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About cupl4fun

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    Breaking Barriers
  • Birthday 12/11/1975

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  • Relationship Status
    couple, he mostly posts, she reads and points out his mistakes
  • Location
    New Mexico
  • Interests
    we like cycling, nature, camping, hiking, gardening, etc. Like hippies without the pot or LSD
  • Swinging Experience
    4 years
  • Anniversary
    Nov. 12

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  1. My better half is a teacher. I am an author and full-time student (getting Physical Therapist licensure).
  2. We used to be very Christian. I was even a pastor for 13 years. We wouldn't really claim to be "Christian" anymore, but would be more than willing to answer any questions you both might have. Best of luck to you, and Welcome to the Swingersboard!
  3. Bo and Dyson from Lost Girl would, well at least we hope they would.
  4. Yeah, we don't do drunk, loud and boisterous or any other kind for that matter. Its only fun for us if everyone has their wits about them.
  5. Yes, we mostly stick to clubs now as well. Not just for this reason, but it is a part of it. I think there is nothing wrong with being honest with people on SLS and telling them that while you are not necessarily opposed to friendship, mostly you would like to keep your friends and your playmates separate. I have seen many profiles like this.
  6. This is not a common thing. It does happen unfortunately, but from our experiences most swingers out there do not develop these stalkerish emotional attachments (we had it happen once with a single gentleman, but other than that not all). Most people are worried about this type of thing happening just like you are worried about it, so most tend to keep emotions out of it intentionally. If you start to see things occurring again with any new couples, I would just make sure that you guys respond a bit more quickly next time. Mrs. cupl would have hit the roof the first time she left a present (I would have just been scared because I have seen Fatal Attraction ) and we would have been done with them. It is always okay to set boundaries with any new playmates ahead of time and if you feel like those boundaries are being encroached upon, simply cut off contact. Which is what I would highly recommend for you guys as well as far as this couple goes. If you start up again, find some new people. I wouldn't do anything else with this couple. Your marriage and your comfort must be the highest priorities. Sorry to hear that you guys have had such bad luck
  7. I have a funny story about underwear and swinging, which is also why I mostly go commando now. We were playing with a couple at a club and after we were done our clothes were strewn everywhere. I accidentally picked up the wrong underwear and had them mostly on (about thigh high) before I realized that hey were not mine. It was at that moment that the guy realized I had his underwear, because he was doing the same thing with mine. We sheepishly traded and finished getting dressed. Commando is now the mostly the way to go for me...lol
  8. "Perhaps a good question is why do "hot wives" or perhaps their husbands, want to be called swingers?" Easier to be included and meet people if you are a part of the "group" called swingers, i.e. wearing the moniker opens doorways. The same reason lots of cheating husbands want to call themselves swingers. But like I said earlier, if they have "Lincoln approval" (Curb Your Enthusiasm reference) from their spouse, I personally don't think it really matters what they call themselves as long as they are open and honest with any potential partners.
  9. I found an older one of Mrs. cupl which we took just before going out to play (on top was a very small t-shirt dress which she has lifted up obviously) to send to the people we were meeting. She is allowing me to show this with explicit instructions that I explain this was not too long after our last little one and she has lost 40 lbs. since...lol. I don't have any of me in going out clothes, so I will have to have her take some of me still.
  10. Need clarification for me to decide, I think. Does the husband never participate at all? If he does not participate then he cannot be called a swinger, but I would have no problem with calling her one as long as the husband knows and approves. I know lots of males who do this and everyone calls them swingers, but only the ones who have approval, the other ones are called by less polite names...lol. Now if the husband sometimes plays too but mostly lets his wife go out, then they both are swingers in our mind. "I am not looking for a semantic debate, I just want the protein." This whole conversation reminds me a bit of a scene from a movie Mrs. cupl and I love
  11. We don't mind friendships, but we really enjoy the excitement of one night stands. We stay busy enough between work, kids, and other responsibilities that one night stands actually work best for us.
  12. We don't have any of us in going out wear. I guess we will have to remedy that situation.
  13. I think the greatest benefit for us is just the sense of freedom and unconditional love it provides. When one out of every two marriages ends up having infidelity occur, it is obviously a pretty natural urge to have sex with people other than your spouse. Swinging allows us the freedom to naturally fulfill those urges in a manner which our spouse approves of and even possibly participates in. The fear of our urges overtaking us and us doing something stupid is gone. When those urges come up we go and take care of them together.
  14. We are 36 and 37. For us we do not (in general) consider a single or couples below 25. That is our only age restriction though. We have played with people in their 60s. It is all about attraction and connection for us not age.
  15. It took us about three years from sharing fantasies and discussing to actually participating. We had religious hang-ups, job complications, and we are just pretty cautious, so we did a lot of research and investigating (which is what led us this site).
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