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rotten&spoiled

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About rotten&spoiled

  • Rank
    Contributor
  • Birthday 06/13/1981

Personal Info

  • Relationship Status
    s. Female
  • Location
    Waterford, Michigan
  • Interests
    singing, camping, bowling, playing cards
  • Swinging Experience
    4 years
  1. ..........when your straight girl friend comes over, does her laundry, drops a pair of thongs, later when found you ask your hubby "Do you know anything about these?," before you remember about the laundry.
  2. I agree whole heartedly with S&D. If she has asked about this person before then you have to tell her... It will hurt her tremendously and you may loose her. If your relationship is strong enough it will survive it. You both will probably stop swinging, during the serious mending that needs to be done. I have been the cheater, my hubby and I have been on the mend for a few years and it is only now that he is reaching the point where he is ready to start our swinging lifestyle. It will take a very long time from here even before we swing alone. For now every thing I do with a woman or man has to be told to him and he must approve. If he doesn't I don't do it.
  3. Thank you all for your imput minus the people that think I am playing games. Especially ty to Like Minds321, for setting a couple people straight. There is totally a double standard in this day and age still. Not all men will just jump in bed with any woman. If she trusted or knew him at all she would know that he isn't one of them. He is a very faithful man when he is commited to someone. Yes in the past when he was not commited to her he would have jumped me if we didn't have strict groundrules, but he went for three years without anyone else ( a very horny boy). I have been trying to be friendly with her. I emailed her so that she could digest what I was telling her and be adult about it, because I was with her. I have even explained to her that I understand that me and her fiancee can't be as close as we once were, that he won't have time to be. She didn't listen to word I wrote. She said things like he wasnt going to choose me over her and crazy things like that. She is nuts!! I don't think it is going to last for very long with them anyway. She is causing too much drama for him. I found out since my last thread that she is also trying to cut a couple of his guy friends out of his life too. She thinks they will be bad influences on him. This girl has a friendship with an ex and says that her fiancee will learn to deal with it. She has no respect for his wishes ( he doesn't want her talking to her ex), but expects him to just follow her wishes about his platonic friends. Now I understand other vanilla couples don't always think like us swingers, they have jealousy issues and things. I was never asking to spend alone time with him. I just wanted it so that I could, call him occasionally when I need all the support I can get, be there for him when he needs the same and just go to the bar, sit and chat, have a few beers, and sing a couple songs. That's all I am asking for. I am one of the guys when I hang out with him. I can be a little more like myself without weirding out my straight girlfriends. Thanks for all your replies it has really helped me vent to all of you Mrs R&S
  4. Well I guess you would consider me very close to one of those "married lesbians" you speak of. I would never leave my hubby feeling left out that way. To make it easier for him if we do go to parties and he wanted to play with a girl that was part of a couple I would gladly play with the man even though that is not my preference. It is my top priority to make sure we are both having a good time. Furthermore, I cannot believe anyone here or anywhere for that matter would touch without being invited that is disgusting and if any guy touched me without being asked I would probably kick his butt severely. So you have a lot more self control than I could ever have.
  5. Hello all, I have a question for you. I am the Mrs. of my couple and I have this guy friend. He is one of my best friends. There is nothing sexual about our relationship. He just got engaged to a woman who doesn't trust me with her fiance because she knows I am a swinger. When it comes to my sexual preference I am mostly gay. I don't find most men attractive. They don't get me hot. Have any of you ever had this problem? Were you able to mend fences enough to continue to be this persons friend? Mrs. Rotten&spoiled
  6. Hello, I am the women half of my marriage. Before we got married, before we even thought of being swingers I had a couple flings. My hubby was not very commited to me then and so at times I felt alone. The point is now about three years later we are working on the trust issues and are playing with the idea of becoming swingers. This was my idea. He is a little un sure whether he can handle me being with another guy, but it may come later. Just give it time and don't do anything you are not fully ready to. You must communicate with her and let her know that secret relations are not ok, and if she goes against that then things are probably not going to go well for the two of you. Good Luck
  7. I (female) was about 8 months pregnant when a friend of mine decided she wanted to come over. She and I had been flirting with the idea for quite a while. I was bicurious at the time and was excited to try things out. We ended up having a threesome and it was fun watching her with my husband when I was wore out. I think it was what helped us start our lives in the lifestyle.
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