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funfrkycpl last won the day on June 17 2008

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About funfrkycpl

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  • Birthday 01/12/1974

Personal Info

  • Relationship Status
    Couple
  • Location
    Cincinnati, Ohio
  • Swinging Experience
    8 wonderful years!

Swinger Info

  • Favorite Club(s)
    Hotel Parties are our favorite lifestyle events.
  1. I have extremely sensitive nipples and breasts I and love to have them pinched, squeezed, twisted, nibbled on, and bit by playmates that know what they are doing. I can cum and have very intense orgasms from just nipple and breast play, but my husband and a long time female lover of mine are the only two people that have made me come this way. It isn't something that happens quickly and they both know it takes time to get to that point, but they also know the end result is an intense, gushing, and uncontrollable orgasm. Mrs. Funfrkycpl
  2. I'm not into labels, but if people ask I tell them I am bisexual. I considered myself bicurious for years, even after making out with women in bars and having a friend eat me out in front of my husband after a night of bar hopping. I knew that I enjoyed the touch of another woman, but I still wasn't sure if I it was just a curiosity or if I could go any further with woman. All of this happened before we became swingers, but after our first night at a swingers club there wasn't a doubt in my mind that I was bisexual and that I needed to make up for lost time.
  3. We have seen a few F/F couples at clubs and parties we have been to and they were treated just like everyone else. With that said, F/F couples are a rarity in the lifestyle from our experience and even though lifestylers always talk about how open minded they are we have found a high percentage to be closed minded when it comes to people that are "different" than them or their group of friends. You may find that one group or club will welcome you with open arms and the next may not be as welcoming. Unfortunately, that is something a lot of people experience in the lifestyle and you just have to try to find the place that you fit in and feel comfortable. My wife and I actually met a lesbian couple and have become really good friends with them. We hang out with them a lot, but when it comes to playing it's just the ladies.
  4. When we started out in the lifestyle we had a bunch of rules, but over time as we both became more comfortable with the lifestyle we decided that a lot of our rules limited our fun. We talked about it and came to the conclusion that most of the rules we had weren't necessary for us. Now our only hard rules are: Condoms are must for intercourse, always communicate, and HAVE FUN!!! Everything else, we just go with the flow as long as neither of us is uncomfortable with the situation.
  5. Right now we use three sites on a regular basis, SwingersZoneCentral, Swappernet, & SwingLifestyle. Out of those three we think that SwingersZoneCentral is by far the best & is getting better all the time. Great customer service, great message board, & great party utilities. The groups on there aren't very active, but as the site grows we think that is going to change. A year ago we would have probably said Swappernet, but in our opinion a lot of the changes they have made over that last few years have really hurt the site. It use to be the most active site we were on, but that isn't the case anymore. More and more people we know are leaving the site everyday & most of the people we know that are still on there, wouldn't be if they weren't lifetime members. If we didn't host parties & use the party invite system so often we would have left too. Hopefully they start to make some positive changes soon, but the way things have gone we doubt that will happen. We don't use Swinglifestyle as much as we use to, but we think it's a good site. Not much to brag about, but we don't have anything negative to say about it either. There are a few other sites we really like, LoveVoodoo, swingers date club, & LifestyleLounge, but they just aren't very active in our area. The site that we think has the most potential is Kasidie. It started out as a online magazine for swingers with a lot of very informative articles, but they now have a personals section of the site as well. Again the only problem we have is there aren't many members from our area and the ones that are from our area we already know.
  6. Thanks for the Swingfest report ncmd_couple! We have heard from a lot of couples that attended the event and have heard a mix of good, bad, and somewhere in between reviews. We think that is to be expected with an event like this and it isn't a surprise that some people loved it and will defintely go back, others hated it and will not go back, and that some people are going to wait to see if their concerns are addressed before deciding if they will attend the event again. One of the things we have learned since we first started hosting lifestyle events is that most people understand if things aren't perfect, but they aren't as understanding if you tell them certain things are going to happen or they are going to recieve certain things and it doesn't happen. That is the biggest complaint we have heard about Swingfest.
  7. If we are playing at a club or a party I prefer that they cum in my mouth. I love to feel a man explode in my mouth and to swallow every drop. It is also much easier to clean up and rejoin the party. If we are playing at someones house or a hotel I still prefer that they cum in my mouth, but cumming on my face or tits is ok too.
  8. This is a huge fantasy of ours, but it's one of those fantasies that will never be fulfilled. For us the risks of bareback sex, with others, outweigh the the thought of fulfilling our fantasy.
  9. Even though I do have a preference for men that are well endowed to very well endowed, I have never played with man just because of the size of his penis. When we are at a club or party and looking for a single man to join us I have to be physically attracted to him and he has to make a good first impression on me with his personality. Without these two things it doesn't matter how big he is. If he is well endowed, knows how to use it, and has great stamina that is just a plus for me.
  10. Since you talk to him about it, have you told him the responses you are getting? How does he feel about taking a step back?
  11. We think you are making the right decision by taking a step back from the lifestyle. There isn't a rush, the lifestyle will still be here when and if you both get on the same page and decide to pursue it again. It's great that you are going to stick around. Does your husband ever get on here and read any of the threads? Have you shown him this thread? If you have what are his thoughts on everything?
  12. Unfortunately this is one of the risks that all of us that are active in the lifestyle take. You can take every possible precaution, including testing, but nothing will protect you %100. We applaud 50sLady for her openness and honesty about her situation. We also respect your decision to not participate in the lifestyle any longer, but there are sites for swingers with herpes if you change your mind. We did a search and came up with this one, HSwing.com - A Sex and Swingers Community for Adults with Herpes If everyone knew the exact number of swingers with herpes there would probably be a lot less people in the lifestyle.
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