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OK, at the risk of being crude, has anyone ever been with someone who didn't know how to fuck? I ask that question because I have been with that person. She was an absolute "10". A friend, a sweet heart, a second marriage to a good friend of mine. She was in the experimental stage and swinging with whoever she determined they would swing with. She had two kids from previous marriage. She has been around the block so to speak. One afternoon when we came back to our house and the kids went to sleep. The ladies were talking and determined that they would have each others spouse. We spouses did not disagree. She said told my wife she wanted to fuck me. My wife said "OK" bless her heart. She and I went up to the bedroom. The first kiss was an open mouth tongue slapping kiss that was not really a kiss I've ever had or would care to have again. She got on top of me immediately, sat there and told me to tell her when I would cum so she could suck it out of me. We went for awhile, eventually being bored I turned her over. She resisted it for a moment and then she went with it. I told her I was coming and she slipped out from under turned over and sucked me. That can never be wrong. Then I think she planned on that being it. However I stayed hard and put her back on me until for a seemingly endless time until her Hubby and my wife opened the door and he said "we have to go". The worst fuck with a "10" or a "1" I've ever had. I think about it all the time. Has anyone had that experience?

We here so much about not doing separate rooms; can anyone share their experience? Our first was separate and it was a good experience. In fact I think it was hotter than same room because thinking about what was going on in the other room in lieu of watching it was somewhat of a mystery. Talking about it later was great. I think sometimes people in same room situations can't let go fully. Your thoughts. (I do understand there is a level of safety concern but with the right people it could diminish the safety issue.)

In this forum it seems all men are interested in watching their wives with another guy. Is that just this group of people or do you think all men in general would like to experience that situation.

We have a couple we are friends with who we have never been involved with other than being good friends and sometimes talking about things we like to do. We have been open about being with other couples as they have also but between us we have never crossed the line with them and have kept our friendship platonic. The other night we all decided to go to a club with no onsite activity just a social club. We each meet a couple and decided to get rooms and play with the people we met. We got ajoining rooms and decided that my wife and our friends Hubby would go into the other room with one couple and each would be with one of our new friends and the same with his wife and I. We felt it safe that our wives could be in the other room as we each would watch over our friend. It was an interesting experience as I was so taken by my friends wife that I was really more interested in just watching her go at it (Although I didn't completely ignor the lovely lady I was with by no means). Now I have these fantasys each time I see her. I told her husband about my thoughts and he said the same thing that my wife was incredible and he was loving just watching her. What a great experience. Later that week we all talked about it and decided to keep things as they are. Has anyone had a similar experience and took it to the next level? How did it go?

Dude You can't trust your wife. Let her do what she wants and enjoy her as she wants to be enjoyed. Be safe and take care of yourself we are all proud of your service. Good luck. Return home safely.

Wow, it seems the post struck a cord. Let me just say that the don't tell portion of the evening came after the event so to speak. I don't like being put in that position it is not really fair. What to do at a time like we were having? I did tell my wife and she is OK with it. That leads to the other question that came from a response regarding a line that read "women and rules".... I don't want to start a flurry of negitative comments but here is why I made that comment. Not to generalize of course but there have been times that women during the course of a playful evening decide that they are stepping out of the box, caught in the moment, feeling exceptionally free, take it to a place they have been thinking of going or whatever the reason, a night to break the rules. Some will tell their spouse some will say nothing about it and just leave the situation silent and others who have reservations have to verbalize the need to keep it... as they say.... "stays in Vegas. In some of the cases the rules are not necessarially spelled out prior and sometimes the magic of the evening happens during play times. But at all times respect is the key there and NO means NO and STOP means STOP. Those rules should never be broken. In this case the Husband verbalized the rules but she didn't agree or disagree at the time. Last comment. Ladies there must be some of you out there that have broken the rules for some reason. Let's here from you.

Hello all. First I would like to say that I think women interested in the lifestyle are special. Whether experienced, newbi's or those experimenting I find you all amazing and I enjoy the time I get to spend with you and never take a moment of it for granted. Recently my partner met a couple on line and arranged for us to meet. We met a a restaurant and all showed up which was a plus. We had some drinks danced and had fun conversation. In that coversation the couple noted it was their first time in a full swap and noted that they wanted to be sure if we did get into it that NO means NO, STOP means STOP, "she doesn't swallow and she is not into anal". Well OK no problem we are interested in fun and appreciate everyones concerns. We then decided to go to our house. When we got there after a few more drinks I described the bedroom set up and took his wife by the hand invited them in the same room to join us then led her into one of the bedrooms. (We as a couple enjoy seperate rooms). My wife and her partner never joined us and that was fine with us. To make a long story short after we were at it for some time she went down on me and when I was ready to cum I tryed to pull back, tapped gently on her head but to no avail, so I exploded in her. Guess what She swallows. I stayed hard as I usuall do when someone swallows me and so I went back to pounded her, she then got on top and after a few minutes she, guess what, put me in her bump. She paced it slowly and I just went with it and again, I exploded in her. What a wonderful evening. I asked her about the rules and she said she doesn't do that normally but felt she was free tonight to do what she wanted without her husband around for the first time since they were married and she enjoyed it greatly. But keep the evenings private detailed actions from her husband. Gotta love women and rules!