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  1. We are in Massachusetts and our hot tub is outside. It seems the best times for using it are in the fall, winter, and spring! Summer sometimes is just too hot, although we adjust the temperature accordingly. There's nothing like a cool or cold evening when we're all snuggled up, the two of us, or four of us, one time eight of us, in the hot tub! You can feel the cooler air but you're nice and warm; also, a "bubble" of warmer air seems to collect just over the tub so even on a real cold day we're nice and warm. Trouble is, we never want to get out! One hint - if you put it outside, try to locate it as close to the house as possible, so when getting out in winter you can hurry up inside. Oh, and a sheepskin rug in front of a nice fire helps too.... By the way our swinging began becsue of a hot tub, then we got one, and then two other sets of friends got one too!
  2. One year she went dressed up with a big fake ear down by her waist, and I made this big fake "Q-Tip" sticking out from around my waist. It was hilarious, everyone thought it was so funny!
  3. Definitely a gang-bang with four or five guys and myself all fucking my wife's brains out. One fucking her, one getting a blowjob, one up the ass, and with each hand she's jerking off two others! She controls it all so well that all the guys come at once! Then we all keep changing places, and each of us gives her an orgasm!
  4. Well there was no real "turning point" except for the time the two of us went to visit a friend about 2 hours awaywhose girlfriend had just dumped him. We went out to a bar, dancing and drinking; the other guy & I drank quite a bit; my wife only occassionaly drinks, plus she was driving. When back at his house he wanted us to go in his hot tub, so the three of us did. He & I were naked but my wife was wearing her bathing suit. (Come to think of it, why did she bring her bathing suit???) I told her to take it off, then I just took it off myself. The next thing we know us two guys are all over her and both of us went down on her, she did me and gave him a hand job. Later I asked her if she was ok with everything, and she said, "I wouldn't have done anything I really didn't want to do!" None of this was planned (Still that bathing suit thing.....!!!) so that made it more OK for her; she prefers spontaneity rather than planned. Since then we've done soft-swinging with him again, and with a few couples; once with him and his new girlfrend!) So I would have to say that the turning point was this first time that it "just happened!"
  5. Yeah, just once though. I had already had two orgasms, and was going at it again. There was no way I was going to come a third time, but I wanted to make the woman feel like she made me come three times so I faked it. Needless to say, this was when I was a lot younger, about 25 years old. Hmmm, maybe I'll try to break my record!
  6. Only a measly 566, but now I have a "checklist" of things to do!
  7. I can take feet or leave them, but my wife goes absolutely crazy when I rub and massage her feet. We discovered this in a hot tub once! She will get just about to the point of orgasm when I'm rubbing her feet. I now have a goal to to make her come just by massaging her feet!
  8. I know of a couple who were trying to get pregnant but couldn't after 3 years of trying. Turns out he had a real low sperm count. They couldn't afford the costs of artificial insemination and in vitro so it was suggested that they find somebody who looked like the husband and have him impregnate her. They carefully considered it and decided to ask a friend with similar lookks and he agreed. He came over three times a week and had intercourse with the wife. This went on for a year and still she didn't get pregnant; it turned out the friend had had a vasectomy years ago... :lol:
  9. It's amazing! It's amazing how many other guys have experienced the same thing that I have! I mean, I think about eating my cum out of her pussy a lot while we're doing it, but once I cum, the thought leaves my mind. I even tell her I'm going to "Eat my cum right out of her pussy" or "I'm gonna come on your tits and then lick it off!" A couple of times I did, it wasn't bad, and was enjoyable to both of us. The idea of it seems to be intensely erotic but afterwards it seems not such a big deal. Glad to hear a lot of you guys feel exactly the same!
  10. That is very interesting, because that is the same attitute that my wife has. I think it is something about it being "planned" vs. something "just happening." My take on it is that my wife may feel like if it just happens, then that is somehow easier for her to participate than if it is all planned out. This sort of goes contrary to the general opinion that activities should be discussed in advance, like boundaries and limits. Our first experience "just happened" in a hot tub with a male friend of ours. She was OK with it all afterwards, but if we had been trying to plan it out in advance then she may not have gone for it. This presents some issues like meeting people on line or at clubs; I mean, what is the reason we're meeting these people? Anyway we're now soft-swinging with this one couple we met on line; get together about once a month. Obviously when we get together the ultimate reason is for some sex. We do talk about it beforehand but it seems like things go a little farther than we planned each time, and she's always ok with it. Maybe if you set up some situations where it could or could not happen, then when it does she might feel better about it!
  11. My current partner, she does not like anal sex so I haven't done it with her, and she says we never will. It's ok, we do everything else. Now my ex-wife, she wanted anal sex so much, she didn't want it the regular way any more! If I went into her vagina, she'd say, "Turn me over and fuck my ass!" It almost got to the point where I was yearning for vaginal intercourse! Problem was, she was fucking everyone else in the city without my knowledge. I never understood this, because we had done some swinging and I told her anytime she wanted MMF we could do it. Guess she just wanted out. Anyway, just wanted to illustrate the differences in my two wives!
  12. The medication I am using is called "Trimix" because it is a mixture of three drugs, papavarine, phentolamine, and prosoglandin E-1. They make this mixture in various proportions depending on your situation. I have "Mixture #5" whatever that is. Your urologist will decide what's best for you. The medication comes in a tiny bottle, I get 2 ml at a time because I only use .08 ml per injection, that gives me about 25 does per bottle ($60 each, real inexpensive!) and it must be kept refrigerated or it starts to break down. If I'm traveling I have a small thermos bottle that i carry it in, also you need the syringes and alcohol pads. I'm married so I discretion is not really a problem, but when swinging, and we've only soft-swung with a few close couples, I usually either tell them about it in advance or if I need to be secretive I'll fill a syringe in advance and keep it in a small bag if ice till needed, and just excuse myself to the bathroom. Even though we've only soft-swung, I still like to have a firm erection in any activity we take part in, mostly in our hot tub. If I was single and this was a dating situation, I think it would be a bit more problematic, but any worthy partner should very very understanding and thankful if you confided this to them. Yes you only inject one side, since the blood vessels between the two sides of your "corpus cavernosa" and intertwined and the medication gets dispersed throughout your penis. If you want my full article just email me and I'll send it! Good Luck!
  13. You really should check into the injection therapy! See my previous posts and if you want I'll send you my article. Your life will change and you will be 18 years old again!
  14. Do you get scarring with the injections? That could be fun, having a non-stop erection for 2-3 hours. It would be really great in group situations. No, I have not had any scarring or lumps or bumps from the injections. Again, the needles are micro thin, the same as diabetics use, and are almost totally painless. I usually alternate left/right for the injection site, (near the base of the penis, NOT near the head!) and hold the alcohol swab with slight pressure for a few minutes. I have probably injected about 150 times in about a 2 year period (ok, everyone, do the math......) and have not had any adverse effects. Haven't had the PLEASURE of any group situations yet, just another couple, and we soft swing anyway. But it is great to sport such a full erection for 3 hours when in the hot tub! A big benefit is that the erection is maintained, and is even stronger after orgasm! So even after coming there is still enough for more playing! I'll tell you though after 3 hours or so I'm almost begging for it to go down, it can start to be a little painful. You have do be very careful with the dose, otherwise you can get a "priapism," an erection that lasts longer than 4 hours can damage the tissues in the penis and prevent further erections! I really urge any men who have erectile dysfunction issues to check into this therapy. Anyone near Boston can check with Boston University Medical Center, Center for Sexual Medicine. Other large medical centers must also have similar programs!
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