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Jake1178

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  1. My wife's first partner durring our relationship was a co-worker and a friend of mine. She developed a crush on him while we were all hanging out. He always thought she was so hot. It can ease tensions big time when you already know that person, things go easier.
  2. CHEATING is lying, going behind your partner's back. Being allowed to "cheat" can't exist. It's like legally breaking the law. All relationships have their boundaries, where certain things are only shared between each other. In an "open" relationship it's just like any other relationship except perhaps sex is not exclusive. There is a connection when there is sex, and it can lead to more, which makes it risky at times. There are pro's and con's.
  3. The girls I have been with were all my wife's friends, so yes they knew. However, with my wife, it's been both ways. I know what she's up to, but the guys usually don't. It seems her being "married but looking" has been a real desirable trait. It seems men like the "thrill of the hunt" and scoring a married woman seems to be a real prize. Guys don't want to be second to any man. So when they are getting a married woman who they think is sneaking off to be with them, that puts them first and the idea she desires them so much makes them feel like a real stud. Even she likes to play into the game a little, by "sneaking off" and then telling me about it later. This is really hot actually. Judge my morals if you want, but I don't care a damn thing about lies or the emotion state to a man who preys on married women. She wants to play her games and use them, oh well. However, several times my wife has had partners that were either married and they were going behind their wives' backs. If it was a one night thing or something, it's one thing, but as far as participating in an affair, no. At least not any more. A long time ago, she was a booty call for a few married guys, but when she saw someone close to her devastated from an affair, she cut that off. As far as the guys that she does let know, well, a few of them have become friends of mine. Funny thing, my wife introduced me to one of my best friends, instead of the traditional best friend introducing me to my wife. lol
  4. My wife is very open to this, she just hasn't met the right other guy. She had one boyfriend for about a year but he started seeing another girl and my wife and him broke up. The other she was with for about 6 months got super controlling. My wife is "single" as she is looking for a boyfriend, she has a husband. She would like to have two husbands. Too often, her relationships are more about sex. She meets a guy, goes through a newly wed stage where she's head over heals and having sex at least daily with them, then is just seems to fade off. She met a guy the other week, and is going on her third date tonight, maybe they will have more than sex. The first date did end in sex. The second date didn't so maybe this one will be more.
  5. A lot of good posts here. I think if I were in his position, I would be reluctant as well. It's not just an add on to the relationship, but he has to have another man do his job. Also, sounds like your first time doing anything like this. That also can make the situation intense.
  6. Well the first thing about DP is that you (the guy) will feel him (the other guy) on the other side. It can be very unnerving to say the least. The first time I kind of freaked out and pulled away, then totally lost the mood. It took a while to get over that, and when I put it in my mind I was doing it for her, I bit the bullet and got over it. Her getting off like she did made me get over it. It wasn't easy. My wife loves anal, after a few orgasms from vaginal sex. Her problem with me is she says I'm too thick for her anus. No I am no giant by any means, but she likes guys with slender than average penises when it comes to her back door. Her first "boyfriend" before we got married loved giving girls anal, had a really long, yet narrow penis, and they had anal all the time. We did a 3-some once and while she was riding me, he came up and went into her rear, she kind of looked shocked and that's when I lost it, I guess I didn't expect it. Later she said "it was pretty cool actually, I wish we could try it again". A few weeks later when we all got together, we were making love and he was behind her kissing her, and I would pull out and he would then enter. Then he began entering her rear, then when she came back to me and I entered her, she pulled him close and he started slowly entering her rear, I didn't feel him as much in this position, just more pressure. She really liked this. Once he slipped into her vagina when I was in there, she said it hurt too much having both of us, and that was weird, and I don't think I could ever get used to that! It takes some practice.
  7. Well as far as Mike is concerned: Although playing him like this is normally very WRONG, because he's going after a committed woman, he is setting himself up for it. The only other morality question is that because he's an ex, he has a history, and maybe there are feeling there. Wouldn't it been exciting if she had gotten in the truck? To me going a little too far is kind of exciting, although at the moment a bit disturbing. I remember my wife just kissing a guy, it was supose to be just a little kissing and maybe some up the shirt action. She ended up with her vagina filled with his semen.
  8. I was grossed out by the very idea. If he came, well, that sealed her. One day she went into the bedroom with her partner and I listened to them having sex. Needless to say I was very hard! She came out of the bedroom naked right afterwards and got on top of me, and well, I had no choice, I was inside her very slippery hot vagina, if felt amazing! I didn't last long. Then I relized that her pussy felt like that because of his cum. That opened the doors to other things. After that we discovered her favorite, when she strattles my face and then he pumps her vagina while I lick her clit.
  9. Not many have a problem with it. They may say they do, but when a pretty young girl is "willing" well, they won't walk away. When I was 22 I went on a date with a girl who said she was 19. She looked it and at first acted it. On our first date she gets frisky. She goes into the bathroom when we got to my place, came out in her bra and panties, gets on top of me. I don't know why, but something didn't add up, so I asked "are you really 19" almost as a joke. She hesitated before she said 19 and I as hard as it was, really questioned her. Turns out she was 15 but "almost 16" I told her she needed to get dressed and I took her home. She got all heartbroken and started crying feeling all rejected and I felt like a monster for letting her down. However, I would have been much more of a monster if I had gone through with it. She was a fine looking girl though, and I mean beautiful. I hope she is alright. When talking to her, it seems not many guys held back. What sickens me today is how when I told her "I'm too old for you" she told me that she had been with a 41 year old so I'm not near too old for her. Really? Appearantly she was quite a little slut and had been with a lot of guys, mostly in their late 20's and 30's. I may have saved myself a prison term, but I saved my dignity that is for sure.
  10. My wife told me before she got a toy she used to masterbate with a candle. I've seen her put a classic coke bottle in her vagina. It was a bit cold at first but we ran it under some warm water and some lube and it went in nice. Nothing too interesting.
  11. Yes she went bareback with him and of course I do worry about STDs as everyone should. About her smoking, I am sure that was only part of it. The talk about a divorce really put things in the red more than anything. Well, between the lies and that. The "affair" scenario was suppose to go like this: She finds a date and reveals the "affair" after the third time they have intercourse or when I ask. After my last post, she did see him again but only once. He asked her out a few times and when she went, he just played with his phone. It seems sex was their only interest. That infatuation period MN Tom mentioned is a funny animal. You meet someone and for whatever reason go nuts, get your fill of what you wanted and then they just aren't that great. My wife has an infatuation addiction I think. She meets a guy, goes nuts about him, then it just fades off real quick. I guess I'm the only guy she has really held onto. Anyways I can forgive her and we talked about it. She lies again it just won't be possible. We had a lot of fun in the past with it either being a friend of ours, or we would meet a guy for her and I would pretend to be her brother (which was a bit awkward to say the least, funny at first) or the roommate/good friend. None of this "separately" stuff or we really will be separate.
  12. I really don't care if someone thinks I am making this up. Wish I was really. Past experiences were so much different. It was usually a guy we both knew and she would get a little crush on him and away it went. After one guy went obsessive psycho stalker on her, she didn't want to play anymore. Then all of a sudden, she wants to play, but go on some wild cruise a girl from work told her about, or so she says. When we played in the past, the wildest thing she ever did was started dancing dirty with a guy at a club, and ended up going to his car to give him a BJ. She met a couple guys online and met up and had sex on the first meeting, but I was involved the whole time. This one was different and I kind of sensed something was up, and "they" say if you think something is up, usually something is. It just pisses me off the way she was secretive about this, and how she even considered leaving me for him. In the end she stayed on the right path but this one is not a good one. I feel sometimes having an open ended relationship is like giving her permission to go "test drive" others.
  13. Well it's been a while since I posted because I didn't know what to say. Well she had an affair. She met him before the cruise. The cruise was just a romantic get away with each other. When she first got back she was all about him. I didn't know what to do. I started getting serious about the divorce papers, and even had them printed out and that's when her attitude changed. Hell no will I be second to another man. No way in hell will I allow my woman to talk about divorce. That's the hard part for me to get over. About the actual affair, well, I dared her to have an affair and see how long it took me to figure it out. I knew she was online at dating sites. I just think she should have told me after a month or so either way. I think what killed them was actually simple. My wife smokes a little over a pack a day, which I don't smoke but it doesn't bother me. Well her boyfriend can't stand it. Once they really got to spending time together he didn't like it, and she didn't like not able to smoke when she wanted. So... that got in the way. Well I don't know where to go from here, but I need to be more involved with her.
  14. Yeah, a lot of it isn't as I'm finding out.
  15. Singles Cruises from SinglesCruise.com the Singles Vacation Specialist is where we got the info but she booked through a travel agent using her AmEx card. She got a discount so she took it. I haven't booked one, I have a hotrod I'd rather spend money on. If I wanted to hook up, well I don't think I need to book a cruise to find something. I might have to. I don't know about her complete story. She is very vague on her first two partners, actually told me the second one she didn't actually have intercourse with at all. I don't spy on her, but his yahoo screen name is one that is very similar to one that has been on there for a few months now. The past few months she has been rather happy, but the sex has been maybe once a week if I'm lucky. To be honest, she hasn't let me cum inside her in a while, and the past month she made me wear a condom saying the semen is burning her and it's cleaner. Last night we didn't actually have sex, she let me play with her and she gave me a handjob but that's it. To say I think something up is an understatement.
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