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lug9257

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About lug9257

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  • Birthday 02/07/1982

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    midwest
  1. After a few too many drinks last night we had a long discussion about it and as of right now she doesn't want anyone other then me and I respect that. I will continue to let her know my fantasy down the road but as of right now we will stay vanilla. I did see a side of her come out last night that I never had saw before...... She asked to watch porno... she wanted some story to It and all we had was the junk Adam and Eve sent when we bought a toy a new few weeks ago. But we had tons of fun. Sorry for any errors I am typing on my phone
  2. well it seems after a talk i may have been wrong(maybe). She says she has no desire to play with anyone else so it may come up in the future but as of right now its purely going to be my fantasy. I really do think she is ashamed of being turned down, I had asked her why she wanted me to talk to the other couple about it if she was not willing to play and she replied because i was bugging her about it yet this is the 1st time i have ever told her about my fantasy. There was a few others things she said that didn't add up but i don't want to be overly analytical. O well i am not going to push the subject because that would only cause unneeded problems:surrend:. Time will tell. I love her to death but her and i are at both at different places sexually. She is very lights off missionary stile while i am somewhat kinky and want to play with toys and watch porn. Her idea of spontaneous is to wake me up 20 minutes before we have to get ready for work and having me climb on top. When she has a few drinks a little of the crazy sex comes out as if she is too embarrassed and ashamed about her sexuality when she is sober. I think we need to work on getting closer in our ideas of sexuality before we move on to the swingers lifestyle.
  3. the thing about the "revised terms" was they where even less then what they where originally. I kind of felt they didn't get what i was saying but i didn't want to push the idea. Hoping a few weeks down the road the topic comes up again between the couple and it may come true but i can only dream until then Orig terms: Couple plays with my wife then Other wife plays with my wife and I My terms: My wife can play with the couple as long as i could watch and maybe do oral to both wives. Other wife does not need to play with me other then receive oral. Other question would be (i know you cant speak for all swingers) would you think it would be hard to find a couple who would be up for a 3.5 some
  4. About a month ago my wife was out with another couple and the topic of 3 somes came up somehow. I wasn't there but i am going by what she told me. The husband had said he would be willing to let his wife join us if i allowed my wife to join them. She told me about it the next day in a joking manner and i didn't think much of it. About a week later the idea popped back in my head and i started to think about it, i couldn't get it out of my head. I come to realize i would love to see my wife with another couple. I ended up texting her saying that you can tell A that if they are serious they wouldn't need to swap wives i would be ok with it as long as i got to watch and maybe touch a little but not really join in. After some talking about it she seemed into it and she wanted me to talk to the other couple about it. It turned out they where joking. After that situation i cant tell if my wife is embarrassed about being turned down or what but she keeps changing the subject. She seemed very into the idea before they said they where joking. Advice on if i should wait a bit and bring it up later or just drop the idea
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