shy_tn_gal

Exactly!! Hubby can have these indepth chats, find out all sorts of things about the people - then if they find out its me - they are like "my dick sure is hard this morning" Ok - none of them ever tell HIM there dick is hard (which is probably a good thing) but it pisses me off and like you, I immediately hit the ignore button. And we've run into the "Nice profile, I'm alone today, wanna come fuck?" type, too. Which is exactly why I don't chat. It just ruins my day. LOL

Actually, I don't think that alot of people on SLS read profiles. And this especially applies to the single men that pop up on the little chat box and the first question is "so what r u n 2?" Believe me, our profile is very clear on everything so that if you actually read the profile, you won't need to ask that question.

This topic has potential to be very interesting! We've had so many bizarre responses to our ad that it is just laughable. I guess the ones that bother me the most are, when our ad is VERY specific as to who/what we are looking for as well as what we are NOT looking for - then we get an email from someone that says something like "I see your ad says you are not (insert whatever here) but I thought I'd just drop you a line and see if I could change your mind." I'm also horribly turned off by those "liked ur profile, got more pics?" emails. If a person can't be bothered to actually write a message that contains at least 2-3 complete sentences, using proper grammar and spelling, I probably won't respond to that email. My favorite individual one, is from a man who has a "hand written note" from his invalid wife, giving him permission to play. He had a "canned" email that he sends out about once a month or so. However, his wife may have "retracted" her note - because we've not had an email from him in about two months now.

I agree with alot of the things others have said: 1) No glaring closeups of your private parts - I'm much more interested in the person as a whole. And it works for me to have something left to the imagination. 2) Pictures taken using the camera & mirror trick - those that are very contrived, seeing a person standing there, facing the mirror, camera in hand, naked, trying to look sexy, failing miserably - and "boom" this huge camera flash reflecting in the picture. 3) Clean up your bedroom before you take the picture. A huge pile of dirty clothes in the background just doesn't work for me. 4) Couple profiles that show only one or the other.... Got something/someone to hide? 5) Pictures taken to show off your wealth. One picture of your Harley is cool - maybe even two - but I don't want to see dozens of your Harley, your boat, your truck and your wife in 25 different outfits. I think the KISS principle should apply. Keep pictures tasteful, simple and CURRENT Just my humble opinion.

I swallow - for hubby only. I wouldn't have it any other way. Oh - we do variations of it, of course... like someone mentioned previously - licking it up can be a heck of a lot more fun than just a gulp and a swallow. There is something so incredibly intimate, sensual and erotic in the act itself. And the way I see it is...if he were between my thighs, driving me wild with his mouth, and just as I hit "IT", he pulled away.... I'd be left gasping, praying for him to finish - yeah, I could be sent to the stars some other way - but why break the moment? I feel the same way about him - I could finish him some other way - but why when we both enjoy it so much?

Well.... we are in the 40-up category - if you are counting birthdays. If you are counting mental age, the number drops drastically!!

We prefer same room only - for the simple reason that we enjoy watching each other. Not to the point of not paying attention to your partner - but little looks, touches, glances - and hearing. That's just our thing.

Still fairly new to this - but kissing is off limits as well is holding hands. Those are just little intimate things that are 'ours'. Anal also is just for us. Same room, only.

Thus far, we have only played (very selectively) with single men. And it has been a wonderful experience. We count ourselves lucky to have met three or four men who are honest, real, and alot of fun. They don't bring any drama or emotion with them. We live by the one strike rule. Everyone is entitled to the benefit of the doubt once. Things do happen unexpectedly to cause last minute cancellations or delays... but we have also learned how to weed out the talkers and the pic collectors fairly easily. Perhaps we will go to the next level soon....

Well - mine's probably blatantly obvious. a) I'm a little shy b) I'm from Tennessee c) I'm female Yeah I know- not cute - not tantalizing - not provocative.... but it was all I could think of on the spur of the moment. LOL

Hubby and I have worked in health care for most of our adult lives. I spent about 5 years working on a National Institutes of Health GYN research project studying HPV human papilloma virus) and other STDs, including HIV/AIDS HPV is very common - do the research - google Human Papilloma Virus. You'll find out more than you wanted to know. According to the Centers for Disease control, Approximately 20 million Americans are currently infected with HPV, and another 6.2 million people become newly infected each year. At least 50% of sexually active men and women acquire genital HPV infection at some point in their lives. There are over 40 types of the virus. Most people with HPV do not develop symptoms or health problems. But sometimes, certain types of HPV can cause genital warts in men and women. Other HPV types can cause cervical cancer and other less common cancers, such as cancers of the vulva, vagina, anus, and penis. The types of HPV that can cause genital warts are not the same as the types that can cause cancer. HPV types are often referred to as “low-risk” (wart-causing) or “high-risk” (cancer-causing), based on whether they put a person at risk for cancer. In 90% of cases, the body’s immune system clears the HPV infection naturally within two years. This is true of both high-risk and low-risk types. Now, that being said, the 'bad' current stats are: Genital warts. About 1% of sexually active adults in the U.S. have genital warts at any one time. Cervical cancer. The American Cancer Society estimates that in 2008, 11,070 women will be diagnosed with cervical cancer in the U.S. Other HPV-related cancers are much less common than cervical cancer. The American Cancer Society estimates that in 2008, there will be: 3,460 women diagnosed with vulvar cancer; 2,210 women diagnosed with vaginal and other female genital cancers; 1,250 men diagnosed with penile and other male genital cancers; and 3,050 women and 2,020 men diagnosed with anal cancer. Certain populations may be at higher risk for HPV-related cancers, such as gay and bisexual men, and individuals with weak immune systems (including those who have HIV/AIDS). All of that being said... and considering all of the other STDs out there, we still will play bareback occasionally, if the circumstances are right. We prefer test results... but have been known to use our own judgement on a person simply by talking and getting to know them for a while. We are both tested often.

Oooh - definately Tim & Faith. Either - or both LOL! I'm good with that!

Whew - thankfully all of our kids live in other states.... Talk about your awkward moment!

I have not yet watched hubby ... as, to date, he has been watching me... but I am looking forward to watching him with great anticipation. I have been hot for weeks just thinking about it.....