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PB&J last won the day on December 17 2011

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  • Birthday 02/07/1957

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  1. HI got together a few times back in the day, ie before my separation and subsequent divorce so Now I am one of those dreaded single males but was wondering what if anything you are up to theses days.

     

    Are you still in Vienna at any rate have a good day and take care.

     

    I was half id Cindy and James

  2. Your situation sounds almost exactly like what we went through 10 years ago. And we're still together and going strong. We jumped into swinging pretty fast, but then took a step back for several months before really getting started on what has been 10 years of making good friends that we also fuck. You can do this.
  3. Brings a whole new meaning to hands across the border, doesn't it? I've always thought of it as a peanut butter and jam sandwich - I wonder if it's a Canadian vs US thing?
  4. We have been to both M4 and Oasis. They are both worth checking out, but the vibe is very different at each. M4 has a fair number of single men- if you're not into that scene, be aware. Oasis has a very laid-back feel with a mix of people. The playrooms upstairs are amazing! And the pool and hot tub are wonderful. If you're in town on a weekday, I believe that those two clubs are your only options- the others just open Fri-Sun. I believe that Wicked is no longer in business- they moved, tried re-opening, and it didn't work. I've never heard of Club Priva. Probably gone, too.
  5. I want to echo what GoldCoCouple said. They may simply have too many other things on their minds right now. We played with a couple a few weeks back, they sent us a note a few days ago about setting up a next date, and it's been three days and we haven't gotten back to them yet, but we will. Why? Out of the last 7 days, I have spent 3 of them dealing with my elderly mother. I spent all Sunday in committee meetings for a board I sit on. We spent all Tuesday together shopping for a new car. I had 3 rehearsals for a play I'm directing. I went to see another play put on by friends. On top of which, I'm newly retired and starting a new career and am busy getting contracts and doing the work. And he works ten hours a day. Life happens. Sometimes, more for me than him, swinging falls down to number 5 or 6 in my list of priorities. That doesn't mean we won't get around to it. Give them a chance.
  6. The crowd tends to be young at NYX; there seemed to be a fair number of tire-kickers. We're not big club people (Eros?? Is that in Toronto? We've been doing this for nine years and I've never heard of it); never been to Ozone, X, or Wicked, just M4 and not many times there. Give me a good house party any day- but sadly, in our circle, it seems only two of us ever have them any more, and we two host couples are getting a little tired of it.
  7. We've been once. I wasn't that crazy about it. Loud music, awkward seating. We're not big fans of on-premise playing, so can't really pass judgement on that part of the facilities. We have friends who really enjoy going, but they love dancing, which I'm not so much a fan of.
  8. I have to admit to being delighted at Josh Duggar getting outed. After doing his best to prevent same sex marriage, and making money off a reality show which was all about "perfect" marriages, he deserves to get dragged in the mud for hypocrisy.
  9. It isn't quite swinging (although the lead characters do visit a swingers club), but we really liked A Good Old-Fashioned Orgy, which is surprisingly sex-positive in the end eta: not sure why the hyperlink was created; certainly wasn't by me!)
  10. I had to laugh over a profile on a now-defunct site- a couple used as their primary descriptor classy, and their profile picture was a shot of his ass and scrotum from behind as he penetrated her. Really classy.
  11. Well, then there's this... 'Rape' horror of tourist who used couchsurfing website aimed at travellers | Daily Mail Online and this... Italian Couchsurfing host allegedly drugged and raped Australian, other guests There's always hostels.
  12. BTW, Mr. Gold has had a very BAD experience with a red head (the ex) so I had to tone down the response some. Still, he says that the reason their hair is red is so you can't say you weren't warned. HEY!
  13. Ah. This reminds me of the "gentleman" on a local site who kept asking us (and everyone else we knew) to play along with his scenario of meeting them (by "accident") in a bar, and persuading her to have a 4-way, probably with the addition of liberal amounts of alcohol to get her there. I don't know HOW many times we ended up blocking him and reporting him to admin, and he kept creating new profiles and changing his location because he thought that somehow he and his pathetic ploy wouldn't be recognized. I think that once I actually responded to him and told him that tricking his wife into something she wouldn't agree to otherwise was NOT COOL. And I say the same to you.
  14. I've said this before somewhere, I think, but on a particularly low-maintenance site we were on, a couple sent us their private key that consisted of a studio portrait of them and their children! And another clueless couple had posted as their profile picture a shot of them with their toddler. No faces fuzzed out. Both times I contacted the site admin and had them dealt with.
  15. House parties are without a doubt the best!
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