well it seems after a talk i may have been wrong(maybe). She says she has no desire to play with anyone else so it may come up in the future but as of right now its purely going to be my fantasy. I really do think she is ashamed of being turned down, I had asked her why she wanted me to talk to the other couple about it if she was not willing to play and she replied because i was bugging her about it yet this is the 1st time i have ever told her about my fantasy. There was a few others things she said that didn't add up but i don't want to be overly analytical. O well i am not going to push the subject because that would only cause unneeded problems:surrend:.
Time will tell. I love her to death but her and i are at both at different places sexually. She is very lights off missionary stile while i am somewhat kinky and want to play with toys and watch porn. Her idea of spontaneous is to wake me up 20 minutes before we have to get ready for work and having me climb on top. When she has a few drinks a little of the crazy sex comes out as if she is too embarrassed and ashamed about her sexuality when she is sober.
I think we need to work on getting closer in our ideas of sexuality before we move on to the swingers lifestyle.