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  1. Thanks again for replying. We have some experience in the lifestyle: MFM play and some soft MFMF. Since we love MFM, Ms. Geo thought it'd be fair to try an FMF. We're not young anymore, and my recovery time isn't what it used to be. I see your point about another woman not wanting to play with us if Ms. Geo isn't bi or at least bi-curious. It's downright logical, in fact. If we never have an FMF, that's OK. Again, I appreciate your comments.
  2. Yes, it's a couple's thing for us, though an MFM is our favorite. One time on vacation Ms. Geo woke me up and started sexy talk and foreplay. The sexy talk was all about inviting another woman to bed with us. Ms. Geo is not submissive at all. Does she follow what I say? Oh, good grief, no!
  3. Thanks for replying. Yes, we know finding a unicorn will be tough. What we didn't know is that it'd be almost impossible if Ms. Geo isn't bi. Well, we can hope. And yes, we know an MFM is much easier. 🙂
  4. Hello, We’ve fantasized about having a second woman join us in bed. Ms. Geo is straight. She’s said that maybe—stress “maybe”—she’d let the other woman touch her breasts. But she would not miss it if that didn’t happen. She wouldn’t want FF kissing or oral. I’m fine with her choices. So what usually happens with a straight FMF after a male orgasms? If the man needs recovery time and there’s no FF play, what do those of you experienced in FMFs do? Yes, the man could use his hands or mouth, but there might be a limit, and sometimes an aroused woman needs a cock (so says Ms. Geo). OK, there are toys, too, but would that be a good substitute in an FMF? Ladies, if you’re in an FMF, do you want your man to fuck the other woman or you first? If the other woman, is it OK for your man to come inside her, or do you want him to save it for you? If he saves it for you, what happens to the other woman of he switches to you before the other woman orgasms? The man could give oral sex and an orgasm to the other woman first, maybe? But that’s starting to look a little scripted, we think. Men, if you’re in an FMF, who do you like fucking first—your partner or the other woman? Or does it matter at all, and you just go with the flow? Ladies and men, in a totally straight FMF, what do you like to do after the man orgasms and waits to recover? And again for the couples, do you like saying good-bye to the other woman after round one, or do you like waiting and having a second round, or a maybe a third (a third round would be a lot easier with an FFM, we know)? Do any of you take a break from sex between FMF rounds to have a snack, a glass of wine, or maybe just some casual talk? For those of you who’ve experienced this situation, do you have any suggestions? Sorry for the 101 questions, but thanks for any ideas and answers you have. Geo 🙂
  5. I love licking my come off a woman's breasts. It took me many years to try it, though. The first time was with a girlfriend (I was divorced). I was about 39 years old. We were having a long sex session one evening. We both did oral (she orgasmed, I waited), then we fucked. I was close to coming, and decided I'd like to try licking my come off her breasts. I told her that and she liked the idea. I was on top of her, so I pulled out and masturbated to climax. I shot all over her breasts and stomach. I rubbed my come into her breasts—I love how come looks on breasts!—and with a little trepidation, dived in. I liked it! After that relationship, I met Ms. Geo. I've had the pleasure of licking my come off her breasts many times. The first was in a private hot tub that we were lucky to have to ourselves one night. We had done a lot of foreplay in the water, some oral with each of us sitting on the edge, and some fucking, though sex in the water of a hot tub isn't the best. I sat on the edge again and she gave me a blow job. When I was close to coming, I pulled her up and came on her breasts. She rose out of the water some more and I greedily licked my come off her. Moving off-topic a bit, I'll share that I am not shy about tasting my come in other instances. When I have masturbated, I've often tasted my precome. The ladyfriends in my life have tasted it often, so why shouldn't I? And I love kissing a woman after she's had my cock in her mouth. I can't taste my precome that way, but the thought of kissing a woman who's just had me in her mouth is a turn on. And that leads me to one other thing: giving oral to a woman after coming in her pussy. I've done that with Ms. Geo. I decided that I wanted to try it. Yes, indeed. So one time while having sex with her, I was excited by the thought and really wanted to do it. But after my orgasm, the desire was gone. Poof! So I didn't do it. The same thing happened the next time we had sex—wanted to do it, but didn't want to after my orgasm. The next time, I decided I'd do it no matter what. Yes, the desire was weak after my orgasm, but I just did it anyway. And I liked it! I've had male friends tell me that they'd never taste their own come, that their partners would have to brush their teeth after a BJ before kissing them again. So I know it's not for everyone. But for me, it's a wonderful thing.
  6. I just found this thread and I know it's very old. And adding to Lawrence's quote, willoats said earlier: "...but there is inevitably a bit of saliva from the other guy when I go down on her. I don't really like it, but it's not so bad I won't do it." I initially had a slight hang-up about this, before realizing that if a woman I'm with has passionately kissed another man, his saliva will be on her lips and inside her mouth. Not even speaking about giving oral sex to a woman who had recently had another man go down on her, if the woman and man did some natural foreplay, his saliva would likely be on her neck, throat, and elsewhere--especially her breasts. I know In college I kissed women who had recently kissed another man. No big deal. Once I realized that after a woman I might be playing with likely had had oral foreplay with another man and that I'd be touching, licking, and sucking her breasts that had the another man's saliva on them, I had to think a little bit. But not for long--LOL. It ended up not being a problem. But each to his own, and I'm not judging. :-) As I said in another thread, I've given oral sex to a woman after coming inside her. But I would not do that with another man's semen in her. I know some men who'd like that. Giving a woman I'm with oral sex after another man just gave her oral sex? No problem. We're all different. I had an affair with a hotwife once. Could her husband have come in her mouth or pussy on a day she and I spent together? She said they hadn't. If they did, I could not tell. Maybe she cleaned well before meeting me, but I have a feeling she was honest about the issue. My best guess is that her husband waited for her to come home before doing anything. I'll never know for sure, and all worked out well. If some men don't mind sharing another man's saliva that's on a woman he's playing with and other men do mind, well...vive la difference! Geo
  7. I love your metaphor! I haven't always found it to be true with the women I've been with--that is, they all haven't always had that sexy "I've just been naughty" (in a good way) look--but it's a sexy image. And the women I've been with who have had that look? Well, it is so darn erotic! On a side note, my ex once took a photo of me still in bed after she and I had just had sex (she was up and moving around the bedroom, while I was still in post-orgasmic bliss). I had that "just been fucked look." (Replying to a very old thread.) Geo
  8. Thanks, Numex. We've done a lot of this. We've talked about some of her former lovers, including how she lost her virginity. (It was her decision of when to do it. She instigated the act at a summer camp with a fellow counselor a couple years older than she was. She decided to just go into his tent early one morning and climb into bed with him.) One time on a long, boring drive home from somewhere that I forget, I asked her to share some of her sexual adventures that she'd had before we met. She did, and we did some light touching in the car on the deserted road (not enough touching to make driving dangerous; I was behind the wheel). We were at a dinner party one time with colleagues of hers. One couple had recently gotten pregnant and declared to the table that though it had taken them a long time to get pregnant, they broke one of the rules. Apparently one expert the woman had consulted said that certain positions are better than others. Another recommendation was that the woman trying to get pregnant NOT try to have an orgasm while having sex to conceive. The woman proudly said that they had ignored that rule and had gotten pregnant anyway. Interesting table talk! That same evening, and I forget how it came out, the topic of sex came out again. Ms. Geo got into the conversation and mentioned a former lover, one she'd had in college many years before meeting me. She said the sex they had was great. I had no problem with that. We have used threesome and MFMF fantasies in bed many times. Usually they come from stories we've read to each other, but once in a while we'll insert a person we know. Ms. Geo thinks one of her doctors is handsome and sexy, and she used him in an MFM fantasy a few times. I had no problem! We've also used a few friends, though not as often as unnamed, imaginative lovers. One time quite a few years ago while we were on vacation, Ms. Geo woke me up with the fantasy of an FMF (never had one). (Ms. Geo is straight, but has said it the moment was right, she might let another woman caress her breasts, which is something I find exciting.) But this fantasy was for my benefit, and as she made slow love with me she talked in detail about how the two women would touch me, suck me, fuck me... That led to a great orgasm for me as you might imagine. (I have a fantasy of a new woman sucking me to climax while I kiss Ms. Geo and suck her breasts.) And you're right: getting my own sloppy seconds is great. That's happened quite a few times with former lovers and with Ms. Geo. It's just too bad that it can't happen with an MFM threesome or an MFMF. The idea of the other man coming inside her and then me sliding into her is mind-blowing. Still, we think the risk of an STD isn't worth it. You and we seem to be on the same page, Numex. Thanks for your input. :-) Geo
  9. I would love to experience this--and I envy you--but I just don't think it'd ever hapen with us. I guess the most I can hope for--and Ms. Geo, too--is post-sex semen play with just the two of us. The idea of what you've experienced, Numex, is a turn-on for us, no doubt. If you're happy, more power to you! :-)
  10. Bluespruce1: The thought of having sex with Ms. Geo after a man has come bareback in her vagina is a turn-on. So far, we haven't done it: we're afraid of STDs. Yes, some really intimate foreplay can cause some STDs. (I've posted some info in other threads.) I love Ms. Geo's slippery vagina, and it'd be even hotter with extra lubrication form another man--and her turn-on from just having a new lover in addition to the extra wetness. But I doubt that would ever happen with us. You are certainly welcome to having any feelings you want, but neither of us is into humiliation. (No offense. It's all the merrier with variations, so please don't take this as criticism). :-) Many times after I've come on a lady--especially on her breasts--I've licked my semen off her(sometimes that's led to a sudden round #2 of sex). I've eaten Ms. Geo's pussy after coming in her, and I liked that. I would not do that with another man's semen, though, even IF that were that were to happen. If the new man came on her body, I would not hesitate to immediately have sex with Ms. Geo, assuming she was ready for it that soon, getting the other man's semen all over my body. Geo Geo
  11. Edited: sent to wrong thread. This edited post is not related to my above post.
  12. I have a question that I've never seen addressed, though I might have missed it on this site or another site. Has anyone gotten jock itch (tinea cruris) from sex play? And what about athlete's foot (tinea pedis)? One peer-reviewed medical article from England said that on average 12% of English people have athlete's foot at any given time. I am assuming the percentage might be the same for people in the US, since our two countries have similar populations and good doctors and hospitals. Foot-play and bare-foot-contact are common in the LS. Does anyone here think it's a viable risk? Ms. Geo got athlete's foot once (many years ago) while training for a marathon. It was cured quickly with an oral drug and a topical. A year before that--and this is a long time ago--I got jock itch in a hospital from nurses checking a post-surgical drain bag that hung between my legs. We are both fungal-free (and have been for years), but the idea of catching one of these again is a downer. Thanks, Geo
  13. Hi, The operative word here is "reduced." That does not mean "zero chance," especially with some STDs. I will look up The Netherlands study. Best of luck!
  14. My wife and I haven't done the hotwife thing, but I had a nice long-term affair with a hotwife after my divorce. Our sex was incredible. I have no doubt that she shared our adventures with her husband after she got home. Good memories, even though this experience happened many years ago.
  15. I know i'm replying to an old post. Many years ago a friend of ours asked me for advice after having a one-night, post-divorce fling. She knew we were more experienced about sex than she was (we're bit older). I'm the husband, and she asked me questions because she was scared. The two of them had used condoms for intercourse, but they had had unprotected oral sex. I asked if she had brought him to orgasm that way and if she had swallowed (as I said were very good friends, though nothing sexual has happened between us). She said she had swallowed his semen. Pre-come has everything a male has to offer, but with much fewer sperm (some sperm may be present, but in most cases not enough to cause a pregnancy--never say never, though!)About one third of semen comes from the prostate gland. Much more comes from the seminal vesicles. There are glands that provide some seminal fluid, including some of the pre-come. Only a tiny fraction of semen comes from the testes (and, as said, a tiny amount of sperm can be released with pre-come). I recommended that she go to a clinic and be tested for every STD. She had had the same thought. I'm glad to report that all her tests were negative. Years later she entered her 2nd marriage, still STD-free, and is a happy lady. When she had her full battery of tests after that one-night stand, the counselor said she should be checked for gonorrhea of the throat because she had give her man unprotected oral sex and had swallowed his semen. I don't know if the counselor mentioned the possibility of oral-infected chlamydia, but given her clinic's thoroughness, I bet that was a concern that was tested for. All I know is that a good, vanilla friend was happy to tell me a month or so later that she was STD-free. All that said, I have never used a dental dam when giving oral sex to a woman. If a new woman (I'm in a long-term relationship) wanted me to wear a condom when giving me oral sex, I would oblige. And condoms for intercourse outside of marriage? Yes, certainly. They're great, although they don't guarantee remaining STD-free. Bottom line for the main question: Yes, if a man has an STD, unprotected oral sex could transmit it. The throat might catch the disease. If not, farther down the stomach's acid should kill most of it. (This is a theory; please check with a doctor if you are concerned.) People have mentioned gonorrhea and HPV, both good candidates for women (or men) swallowing semen or ingesting pre-come (some men can have copious pre-come.) No one yet has mentioned syphilis. I am not a doctor or any other medical practitioner. But I have done research into all this. When applicable, I ask my urologist about concerns like this. Geo
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