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bellady

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  • Birthday 12/15/1966

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  1. Being Gay and Bi are very different. Gay men want to have relationships and love other men. Bi men just like the sex and there is nothing wrong with that. It is just most men are afraid of admiting that they would want sex from another guy. My husband who is very masculine and the last one you would ever thing is gay, is Bi. We started swinging about 6 months ago and a few months into it he asked how I would feel if he had sex with a guy. I love watching and participating in it. We had the pleasure of having a MMF with another Bi guy and it was a great time had bi all! (pun intended) He is very discreet about it and will only admit to being bi to other bi men. We have a couple of male swinging friends who are very homophopic and hubby would be devestated if they ever found out. It's just not something men do according to some. These same men love to see women together, why the double standard? I on the other hand am not that into women. I am what they call socially Bi. I will play with a women in the heat of the moment but it is not what I seek out to do. So as a couple we are opposite of most who swing. It takes all kinds
  2. Swinging has enhanced me and hubby's relationship...we had a great one to start with... but it has only improved it. We feel even closer..sharing this with each other and having a "secret". Knowing that we can have sex with others and still want each other the most... Also it has inspired me to take better care of myself and loose weight! What could be better than that!! :cheer:
  3. I would like to try a dark room orgy... sounds exciting...I, like most on this thread..would have to know and feel comfortable with all people involved... I would think maybe 4-6 people in the room would be good... Mr Bell is bi-curious and I don't mind playing w/ women so it sounds like a good time to me... Thanks for the idea
  4. I just wanted to add that swinging has been a great motivator for me to loose weight. I had been trying to loose about 20 pounds for a couple of years and never managed to motivate myself long enough to loose more than a few pounds. Than Mr Bell and I started swingin' back in Dec. and I have lost 15 pounds since then...nothing like the thought of other people seeing you naked to get you motivated. I wanted to feel more confident and sexy and I sure do now.. Even if you don't ever loose any weight take the great advice you have gotten here and have fun....
  5. I would say just... GO FOR IT.... and have a good time..there are all types of people in clubs and this lifestyle. Like someone else said, maybe if you find you are not comfortable in one club maybe you would be in another or meeting couples..one on one...or should I say two on two..
  6. They found something new and wanted to explore it. It took their time for them to do so, like kids in a candy store. That is very common in life so why get pissed off over it? I am sure there has been some time in your life that you got involved in something that took a lot of your time and you cut back time with others, everyone does it no matter what their lifestyle is. I agree with Lee
  7. I wear mine to the club or party but never seem to have them on as the night progresses. I like to wear them for the play factor.. see how long they stay on and who ends up with them...
  8. I voted spend an evening w/ sexy friends. To me that means maybe someone we met on a site, to meet up for a couple of drinks. We love to go to parties but I can not see it right now due to budgetary reasons. I cleaned up our guest room and got it ready for "guests" I would rather go to a hotel but would invite the right people to our home rather then not be able to play at all because of a money issue.
  9. IMHO.... swinging is when a couple has recreational sex with other couple(s) or singles. When a husband or wife plays alone I consider that an open marriage. When singles play I assume they are just looking to have sex and do not have a SO to fill their needs. I don't really label them as swingers.
  10. I don't like the term "lover" for any situation. Especially in swingerland. Lover, to me, means you love the other person, but even with my husband that term just is kinda "icky" IMHO.
  11. Mine...Never... My mom told me once that Dad is the only one she ever had sex with...How boring... They would just die if they knew what their daughter did... His parents ... again... Never...Very conservative. I do not know of any family members that do or can not imagine that they do... We both have very " Leave it to Beaver" type families.. Don't know what happened to us... We are the lucky ones who broke free I guess:EG:
  12. We had about a half hour ride home and we talked about it all the way, about everything that went on and how we felt and agreed we wanted to do it again... We have had only a few experiences so far but we talk about them in detail and end up horny all over again!
  13. Very interesting thread... Mr Bell and I are fairly new at this and have only told my best female friend ... Just because I knew she would be cool with it.. She is actually gay and I had tell her I had my first experience with a female! Anyways we would be ok if our vanilla friends found out.. I think they would be ok with it but we are not going to tell them outright. Our families would be mortified!!!! I sometimes do not know what to say when my coworkers ask what I did over the weekend:blush:
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