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WildFire

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About WildFire

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    Here to Play
  • Birthday 05/20/1967

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  • Relationship Status
    M.Female/M.Male
  • Location
    Tennessee
  • Swinging Experience
    1-2 years

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  1. Just take things slow for now, she will eventually get her courage up to take the next step if she feels comfortable.
  2. Yes, please be careful, I fell in love with a play partner over a period of about a year and didn't even realize it until my spouse confronted me one day with a suspicion, and after I had time to digest it all, I agreed 100%. Breaking up is hard to do, luckily we are all still friends and we worked through it.
  3. We thought we were going to start soft swap, but things went really well and we just clicked with one of our first couples. So yes, we prefer full swap, and I am also Bi, I was Bi-curious at the time we started. We have had soft swap only nights out with other couples that we really have enjoyed too, but ultimately we both would like to the end the night with a full-swap. We have one of those elusive couples that we enjoy playing (all four of us) and sometimes just 3 of us:kissface: on a regular basis. They are hard to find, but lots of fun Mrs. Wildfire
  4. FMF's are the BEST! Playing with my wife and another woman is unbelievably sexy. Fingering both of them at the same time while they kiss and then banging them one at a time, back and forth, and three way kisses.... priceless Although MFM is completely different and great also. For us, everyone is straight during them, so the mood is different. She is definately the main focus and watching her handle two men is an awesome sight!!! But for me (MR.) its FMF!!!
  5. Our best group sex night: A few saturdays ago. Went to the club with friends, came back to their place to play. We watched the sunrise together while trying to gather all of our things before heading home. Time flies when you are having fun... What a night!
  6. We have a very beneficial friensdship with another couple. We are constantly in contact by phone, cell phone, chat, email, etc.. with each other on our own without any issues. He contacts her, She contacts me or him, I contact her or him, the boys might be talking on their own, etc... We don't have any rules that way and have had no issues. We normally play as a foursome, but also on ocassion as a threesome when one of the boys can't make it. Everyone is fine that way.
  7. With our exclusive full-swap couple (semi-poly relationship) anything goes except no anal MFMF, FFM, MFM, FF together or separate play ok (males are 100% straight) no condoms or A night out on our own (as a couple) 1. We stay together 2. kissing is ok 3. oral is ok 4. no full swapping
  8. Mr Wildfire here. It was an unforgetable experience for me I didn't realize in my years of dreaming of this moment how much physical work it is to please two super charged sexual females. We played at least an hour and a half or more and my whole body was sore for the next two days!!! I wish I could have told my co-workers and friends why my sixpacks were so sore on Monday morning...lol, But what a feeling it is to be with two women like that at the same time!, Mrs. Wildfire and our GF had a blast. Luckily we get to do this every so often with her I am very lucky to be able to be a part of it. I also enjoy watching them please each other in-between and during our play times. Hopefully there will be many more to cum....
  9. We are a 100% normal married couple and full-swap swingers. She is Bi also. We haven't had sex with too many others, but we have regular playdates with our favorite swing couple. We started last fall and are still going strong. We enjoy FFM play also when the schedules work out, and have also done full swap separate room play. We are really enjoying the lifestyle. Some would say we are a bit poly with our swing couple. There is a lot more to our relationship than just getting together for sex. It is all evolving nicely Everyone seems to have their own fix in the LS, we stumbled on something really nice that works for all of us.
  10. Update... Wildfire had a great night last Sat. with some swing friends at our local club. She had some nice Bi-play with the other female. She even enjoyed her first woman to woman orgasm ever while us men lavished her upper body!!!... It was a perfect night all around for everyone. Hopefully more to cum soon... She considers herself to be fully bi-compatible... it certainly adds another dimension to our nights out. What a nice surprise for me too! Mr. Wildfire
  11. Thanks Julie, Also, next time you are heading up to Nashville let us know, would like to say hi. Your site has been a huge help to us. Mr and Mrs. Wildfire
  12. Being a male, who always has to figure things out and be analitical about everything, (women hate this part of us) it seems to me that bi females come in two flavors then: 1. They had an interest early on, even before getting into swinging. or 2. Once they enter into a sexually charged environment, such like you would find in swinging, we are more open about accepting sexual feelings, and maybe the woman feels more open or safe to try it. Plus the other woman involved may have already declared her bi orientation and it is known, so there is a much better chance of acceptance over rejection. I don't know, I am not a doctor, but when close to 90% or more of swinging wives seem to be BI in some way (alteast when looking at couples online profiles), one of the two flavors must be true. Any thoughts? Mr. Wildfire
  13. Well, first of all, I would say that we were that couple you described on our first few visits to the local on-premise club. It took a while to take it in, process it all and figure out if this was something that we wanted to pursue or not. The club will have all types of couples, each with different expectations, but overall, our experience has been if a couple finds you both attractive and fun to be with, sex may not be first on their agenda. Even experienced swingers enjoy meeting new couples and just having fun, and most are going to accept your newness and should be willing to go slowly and at your pace. Hey, we have all been there at some point...but we know some couples that jumped right in the first night out and full-swapped, and we also know some that have been in this for many years and will only soft swap. So you just have to take it slow, at the speed both of you (mostly your wife it sounds) are comfortable with and find that compatible couple help you along. Thinking about swinging and actually doing it are very different animals... Keep on reading from this board and communicate as much as possible with your wife for starters and if she is up for it, see if she would go to a club. Just be yourself and have fun with no expectations... We eased into the actual swinging part after just having a curiosity of going to the a club environment and checking it out. I would also recommend meeting another couple for dinner, they should be willing to guide you both along with answers to questions you may have and sharing experiences. You will learn a lot more in a few hours face to face talking with them. What has solidified my wife's views and acceptance of the lifestyle was meeting and talking with other couples like us that were already experienced swingers. Even though I have the best relationship a man could have with his wife, there are some things that she has to see and hear for herself for her own confirmation. Your wife may have in interest in bi-play, plus there's the jealousy factors that may be an issue, so make sure you both understand what swinging is all about. It is quite simple really, just to have fun, but it takes the right combination of having a healthy relationship, lots of trust in each other and a good set of rules you both will adhere to going in. I really wouldn't worry too much about being new with another couple, just be upfront with them, so they know what to expect from you, and visa versa. Hope that helps...
  14. We are both somewhat new to swinging, we have been married almost 16 years, we don't have a lot of experiences yet and so far we have only soft swapped with a few other couples, but in addition to swapping spouses, I always had the fantasy of seeing my beautiful wife locking lips with another beautiful woman and maybe even making love together, what man doesn't dream of that!!! Whenever I brought up that possibility with her, she would say gross, no way, not me, not in a million years, etc... Not any more!!! In the past several weeks she has had some really great experiences with another woman that we met on the dance floor at our local on-premise club. It all started with some dancing, then a little touching, and some playfull kisses and finally full on making out. She loved it, and she isn't just doing it to please me which is what I originally thought. I asked her what changed her mind? She said she was in a moment and it just felt right. I am so happy for her, and I don't mind either...I even got in on the action with a threeway kiss in the middle of the two of them which was so nice... I have to say as much as I hoped this would happen someday, I never thought she would really do it. I still can't believe it!!! She said never had feelings for women before we started swinging, and now we can talk openly about it to a degree... She is ready to explore some more at this point. Is this the way most of the other bi-curious, bi-sexual swinging women got started? Mr. Wildfire
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