thegardiner

It would be up to that person to say and yes I would like to know. If a person just does not 'look' the part, and given the increase in frequency of this occurrence of this change, a conversation along those lines would suffice. I believe most persons would state so if indeed they don't 'look' the part. However for those that DO look the part, they may decide to not tell. Would I still be attracted if I knew? That's a good question, I'd take it by a case by case basis. For instance, let's say that a person is not into gang-bangs and orgies but rather one-on-ones and threesomes and he/she meets someone they are very interested in. After a great time of finding out more about each other and of course flirting that person then comments on the great weekend he/she had in this orgy/gang-bang the other day. Even though there's a first attraction, additional information can change it and depending on the level (or intensity) of attraction he/she may decide he/she is still game. Thus it may be a case by case basis. However for another person it may be a situation where once you were not born that way its NO WAY. Nice question though - kudos

I agree with imsherona2, attitude and personality goes a long way. That's why even if someone does not match your 'ideal' H & W, don't rule them out. However if you are not comfortable in your own skin that will be picked up. The thing about it is to be comfortable in your own skin and compliment your skin. One of the first things to work on if you are indeed concerned about your weight is to consider toning first (I'm not a doctor so I'm not even sure if you should be considering that and I'm not sure where you are at now) as in try to tone what you have a bit. Change your diet so that it can help you out that way - then start your exercise regime. I've met persons who don't fit the typical HWP and found more appealing and sexy than those who are. and the key about it is attitude and personality. However you must be realistic and consider your starting point. Yes you will find those who will not be "interested" because of your wait, but the majority won't "look down" on you - at least those serious about the lifestyle. That is not to say that you will not run into some mean persons who will look down on you. Don't be scared, have a good time and check your comfort levels. If you are really uncomfortable - don't worry - the lifestyle is not ending in 16 months so as you approach your target, start going out some and you'll see that you'll have a great time HTH

601 to 700 You are a major league kinkster! I scored 621 - wow!