Tira

Thank you all for your help, after discussing the situation in detail, we have decided as well that the cons outweigh the pros by quite a bit, and it's just not worth the drama that might ensue.

We are completely new to the lifestyle and already face a (rather difficult) situation. While browsing AFF we came across one of my co-workers and his wife's ad there Said co-worker works in the same office as me (literally right next to me), and we have a very good relationship. The temptation is there to approach them, but my husband thinks that it is a bad idea to get involved with co-workers. Any input?