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WildHogs

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  1. Hi. Answering this part: "If I had of been there, I would not have left. I probably would have taken the kids outside and kept them entertained until a real life adult with a maturity level came out and took them home. THEN I would have grabbed my coat and my Dog and headed out the door." This is kind of what happened with us. For a lot of the early part of this, because it felt way too weird to mix swinger party with kids present, I ended up playing ball in the yard outside with the kids. To be honest, it was the most fun I had at this party. They were sweet kids. We had just come inside for a few minutes at the time of the topless picture-taking & women rubbing each other, followed by us blocking the little guys from seeing in the glass door. It was a knee-jerk reaction for us to look behind us and think about those kids when we saw what was going on. It bothered us a lot that their own family didn't seem to care as much about them. Within a short time before we left, this is when we learned that (1) the kids were sent home alone, (2) the drugs came out, and (3) their parents were drunk and were about to get high, too. They had it in their hands as we were leaving. Unfortunately for those kids, "a real life adult with a maturity level" didn't materialize for them to take them home. When we first arrived and saw the kids and asked about them, we were told they were leaving any minute (with their parents, we thought). That's pretty much why we stayed and tried to make the best of it, thinking that "any minute" this party would be changing gears and we could get more comfortable there. They kept repeating "any minute". This is the first time we'd been at something like this with kids there. It took us by surprise. If we had known they would be there, we wouldn't have gone. We know of another group of people that do (or did) have combo family/swing events together on purpose, like cookouts, because (they said) it's hard to get babysitters. GAG We were actually invited once by that group and wouldn't go there if they were the last swingers on the planet. About this: "She said not problem, we can go to MrDonalds and the kids can play. I know she isn't ignorant or stupid, I also know that it was vanilla, with no sex talk at all, just get to know you stuff. But even that made me uncomfortable." That would have made us uncomfortable, too. We would have asked for a different time & place to meet, too.
  2. We're not trolls. We've posted hundreds of times here under our regular name. We've been in the lifestyle for a few years. We've met a lot of people. We find a great many of them to be the kind of people we aren't that comfortable around. Somebody early on here said something about the party-hard types. That's what we mostly find, unfortunately. It's not that we don't like a party. We like fun. We think we are fun, but we are selective, we don't act like 'hos in front of the general public, we prefer to stay sober. A lot of the swingers we tend to meet aren't so much like this. When we meet the rare couple (maybe it's our area?) that we connect with, they're either fairly far away, or there's some other logistical problem. Someone asked if the hosts were newbies. The couple who hosted the party have been in the lifestyle for many, many years. They are fairly new to our area but they have lifestyle friends from all over the country and beyond. They seem to basically live for this stuff. Their house reflects that. Nothing wrong with this. It was the situation with their young relatives who were there, and their very casual presentation of the drugs. Also, they seemed to be trying to get their guests drunk (most of these people are more than willing to get drunk with no help). :rollseyes The hosts were passing shooters around every 15-20 minutes and some were "just for the ladies". Seemed like they had a motive. We knew or knew of some of the couples at that party. They are typical of who's on the adult websites around here. The host couple think of themselves as picky. Imagine who they left out, if they're picky? Most of them are what we would describe as "rode hard and put away wet". They were all lifestyle regulars. The only newbies there were that one non-smoking couple we got to talk to briefly. We quit dating through the profiles awhile back. We were tired of the blind dates, wasting all that money and a night out just to meet people we'd rather not have. We have met a few people we really enjoyed that way, and we're still in touch with them, but overall it's a crappy and inefficient way to meet people. Lee, thanks for your perceptiveness that my post is real, and that swingers such as who we run into (all too often) most definitely do exist. In fact, they thrive. If at least half of the swingers we meet were like the people who post regularly on this board, we would think we were in hog heaven. As it is, I'd say that people who conduct themselves in a classy manner, are interesting to get to know (to us), and are attractive (to us) are less than 10% of what's available to us. Probably less than 5%. They are very hard to find. We're tired. Is our experience unusual?
  3. We are members of this board, but using a different name for this post just in case anybody in this story may happen to read here. We went to a house party at the home of a couple we have gotten to know somewhat (lifestyle circles) but haven't been intimate with. They seem like very friendly and fun people. Very social. When we got there, several young kids were there. The parents of these kids and the kids are relatives of the host couple. We hear that they won't be there very long. Okay - weird they're there at all, but - okay. The parents of the kids know about their relative's/host's activities. The party goes on. People are drinking. People getting rowdier, and still waiting for kids to leave - but acting up enough that we WildHogs feel creepy about this whole thing. Someone's shirt comes off out in the yard where the kids are playing (somewhat blocked from kids view by more sober people). Ick. Inside the house, 2 women take off tops and are posing for the host, who is snapping pics of them. Kids are trying to get in the glass door at that moment. We WildHogs stand against the glass door to keep them out at that moment and block their view. (Host knows that his young relatives are trying to get in but he keeps snapping pics.) ICK. Still, we are told that kids are about to leave any minute. Feeling creepy, but we decide to stay a little longer and maybe the creepy cloud over this party will lift. Kids sent home to be by themselves (live nearby) but parents, who are drunk now, are staying. Party gets rowdier, but we WildHogs just are not catching the vibe this night. The drunkest chick there (first one with no top), appears to have a big herpes breakout on her mouth. ICK - and she's trying to kiss everybody. Everybody in the house goes into the one room where smoking is allowed. Imagine 20 smokers all lighting up at the same time, and we two who seem to be the only non-smokers there trying to blend in and be social, but leaving very frequently for oxygen. Another obstacle for breaking this mood. (It seems like the ratio of smokers in this lifestyle is far higher than the ratio in the general population.) Start talking to one nice couple outside of that room who also seemed to be coming up for air. Learned they are non-smokers, also. They're attractive. Start talking... then, drunk people butt in on us and break up the conversation. Next thing we know, drugs are brought out and served up on a platter. Mom and Dad (parents of those little kids) are now getting stoned on top of getting drunk. As soon as we see this, it's over. We leave (politely make excuses). We are so grossed out. It just seems like many of the lifestlyle people we meet are skanky like the characters in this story. Maybe our standards are too high. Maybe we want too much and are unrealistic. Maybe we just don't fit in. Maybe swinging isn't for us? Do any of you ever get to these grossed-out moments in swinging and wonder the same things? Do you ever feel like you're just burned out on the whole thing when things happen that really turn you off, making you not wish to keep meeting people like this? Do you take breaks when this happens, or is this when you simply quit? Thanks for listening. advice is welcome.
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