My husband and I recently spent some time with another couple. She and I played then went back to our partners. We didn't swap, although it was a time issue and not that we didn't want to. We talked about getting together again, etc... My question is this: Two days later the other wife started calling my husband asking if he made house calls (meaning alone). He declined, as I would have expected, but I'm really disappointed that she would even ask. Am I being silly or jealous or possessive in thinking this was overstepping the "swinging" thing? Asking a married man to cheat just because she thinks maybe its' okay?? I don't know what she was thinking really, but I don't want to play with them now anymore. I feel disrespected by her.
Any thoughts? Thanks. We're new to this.
