Hello all! I've been lurking on here for two or so years now and have learned quite a lot from this forum. This particular subject - How did you get started - is, and has been my #1 question for awhile now..
"It is only a fantasy..." Is exactly what my S.O. says as well.. She is incredibly turned on when we fantasize of another joining us.. I am very good at painting an imaginary sceneario for her.. She loves it and typically becomes "lost" or swept away in the fantasy.. Leading to wonderful and multiple orgasms.. She enjoys having me write her naughty stories as well.. Stories envolving others.. When we go out we "pick" people for each other and joke with one another about inviting them home with us.. We often cruise the internet looking for men and or women for one another.. Yet she continually says she could not go through with any of this in real life.. We have talked at length about it for 2+ years.. I would be quite interested in hearing from those of you who took the leap from fantasy to reality and how it finally took place for you.. Especially from you women out there who may have also once said "It is only a fantasy..."
If my lovely S.O. and I never take the leap from fantasy to reality, so be it. I will be ok with that. We will continue to have an amazing sex life regardless. However, the mere idea of witnessing the love of my life give, and more importantly to me, receive, sexual pleasure, to and from another.. Wow! Being able to witness that third person.. Being able to give her such a gift.. I am at a complete loss of words as how to describe just how incredible that would be