curiouscpl0416

Thank you Likeminds... I kinda found those two posts to be pretty offensive. My DH and I have been together 15+ years and married 13+ years. I have guy friends and he has girl friends... There is no sexual attraction there whatsoever. How dare these people make it sound as though the Mrs. R&S is playing games or whatever.... the point is... she and he were friends before the fiancee came along.... so why, now that there is a fiancee in the picture, should Mrs. R&S and her friend change their already platonic friendship just to please the new and oh so obviously insecure fiancee? It's not Mrs. R&S's issue or her guy friend's issue... the issue lies with the fiancee. The suggestion's given for taking her out to lunch etc.. were good suggestions. Take the time to build a friendship with his fiancee and assure her that your friendship is purely platonic and in time she'll come around.

Personally, we prefer shave each other, much easier for him to see mine and for me to see his... Plus it is incredibly intimate and erotic for him to have my hands down there moving his member this way and that and handling his boyz, stretching the skin to avoid nicking him etc. (plus, I can lean down and orally tease him every so often, he loves it!)... and vice versa him spreading my lips and getting into those hard to reach places etc... Did I mention that it's incredibly intimate? Now, as for tools... if you have an electric clipper set... they usually come with a much smaller mustache trimmer... it's perfect for those of you who don't mind a wee bit of stubble, it's what we use 99% of the time, and is really not very noticeable (plus there's the vibration factor).... on special occasions we break out the Mach 3 or the new 5-blade razor after using the trimmer (the 5-blade leaves less razor rash on both of us so we kind of prefer it now.) AND... we only use the shaving soap... leaves the skin much softer than the cream or gel, and helps to avoid the razor rash as well...BTW, I want to reiterate...it is INCREDIBLY intimate. Of course you would have to have a very high degree of trust in your SO to allow them down there with a razor... Did I forget to mention how intimate it is? Bar none, it is the most intimate thing we do with and for each other... well IMHO.

My (Sprout's) fav is doggie, or any variation of it. I even got a tat of a black panther on my lower back so DH could do me doggie and still see my pussy! DH's fav is any variation of doggie as well, but with rear entry!

(Sprout here) And thus explains my previous post... I was born and raised in Las Vegas, and have lived most of my life, since leaving home, in the South... excepting the 4 months I spent in Great Lakes, Illinois while going to Corps School when I was in the Navy, and the 8 or 9 months we (DH & I) spent in Philly right after we were married. DH was also in the Navy and his ship was in dry-dock at the time. Occasionally I'll even say "soda pop".

I usually say Soda, but Coke occasionally Pop(s) in there too.

We are a straight/straight couple. I am not opposed to girl on girl, so long as I'm blindfolded and don't know who's doing what to me.... and would be willing to try it for the sake of fulfilling a fantasy for DH, but in general, don't care for girl on girl activity. Just not my thing.

Been together 15+, married 13+ years. We've had some rocky times in the past, but we've survived it all, our marriage is stronger and better because of it all, and we are happier and more deeply in love now, than the day we married, and it just keeps getting better!

Same here, I could "get away with going Au Natural up until my son was about 5 but then DH insisted that I cover up. He said Son was getting a little too old, so out of respect for DH's feelings, I began to cover up around Son, BUT.... once he's settled in bed at night, OFF come the clothes. With my daughter however, DH will never convince me that I need to cover up. I want my daughter to learn to be comfortable with herself. The last thing I want for her is to be ashamed or self-conscious about her body! It's interesting to me that most of the couples here are just the opposite of DH and myself, in that, for them, it's usually him that is comfortable in the buff, but with us, it's me (her) that prefers to go nekkid. DH rarely steps out of our bedroom without at least putting shorts on, even when the kidlets are sleeping soundly.

I chose #4 for DH's sake. I wouldn't necessarily say it excites me to have other's see me, I just hate clothing in general. I am a BBW and have no issues when it comes to showing my body. DH OTOH, is not the exhibitionist that I am. I wear clothes only when I am cold or when I have to. I'm sitting here nekkid as I am posting in fact.

Sprout here, I have moments when I am perfectly happy to swallow cum, but those moments are very rare. I have an extremely strong gag reflex and simply cannot handle doing so on a regular basis. Deep throating.... same thing. I have to be in what I call my "zone" to be able to turn my reflex off. That said, I have no issue with a man cumming on my breasts, stomach, face (so long as I know it's coming, pardon the pun, as I am not fond of being shot in the eye, yes I have had that happen), or anywhere else, if he so desires. If I am giving a blow job and the man is about to cum, and I remove my mouth, I am more than willing to do whatever else is necessary to bring him back to orgasm, up to and including licking around and tongue diving into his ass. On the flip side of the coin.... if I am being eaten out, or otherwise pleasured, and the man chooses to stop just before I climax, though it may be the cause of a brief moment of frustration (and I have been known to cuss my husband out severely for doing so, :throwafit but in a playful manner) it is also, for me, the promise of a stronger and much more intense orgasm later. I have had a tubal ligation, therefore pregnancy is not a concern for me, however, the ONLY person who is going to have intercourse with me without using a condom, is my husband, and the ONLY person he is going to have intercourse with, without using a condom, is me. I know he is clean, he knows I am clean, but we wouldn't presume to expect anyone else to blindly trust our word for that, just as we would not blindly trust anyone else if they told us that they were clean. That's just, pure and simple, common sense. My personal opinion, it's just common courtesy to ask. Communication beforehand is key.... and that goes for both men AND women.