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  1. So my wife and I are now looking to find our first experience. This week we began to activlely look for our first couple or single to invite over. We have contacted a few people and have some potential matches. To me, since this will be our first time, it almost seems more comfortable to start with a single woman or man. I am not sure why, but I think that it would be easier. Any one else feel this way or start off like that? It seems that after we have done that once or twice we could go for a couple. My wife has no problem with a couple first, and no problems with single males or femals either... Maybe it is the audience thing...I don't know. Just wondering if anyone else had their first experience with a single first and then moved to couples, or if most just jumped right in to couples. So, what did you start with?
  2. 17 out of 20 for us. Really, as long as the boobs aren't way too saggy, then they are great. It's a boob! Real or fake, whats not to like!? D
  3. My wife and I have been talking and discussing swinging for months now, and are going to go to a club in a few weeks. Of course, nothing may happen, but my point is that we are going to give it a try. I do have one question, though, that experienced swingers may have some insight on. I am not circumcised. I have never had anyone think this a bad thing (although women usually want to check it out for a bit before jumping right on ), but I wondered about this in the swinger community. I assume that most are circumcised, but are there plenty that aren't? Any women out there stay away from uncircumcised males? Personally, I love being un-circumcised and wouldn't do it for anything!! Just wondering about others experiences. Thanks, D and N
  4. My wife and I are looking for our first couple or single, but I have no doubt that she will be a monster! My wife was VERY conservative when I first met her, and has progressed in the last 3 years to one of the wildest people I know ( ). She wants to swing, and I can tell that once she is on the loose, she'll be one of the wildest monsters out there... I wonder... do most of the "sex monsters" start from conservative people? For the husbands with the wild women, were they wild when you got them or a bad girl in sheeps clothing? D
  5. Oh...if you are talking about a harder drug use (I gather this from the 30 years of off and on), then I agree. There are some that can read it. I have had friends go down that road, and ruin their lives with drug use (never touched hard drugs myself) , and I can tell when someone is a harder drug user (or has been). But someone that occasionaly smokes pot? No, I cannot tell this. I'll end this hear as the wife is calling for sex!! !! D and N
  6. You'd be surprised at how UNREADABLE it is in most.... In any event, I would not put D&D free if I did any sort of drug, because even marijuana is a drug, so why lie? If I see a D&D post, I assume it means just that.
  7. Yea, we smoke the occasional joint, but if someone started one up in my house without asking me, I would be offended, and would not invite them back over. I have no problem with marijuana, but anything harder needs to be left to the privacy of their own home or with others that do the same. Unless smoking is a common ground that is mutually agreed upon (brought up before, and both parties are interested) I think it should just be left out. I haven't really conducted a poll, but I have found that more people than you would suspect smoke a joint or two now and again in the right situation. The more outgoing the person (i.e. sexually liberated people), the greater the chance. I wouldn't bring it up though unless I really thought that they partake, it just creates unneeded tension. All that said, great fun when included though!!
  8. You didn't mention it, but I assume that you are married, and I assume that one of the original assumptions and practices was monogamy. Thus, swinging is the alternative lifestyle in your relationship. So, your wife has every right to say no, and you should respect that. If you had gotten married, and were swingers before, and then after as well, and THEN she decided that she did not want to do it anymore, I would agree that monogamy was the alternative for you, and that you might have some thinking to do depending on how you felt about your partner. Personally though, being with my wife comes above all else and even though she is a tiger in bed and I love it, if she decided to never have sex again tomorrow, I would still stick with her. I guess it comes down to how much you love your spouse. I am not trying to judge you if you do not love her that much, only saying that you should recognize that your lack of feelings would be the end of the relationship, not your sexual differences. Just my 2 cents
  9. Did she think that she could intimidate you into it or something...!? Some people... Good choice telling her goodbye
  10. My wife has a fantasy about one of my friends too. We have joked about it with him, and he would be down with it. I am hesitant to do it though, as we are pretty good friends and I wonder what it would do for our friendship. Would things get "weird?" I know that he would keep it to himself, that is not the issues, I just wonder what it would do to our friendship. Stronger, better, worse, strange, ... ? I think that it could be OK, that it could be fun, and that we could still be great friends and just have one more thing to talk about... Any other people out there like to share their experience with sharing their wife with a good friend and what it did for their friendship. Thanks D
  11. This is a great idea, one that I will definently use - subtle yet obvious to my wife or I. I have been trying to come up with something good for a while now - THANKS
  12. I (male half) love talking dirty to my wife, but I simply laugh if she tries to talk dirty to me. It sounds funny - unnatural I guess. She'll say things like "Fuck me harder!" or something, but it doesn't get any worse than that. But when I talk to her, the dirtier the better. She likes it down-right nasty:eek: ! I don't think that I would feel comfortable talking like this to someone else though, it is something that we do between us that turns her on (and turns her on just from me).
  13. I (male half) don't really care one way or the other. My wife gets naked at every possibly occasion! I think that she would live naked if she could. She always walks around the house naked and has no problems posting herself on web pages.
  14. My wife loves it. It was kinda of hard for me to get into at first, and it seemed awkward and funny. After I got used to it though, it's a lot of fun. Of course it is not an everytime thing, but just when the mood is right - when we both just want rough hard sex. Then it is great, it turns both of us on enormously! D and N
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