shaguar

Ok, I feel kind of mean for posting that. I intended the gist of it, just being real even if with tongue in (butt)cheek, but I want to expound on what I mean by race or racism. In my experience, in the context of the fascistic warped media and 24 hour propaganda bombardment that white Americans suffer, they are probably the most unracist people around. Do I mean all of them? No, some of them, many of them, I haven't met all of them yet. I should add that when one considers racial comments or attitudes, you can't always consider the experience of the individual, you have to draw the line at all people must be treated with respect regardless of attributes they can't control. I say this because some minorities in the US and elsewhere are openly racist but get away with it based on the so called burden of history. Nonetheless, that is *within the bounds* of the reality they are subjected to, so I don't expect perfect behaviour. Things get significantly worse if you consider Canada or Australia, but compared to say Japan or China or the Arab countries, the Anglo-Saxon countries have basically zero racism. Two more things. When you allow people a let, say border guards or policemen exercising discretion, they will often sink to the lowest common denominator and abuse power, which includes profiling and discrimination. Secondly, when it comes to sex and love, we want what we want, and nobody else has the right to question preferences. The point I am making is there is a sexual totem pole globally, with white men at the top. And there is a sliding scale for judging bias or atrocity. Life is unfair. It is that way, no use in crying about it or wasting time explaining it. A lot of it has to do with the low esteem many immigrants hold themselves in, thank you colonialism. It is a complex topic but I am just calling it like it is. All I was trying to explain to OP was that his chances are slightly more than the one sperm that makes it to the egg, and significantly less than the sea turtle hatchling that makes it to the water. In the immortal words of the Jim Carrey character, "So you're tellin' me there's a chance!"

Remember, no one is racist anywhere, anyhow unless you happen to turn out to be non-white. I really thought it was rich that in one of the above replies, someone said people might be letting down easy saying it's not you, it's your race! "Sir, we find you and your 4 inch dick perfect in every way, but it's just that you are a ****!" Is this the self-delusion that society has sunk to? I mean did the poster really think that through, or was the urge to comfort so overpowering? Dude, as a single man AND an INDIAN (the lowest status male in the Western world sexually speaking, tied with Chinese), you have no chance of getting laid in swinging, and virtually no chance in the non-ethnic vanilla world. But wait, you're not looking for free sex right - you just want to be friends with married couples. I hear that there are some great biker bars looking to connect with open-minded intellectuals from other cultures. I wish I could be more encouraging, but I'd be lying.