We are very new and would like to share our experiences here.
Although we havent done anything with someone yet we are VERY interested. Our first experience at a "Swingers Club" was very exciting indeed. We saw a few in there that REALLY caught our eyes.
But we had too many single men approaching us. At one point We had three single men piling ontop of us, (I have a very attractive wife), they were getting pushy with each other and myself; ruining it for us by not making us approachable for other couples. My friend would call them cockblockers. or another term a "Swordfight".
We shook them for about 20 minutes (We went into the back and saw the "Swing" and...Well... we just had to try it). We walked around a bit, watched. Got our eyes full. But the goddamn single men just kept coming over. Some were gentlemen, but two of them just didnt get it.
We'll have to deal with this later. But it certainly doesn't shake us from what we want to do. We'll probably go back, she had her eyes on "Mister Tall Dark and Large". We're gonna try the other clubs in the area as well. See how it works out there too.