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  1. It has been very interesting reading everyone's forays into the lifestyle. Since I'm new here (but not to online forums, which I've spent too much time in for too many years) I make it a habit to read a couple threads start to finish before posting and this was one of the ones I picked (for obvious reasons.) I have a bizarre story about my "entry" into swinging. About twelve years ago I was with a girl who was amazing in the sack. She was into ANYTHING, in ANY opening. She had one bizarre hangup, though. On a BBS system (the precursor to modern forums like this one) we had met a swinging couple who were being attacked for their lifestyle. This young lady, "P," and I were defending them from the right wing gasbag that was trying to trash them when I posted, "... and if you're ever in Washington state, look us up. We'll swing with you." P detonated. I have to admit that I was a little taken aback that the same woman that once blew me in a Safeway parking lot at 2:30pm would flip out the way she did. It wasn't the end of our relationship, but that came not long after. (Honestly, I don't think this really had much to do with it. There were a lot of other issues I'm not interested in going into here.) Her reaction sort of stuck in my head. Fast forward about eight months, and I've decided to join the Armed Forces. (By the way, when I talk about "right wing gas bags," please note that I am a proudly Conservative Libertarian with Republican leanings. I make no apology for this fact.) I met the lady who eventually becomes my wife, "A." A describes herself as "polyamorous" when I meet her. Within four months we are engaged and a month and half later we are married. "One man, one woman." Unfortunately, the military sent me to a frozen rock for the first two years of our marriage, and neither of us had a lot of fun. I volunteered to go to a restricted duty assignment to get her out of our predicament, and she went home to Boston for a year while I shivered. I found out later on that several of her friends put bugs in her ear, literally every day, to sleep around on me. (Most of her friends from school are proudly socialist, and the idea of her marrying a "babykiller" offended them for some reason. She has not really ever forgiven them for that.) Eventually, she cracked under the pressure and fucked a groomsman at a wedding. I knew nothing about this at the time. I came back to the states in 2001 and we got back together, which was difficult for us both after the first posting together and the second, when we were apart. I had also picked up a new career goal and a new life goal. Perhaps I focused too much on that, because in February of 2002 she went to another wedding and fucked another groomsman. (What IS it about weddings that makes women so damn horny all the time?) So, anyway, I found out about it not long after, and she eventually came clean about the whole thing. We worked through the problems it caused (mostly the lying and the cheating-- and closely seconded by some hurtful things she wrote about me in emails to the other men, emails I had seen accidentally that flipped my switches like you wouldn't believe.) As time has gone on, I've thought a great deal about the situation and considered that it was only the cheating aspect that bothered me. My wife is very beautiful and does some truly amazing things with her... ANYWAY, the idea of watching her do them to another man-- or to me while another man hammers her into a mattress-- is an instant stiffener to me for some reason. (I'm warped. Fuck it.) When we've been having some fun ourselves I've brought up the idea a few times and she's been interested-- while we're having sex and she's intimately aroused already. I've even had her answer a few questions about her unfaithful moments, whether or not she went down on them, whether they went down on her, etc. Once, she was aroused and ripped the sheets by describing how she sucked Guy A's cock, and once she was almost offended that I'd brought it up. We almost got a threeway going with a male friend of ours when we were stationed in California, but we left before that got going. She told me once that she had, "More regrets over men I haven't slept with than men I have slept with." Hmmm... makes a boy wonder, that does. Anyway, the infidelity has pretty much conquered the idea of jealousy for me. We worked through that all right. Now I'd like to move things to a new level and see what happens. We have been married quite happily for more than ten years, despite a few errors in judgment. She doesn't seem to mind the idea of my fucking another woman at all, judging from a few conversations and situations we've been in. We are now back in Washington state. (Well, I'm back. She's from Boston.) Anyway, that's our story, and I'm sticking to it. We haven't really entered the "lifestyle," but there has been some extra cock in our relationship and we weathered it. Comments and direction will be welcomed. Direct all flames to /dev/null. -K-
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