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  1. We have been swinging for almost four years and have enjoyed many mfm threesomes and quite a few same room swaps. It has been about three months since the topic of separate room play came up and we have been going over this idea over and over since. This talk started when the female half was out with some of our swinger friends wives. She came home that night and told me about one of the friend's experiences with this type of swinging. She was clearly turned on and as I found out a few minutes later, she was very wet as well. To make a long story short, she asked me if I would be into doing some separate room swinging? I never even thought about doing separate rooms until she brought up the subject. I do however have to admit that this idea was a big turn-on when I got a moment to think it over. Now the point of my post: Could any couples out there who are experienced in separate room swinging give us some pointers or share your experiences with us so that we can know what to expect when we enter this type of play situation? Also, please feel free to add whatever comments you feel would be helpful to us. Thank you all so much!
  2. The idea behind SLS is good but, there are so many fakes, BS and single men posing as couples that it is hard to get anywhere with that site. We have been members for almost three years and have only met two real couples there.
  3. I would not say that we have a poly relationship because there is no love involved between me and the other man. We use the term boyfriend because he plays with us/me on a regular basis, not because I have any deep feelings for him. As I have said in the past it is just sex and a way to add some spice to our already great sex life. I think that some people are reading too much into my post and seem to think that it is more than what the experience really is.
  4. There may be some degree of humiliation for your hubby in your arrangement, however; in ours there is not. I have never said or even feel that the sex is better with my boyfriend, it is just something we do to add spice. It is the same thing when he brings home another lady, I don’t have an element of humiliation nor does he feel that the sex is better with his lady friend.
  5. The only significance is that we like the color contrast of the skin tones, nothing more. You are reading into things far too much. As I said before, we are not into the cuckold lifestyle whatsoever. The only reason we even kept playing with this man we call my BF is that we know him, trust him and enjoy spending time with him on a social level as well as our sex play. My husband is just as free to play with other women as I am with other men, in fact he often brings home women for us to have fmf fun with as well. As far as I understand, this would not be allowed in a Cuckold situation.
  6. You got that one totally wrong. For us there is no humiliation aspect in this situation. Hubby just likes to have sex with me after my boyfriend finishes in me, nothing more. We don’t do any of the other things the Cuckold relationships do. He does not eat the other mans cum or I don’t refuse to have sex with him or any other humiliation rituals.
  7. Yes I would, but as I said he does enjoy it as much as I do.
  8. We are nonsmokers and think that smoking is a nasty dirty habit. We will swing with those who smoke if they don’t do it around us and don’t smell like an ashtray. It’s not that hard to carry some mouthwash and fabric freshening spray and use it after a smoke. If potential swing partners are not willing to do those things at a minimum, then they don’t care enough about our friendship for us to bother with them.
  9. One way to look at it is like this. Many couples have profiles on sites like SLS, they put in their profile that they are willing to meet with single men and when you contact them they say they are not. The truth is that a good portion of couples in the lifestyle don’t want to meet with single men, but since they can’t find a single woman willing to meet with them, they put single men in their profile. We have been in the lifestyle for almost five years and have found that there are a lot of fakes on sites like SLS. Our experiences with clubs have been about 50/50 good to bad. Our problem with the clubs is that it seems that people there are pushy and only care about their own pleasure. Also, we have run into many people who only want to play with the female half of the couple and expect the male to just watch or find something else to do while they play. Most of the swinging friends we have we met in other ways, such as bars and through other swinging friends. So, I would have to say that some clubs charge such high prices for single men to make money by subsidizing the low rates charged for single female’s.
  10. It’s not that we are poly, he’s my longtime regular playmate. We just use the term “boyfriend” to denote that status in our relationship. That’s not to say that I don’t have some type of feelings for this other man, but when it comes down to it, I only love my husband.
  11. First, not all of the 10 couples play on a regular basis. We have ten couples because not all people can get together more than every couple of months, this insures that we all can find people who want to play when we have time. Second, my bf and the other single man we play with are part of the group. It’s not that bad actually, playtime works out to about twice per week.
  12. I would say as close as one could come to perfect. We are all professional couples and a couple singles who all wanted a discrete and safe group to have worry free play, virtually any time day or night. It has been great so far and there have been no issues.
  13. I am always horny! If I don’t get sex at least once a day I masturbate four or five times in a day. If it were not for the lifestyle, I would go insane!
  14. We have a doctor in our group who does tests on everyone at very low cost, we all get tested monthly. Also, if anyone in the group was ever under suspicion of breaking the rules they would be thrown out at once. I’m not saying that the odds are 100% but there is just as big of a chance of a condom breaking and contracting an STD.
  15. We love mfm! Just make sure that you can find a guy who is into developing a friendship with both of you, it makes it so much better. Right now we have two male friends we do mfm with. One we have been friends with for years and the other has been within the last year and a half. The key is that we all know and trust everyone involved and that makes the experience worlds better.
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