twice a month. Was a LOT of fun. We had hopes to find a similar group when we started going out again. Really hard though finding people who really use chats and really go out. Which is how we found the group years ago. There are a few old friends & staff at the club we know from before, but we've noticed it's a tough crowd now. We've been going pretty regularly now and figured a few would be a little more receptive that we've seen before. I get some pretty cold reactions though, even when I'm just saying hello. I approach socially friendly and polite. Introductions and small talk. I look for some flirty responses of interest from women. B, my wife, enjoys mingling and has gotten plenty of attention from some single men. She's noticed cold reactions as well from couples. We will see what happens. Perhaps the ice will break soon. lol I'm not sure if it's people having unrealistically high expectations or
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