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Trace Ekies

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Trace Ekies last won the day on May 8 2009

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About Trace Ekies

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  • Birthday 09/20/1964

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  • Relationship Status
    Couple
  • Location
    Central Florida
  • Interests
    Camping, Jeeping and swinging...in no particular order.
  • Occupation
    Him - Contractor, Her - Homemaker
  • Swinging Experience
    3 years

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  • SLS Name
    swyngcpl
  • Favorite Club(s)
    Tastebuds

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  1. Happy Birthday have fun

  2. Like virtually everyone, she has concerns that she need not worry about... We've seen every type have fun...and they had worries too...but they had fun and worked on their "concerns". Get out and meet people and she'll learn that some of what she calls flaws are appreciated by people... Most of all...just get out and have fun.
  3. The Mrs. would definately approach...I would be very careful and decide to stay clear... At 46 years old I would find it difficult to approach a single woman in her late 20's to early 30's (my assumption based on your description) due to the high volume of "hits" you'd typically receive and my fear of making fool of myself approaching someone so much younger than me. It is not beauty or intelligence that I fear...it's being the "dirty old man" in the eyes of others... While I understand that "there's an ass for every seat", I will almost always assume that a beautiful young woman is looking for someone near her own age... Feel free to approach myself and Mrs. Ekies anytime... Good luck in your swingin' travels, Trace
  4. You come here and ask our advice and then find us "hostile" because you didn't get the answer you wanted. Okay, here goes... Hiring a prostitute in Las Vegas is a good idea. Have a ball. Trace
  5. Thursday, August 12, 2010, 8:15 am: Trace..."Hey Hottie" Female lover..."I'm naked and drying my hair" Trace..."Lucky mirror" Female lover..."you're too sweet" A few minutes later: Female lover..."I'm getting dressed...what color underwear?" Trace..."None please" Female lover..."I have to wear them...you make me very horny" Trace..."Bright in color...something in the 'boy shorts' look" Female lover..."All I have is boy shorts...pink, yellow or purple?" Trace..."Yellow" Female lover..."I wish this was you hugging my pussy...hehe. Enjoy the pic" Pic of her mid-section with bright yellow lace boy shorts arrives... Trace faints and bangs his head on his desk when the blood rushes away from his brain... Man I love texting... Trace
  6. I agree with moving on...they'll work it out or they won't...and you'll have no input either way... I would send an email telling them how much we appreciated the time we spent with them and that I hoped we had not caused them to be uncomfortable. It'll do two things...1. Show an enormous amount of civility. 2. Make them think about how they handled the situation and hopefully save themselves and others some grief in the future. You should be applauded for how you handled the surprise cum attack Mrs. Synergy... Trace
  7. I agree with Fuse... Your profile made me feel like a new employee reading the company policy... Remember...Diplomacy is the art of letting someone else have YOUR way. Many of your needs and concerns can be addressed with re-wording and will feel warmer to potential suitors. I have spent a great deal of time teaching Mrs. Ekies that she MUST be willing to tell a pushy potential lover when her or she has gone too far. You must be willing to do the same...a polite, "hands off until I say so" should do the trick. Be very sure that he or she is not getting mixed signals... Some tweaking of the profile, a bit of introspection and a little luck will bring some fantastic results. Good luck! Trace
  8. As I stated before, we use it a great deal... Since that last statement things have changed a bit...Mrs. Ekies racked up 2,910 texts from June 21 to July 20 of this year. For comparison sake I offer the following...from November 21 to December 20 of last year she racked up...wait for it...64 texts... Yes, you're reading that right...2,910 texts last month and only 64 texts 6 months earlier...she's found it to be a great way to communicate with both existing single male lovers and potential single male lovers. To add even more clarity, consider this...I use texting for a number of things...communicating with my employees, clients, Mrs. Ekies and a female friend...and I racked up 576 texts last month... And people say I talk alot! All of this is above board...no sneaking around or game playing...just some fun facts about the sex lives of Trace and Mrs. Ekies. Carry on, Trace
  9. Three years ago Mrs. Ekies and I met a couple and eventually learned that the other woman had her hood pierced...I mentioned how sexy I found the other woman's piercing and asked Mrs. Ekies if she'd have hers done...I got an emphatic "NO WAY!" and dropped it. Fast forward to last Monday, July 26th...Mrs. Ekies asked me to find a place that would pierce her hood...I did as asked and she has an appointment for 2 pm tomorrow, August 3rd. Patience was the key here...I had no way of knowing that she'd go thru with it, but I had the wherewithall to let it lie until such time as she was ready. Patience here is key for you...honor her requests without being pushy and let her come to terms with the implications...and then fill further requests and let her come to terms again...eventually you'll be riding home laughing about how hot it was to watch her have sex with others for the pure pleasure of it. Open the door when she asks and then step aside and let her walk thru on her own...we've done it all of our lives as men...don't stop now. Best of luck, Trace
  10. Please understand who you're talking too when coming here...we are from wildly varying backgrounds with a common thread. Your situation is very familiar to me...my brother fought and fought to save a relationship with a selfish person who had been "abused" or had "had it rough" when they were young. I watched him be twisted and turned over the years and then become bitter when she announced that she was divorcing him because he was controlling...his was heart broken. The effort you invest in this situation my be right for you...but it a similar situation turned out poorly in our lives...which explains our reaction...in the end, you will see all sides and be better prepared to make the best decision for you. Please understand my rant about "negotiated infidelity/swinging"... "Negotiated infidelity" is when one-half of a couple tolerates their partner's indiscretions... "Swinging" is a mutual agreement between a couple to have sex with others... I wouldn't want you to think for a moment that Mrs. Ekies and I have negotiated with each other to be unfaithful to one another. It's quite the opposite in fact, we have discussed in detail having sex with each other and others...so long as we do it together. We as swingers have a very difficult time helping others to understand what we do and why...and using "negotiated infidelity" and "swinging" in the same sentence as interchangeable terms does not help our cause. Imagine if your husband was discussing swinging with you and the first thing you read was a sentence where infidelity and swinging are used interchangeably... Please accept my apology for my "coarseness". I'm truly trying to help.
  11. We started with nudity as a form of recreation about 4.5 years ago...our daughter, the oldest, was nearly 11 at the time and we didn't think that introducing her at that age was wise or doable. For kids who've been raised as nudists, I, like you, see no problem with them at a resort such as Caliente. They played like other kids, swam in the pool and hung out with mom and dad (pardon the pun). But after 9:00 at the club or in the hot tubs...not good for kids...VERY good for adults. Trace
  12. Hedo is adults only with single men allowed. Desire is adult couples only. As far as I know, all of the resorts in Florida are nudist resorts that have families who attend. Of the dozen trips we've made to Caliente, we've seen a family of four only once. A husband and wife with two children that were 10 years old, plus or minus. With nothing sexual going on, having children around didn't bother us in the least. Caliente has hosted a number of Aahz parties at their facility which are swinger based events. This weekend they have theme nights in the club both Friday and Saturday nights...something about g-strings and animal prints... The fact is, they cater to nudists as well as the sexy and erotic side of nudity. We bring a lot of money when we come and they want our business. We, in turn, keep the overt sexual stuff to ourselves and our friends behind closed doors. It seems like an even trade that works for all. Trace
  13. Caliente is a great place...a bit pricey but worth it. Two sites we frequent, NaughtyOutlaw.com and Playfulswingers.com, have threads posted about Caliente and what's going on. There are frequent parties and many posts by a number of people who are going and want to meet others. We're headed there tomorrow and have invited friends to stay in a condo with us...I intend to be raw when I leave there Sunday...hehe. Caliente offers three lodging choices...condo, hotel, casita... We prefer the 2-bedroom condo. Think high-end time-share. The hotel is nice (mirror on the ceiling) and very close to the clubhouse. The casita's are small, beautiful mobile homes. Caliente is not a campground...in fact, there's no dirt at Caliente. There's an island in the pool with palm trees and a waterfall at one end. The roads are paved and the grounds are beautifully kept. If you want to go to the clubhouse, just call the desk and they'll send a golf cart to pick up your naked-self and haul you all over the property...when you're ready to head to your accommodations...they'll take you back. Wanna eat naked? Have at it! How about a great club to party in? Got it! The sports-themed restaurant is our favorite...but we have most of our meals in the condo. Two rules that must be followed: 1. When naked, always have towel to sit on, 2. No overt sexual acts in public. If you do some shopping with Caliente you can find the occasional deal...we got a 2 bedroom condo for 4 nights and 5 days including day-fees for Mrs. Ekies and I for $700 including taxes as long as we sit through a 45 minute "Get acquainted with Caliente" presentation (they have assured me it's not a sales presentation)...our friends will have to pay their own day fees of $50 per person per day. While Caliente is not a swingers resort it does have parties and events that are affiliated with swing groups. You will, on occasion, see a family of four at the pool enjoying themselves but the clubhouse is off-limits to anyone under age after 9:00 pm. We think anyone would enjoy a stay at Caliente...especially if you arrange to meet friends...hehe. And it's in the states...less than a days drive from Alabama and less than an hour from Busch Gardens, Tampa Bay, Rays Baseball, Clearwater and a host of other interesting sites. Have fun, whatever you do. Trace and Mrs. Ekies
  14. It seems to me that to be a cuck would require that you do as you are told...like it or not... As LustyLearning said, these are hotwife activities. I have trouble getting Mrs. Ekies to quit worrying about me in a MFM, MMFM and related scenarios...she's concerned that I'm being left out or feel like I should give her space to play... It took some time for her to come to terms with the fact that I like to watch...and then join. It gives me pleasure to see her pleasured and I like to give her space to be the slut that she really wants to be. After about 6 months she got over it and has really cut loose a couple of times...much to my pleasure... You're back to the old "communication" line...talk will cull out the facts so that you both are comfortable and get what you're after. Trace PS...We'd love to see her in action...hehe.
  15. We assume this goofball is actually "meeting" "women" online...who knows...he may be "meeting" moronic losers like himself and just thinks they're women. I hope so, anyway. Most importantly though...I want to be clear here... "NEGOTIATED INFIDELITY" IS BOTH OXYMORONIC AND NOT TO BE COMPARED TO SWINGING IN ANY WAY, SHAPE OR FORM. My statement is in all caps for a singular reason...I was yelling. I want the moderators to pull this thread...I don't want any new member to come along and see this comparison. It's wrong, dead wrong.
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